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Re: If you don't mind my asking, BlackAdder Send a noteboard - 09/05/2010 10:11:43 PM
do you help in some sort of formalised way? By volunteering, through your job, via organised third parties etc.?

Or are we talking more informal, pass it along sort of helpfulness, which is both more random and a tad more personal?

:)

I would say both types have the same effect for me. I like knowing that I made even a small difference in someone's day/life.

I used to volunteer in the Emergency Room at a local hospital and also as a volunteer EMT. It can be pretty depressing seeing some of the cases that you come across, but a surprising amount of people, when faced with the option, still prefer to stay alive even when they are in so much pain and discomfort. Not saying that that is a reason, but it is a fact.

The informal types are a lot more satisfying to be honest, if only because you don't have to deal with the rest of the hassles of working through a job or organization.
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