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The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM
They're alright, but they're really not something I bend my back to get to :P I dislike all the "pomp and circumstance" of most ceremonies. If I had it my way, I'd get married by proxy and just show up for the party ;)


I've been tempted by Lake Tahoe small wedding venues. But we ended up opting not to do that. I may regret that at some point.

Uh NO. I watched my roommate plan hers though. Hers was relatively simple and straightforward and she was STILL busy and stressed out at times.


There's just a lot to be done.

I really enjoyed my roommate's wedding reception. There was nothing special about it, but there was so much happy-love-feel to the room I couldn't help but leave in a good mood (A very tired barely made the hour drive home mood, but a good one!!)


You were sober enough to drive? I thought most people got very drunk at weddings.

One where I didn't have to be there? :P Yah like I'll get away with that...Just something really simple and small for the actual wedding. I dislike ceremony and I can't STAND being fussed over. If I had it my way, we'd sign the papers with our immediate families present, then have a massive bbq.


BBQ is nice. I like BBQ's. I guess I would have liked to have been fussed over if I had been younger when I get married (what an interesting verb tense construction).

No real preference...I like short and non-boring weddings, regardless of the sort :P


I doubt many people would opt for long tedious marriages ;-).
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1516 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1080 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1144 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1098 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 858 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 434 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 838 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 994 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 960 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 894 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 879 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 869 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 412 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 998 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1055 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1149 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1017 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 425 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 420 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 414 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 980 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1003 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 476 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 938 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 940 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 926 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 454 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 988 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 884 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 932 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 943 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 835 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 958 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 972 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 397 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 922 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 968 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1014 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1068 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 949 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 976 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1080 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 958 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1007 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1023 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 912 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 962 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 898 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 923 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 1002 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 898 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1056 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 941 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 996 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 937 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 915 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 894 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 971 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 980 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 908 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 950 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1013 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 944 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 957 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 943 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 828 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1080 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1005 Views
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