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You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah Send a noteboard - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM
No, I don't know what/how a man is thinking.

But I do know when he's lying to me. So I can tell you that not every heterosexual married man (or man in a committed relationship) thinks about having sex with other women.

What bothers me about this attitude is that it's one of the very few times when people who argue the way you have think it's ok to accept a stereotype as pure fact for everyone.

Not everyone is the same, not everyone thinks the same, not everyone has the same urges. And some people hve managed to let their principles guide them to the extent that they don't even see other women in a sexual way at all. It can be done, and to assume otherwise does a disservice to men.

And, really, you need to remember what I said in other posts below: imo, cheating in the mind constitutes more than just thinking "she'd be good in bed". It's thinking about actually doing the act with that woman in a specific way, not some abstract concept of sexual attraction.
*MySmiley*

Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read. - Groucho Marx
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Do All Men Cheat? - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1551 Views
She's right about one thing: - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1132 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 1011 Views
I knew it! *NM* - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 478 Views
That's true - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 901 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 1055 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1267 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 993 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1178 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 1062 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 914 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 1079 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1165 Views
Point taken - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1112 Views
still, that being said... - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 1031 Views
Or not. - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 1057 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1141 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 1060 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1341 Views
True. - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 1020 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 1087 Views
Quite. - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 938 Views
- 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 934 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 756 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 466 Views
This. *NM* - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 387 Views
I love my husband. - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1100 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 484 Views
- 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 882 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 530 Views
Heh. - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 961 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 978 Views
Personally, I would say... - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 956 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1201 Views
Hmm - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1139 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 888 Views
Liar! - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 909 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 971 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 391 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 995 Views
I don't know, sis. - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1099 Views
Biologically designed.... - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 1047 Views
Bastard... - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 1057 Views
It'd be too long Joel. - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 972 Views
Fair enough. - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 1028 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 1065 Views
This. *NM* - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 567 Views
Utter nonsense. - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 1020 Views
Works out well for the men. - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 955 Views
No. - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 1100 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 909 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 1028 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 963 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1116 Views
~shrugs~ - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 867 Views
<3 *NM* - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 404 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1170 Views

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