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Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien Send a noteboard - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM
I like the idea of not wearing a wedding dress. Wedding dresses are either ridiculously expensive or ugly. In any case, you're never going to wear it again.

Well white is beautiful though. I think part of what makes it beautiful is the pristine whiteness- it's stunning for maybe a day, and then it looks dirty. That's what wedding dresses are white- since it's a dress you're never going to wear again, it may as well be white.


1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)

Loads. Large family. I also got married once.

2. Do you like weddings?

Yes and no. I like them as a guest, but I didn't want my own, and I don't like being part of the bridal party even though it's sweet. I hate being in front of people.

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)

Yes and yes. It was small - 42 guests - and we just had the service, drinks (during photo time) and a dinner. So even though I didn't want a wedding it was a really nice day.

I also didn't wear white because a) I don't suit it and b) that's a silly tradition really. I don't like tradition for tradition's sake. I like there to be a good reason for things.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)

Um. I think my sister's wedding because it was so lovely. She looked gorgeous, everyone was well behaved, and we did dinner at home for just the two families.

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?

No wedding is good.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?

Both. Depends how it's all done.
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1564 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1143 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1202 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1154 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 918 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 464 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 897 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 1053 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 1017 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 950 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 944 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 919 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 440 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 1057 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1106 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1210 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1072 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 454 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 449 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 442 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 1037 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1058 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 507 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 988 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 988 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 980 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 481 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1054 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 948 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 993 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 1000 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 890 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 1017 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 1039 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 421 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 974 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 1030 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1064 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1124 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 1010 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 1029 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1140 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 1012 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1065 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1079 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 956 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 1010 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 957 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 989 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 1058 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 952 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1116 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 994 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 1053 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 992 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 977 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 946 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 1026 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 1037 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 963 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 1010 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1090 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 993 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 1007 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 996 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 889 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1134 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1058 Views
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