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If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder Send a noteboard - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM
I think virtually all 'people' cheat. I know far too many women who coo about some guy's bottom when they think no one can hear them.

Even the really really restrained ones do that.

It's an interesting article and I think she has some valid points that our view of our own sexuality is pretty warped. However I don't think she's got the right of everything because her experience is narrowed to a very select group of folks who wanted that kind of arrangement.

Which, obviously, gives her little to no experience with all those OTHER folks who don't.
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Do All Men Cheat? LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1561 Views
Is it just me, or does the paying kind of make her something else than a "mistress"? Legolas - 29/07/2010 09:30:56 PM 1121 Views
that was the idea i'm aware the article is FULL of holes *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:16:00 PM 486 Views
Her "100%" claim was ambiguous in the worst possible way. Tim - 29/07/2010 10:21:13 PM 1074 Views
I dunno, there's really only one interpretation that makes sense. Legolas - 29/07/2010 10:29:48 PM 1157 Views
Well, gay men have had the reputation for being exceptionally promiscuous, so don't discount them. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:33:45 AM 590 Views
Sure, but it's not women they look at and think about. *NM* Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:55:33 AM 520 Views
Payment is payment, whether in bills or a wedding ring *NM* Cannoli - 29/07/2010 11:31:09 PM 545 Views
She's right about one thing: Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1145 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 1022 Views
I knew it! *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 483 Views
That's true ironclad - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 914 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 1076 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1279 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? Tim - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 1005 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1186 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 1071 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 936 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 1091 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1175 Views
Point taken Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1124 Views
still, that being said... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 1042 Views
Or not. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 1068 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1150 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 1074 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1357 Views
True. Ghavrel - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 1033 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 1098 Views
Quite. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 954 Views
snoopcester - 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 945 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 761 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* (beat.) - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 471 Views
This. *NM* Avendesora - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 392 Views
Every man can't cheat every day, because not every man is in a relationship *NM* Helene - 31/07/2010 07:54:31 AM 475 Views
I love my husband. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1112 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 489 Views
Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 899 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 535 Views
Heh. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 970 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 1004 Views
Personally, I would say... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 967 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. StormCrow - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1214 Views
Hmm snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1151 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 900 Views
Liar! snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 919 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 982 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* beetnemesis - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 399 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen Delireus - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 1005 Views
I don't know, sis. StarrBecca - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1109 Views
Biologically designed.... Ectheledhel - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 1059 Views
Bastard... Joel - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 1065 Views
It'd be too long Joel. Ectheledhel - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 984 Views
Fair enough. Joel - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 1036 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... everynametaken - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 1075 Views
This. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 571 Views
Utter nonsense. Macharius - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 1030 Views
Works out well for the men. StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 968 Views
No. Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 1112 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing random thoughts - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 921 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group Helene - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 1038 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies random thoughts - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 973 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. Helene - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1127 Views
~shrugs~ damookster - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 874 Views
<3 *NM* Rebekah - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 409 Views
"Don't let yourself go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants" Foxhead - 31/07/2010 09:52:29 AM 1319 Views
having reread this article, theres's actually very little that i disagree with *NM* Foxhead - 31/07/2010 10:04:43 AM 709 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1183 Views
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