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Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow Send a noteboard - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM
I'm a guy. I can't remember the last time I imagined myself having sex with a woman other than my fiance. I can look at an attractive woman and think she's attractive, sure. Doesn't mean I want to have sex with her, or "imagine" it in my head, or am "mentally cheating" on her.

Trying to broadly ram one conclusion about an entire gender onto every member of that gender is complete bullshit, and don't try to claim otherwise.
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Do All Men Cheat? LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1631 Views
Is it just me, or does the paying kind of make her something else than a "mistress"? Legolas - 29/07/2010 09:30:56 PM 1200 Views
that was the idea i'm aware the article is FULL of holes *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:16:00 PM 519 Views
Her "100%" claim was ambiguous in the worst possible way. Tim - 29/07/2010 10:21:13 PM 1151 Views
I dunno, there's really only one interpretation that makes sense. Legolas - 29/07/2010 10:29:48 PM 1243 Views
Well, gay men have had the reputation for being exceptionally promiscuous, so don't discount them. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:33:45 AM 623 Views
Sure, but it's not women they look at and think about. *NM* Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:55:33 AM 555 Views
Payment is payment, whether in bills or a wedding ring *NM* Cannoli - 29/07/2010 11:31:09 PM 565 Views
She's right about one thing: Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1207 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 1078 Views
I knew it! *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 514 Views
That's true ironclad - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 979 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 1151 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1335 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? Tim - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 1087 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1251 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 1131 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 1018 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 1153 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1240 Views
Point taken Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1188 Views
still, that being said... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 1096 Views
Or not. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 1123 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1201 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 1132 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1407 Views
True. Ghavrel - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 1097 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 1155 Views
Quite. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 1033 Views
snoopcester - 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 1000 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 796 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* (beat.) - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 511 Views
This. *NM* Avendesora - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 424 Views
Every man can't cheat every day, because not every man is in a relationship *NM* Helene - 31/07/2010 07:54:31 AM 498 Views
I love my husband. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1182 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 513 Views
Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 966 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 559 Views
Heh. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 1036 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 1074 Views
Personally, I would say... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 1012 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. StormCrow - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1289 Views
Hmm snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1212 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 982 Views
Liar! snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 969 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 1061 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* beetnemesis - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 437 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen Delireus - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 1062 Views
I don't know, sis. StarrBecca - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1188 Views
Biologically designed.... Ectheledhel - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 1117 Views
Bastard... Joel - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 1132 Views
It'd be too long Joel. Ectheledhel - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 1051 Views
Fair enough. Joel - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 1093 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... everynametaken - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 1142 Views
This. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 599 Views
Utter nonsense. Macharius - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 1080 Views
Works out well for the men. StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 1068 Views
No. Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 1175 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing random thoughts - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 968 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group Helene - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 1110 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies random thoughts - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 1050 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. Helene - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1210 Views
~shrugs~ damookster - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 936 Views
<3 *NM* Rebekah - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 455 Views
"Don't let yourself go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants" Foxhead - 31/07/2010 09:52:29 AM 1391 Views
having reread this article, theres's actually very little that i disagree with *NM* Foxhead - 31/07/2010 10:04:43 AM 735 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1238 Views
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