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Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester Send a noteboard - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM
The friends I know who did it were very clear that they didn't want wedding presents, since as far as they were concerned travelling to their wedding was a wedding present from the guests. I agree with them on that and would think it fairly obnoxious to expect a present on top of attending.

Well they don't get a holiday *out of it*, they're forced to use both their vacation time and vacation money for it, and that's not even counting the wedding present. I think it's really irresponsible to ask other people to spend money like that, unless everyone you want at your wedding is loaded and would not mind.


Well yes they do very much get a holiday out of it - perhaps we have different definitions of "holiday"?
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1515 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1080 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1144 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1097 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 858 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 434 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 838 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 994 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 960 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 893 Views
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there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 868 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 412 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 997 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1055 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1148 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1016 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 424 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 419 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 413 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 980 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1002 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 475 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 937 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 939 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 925 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 453 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 987 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 883 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 931 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 942 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 835 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 958 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 971 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 396 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 922 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 967 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1013 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1067 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 949 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 975 Views
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Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1007 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1022 Views
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that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 961 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 897 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 923 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 1001 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 897 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1055 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 940 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 996 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 937 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 915 Views
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You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 970 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 979 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 907 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 949 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1013 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 944 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 957 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 942 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 827 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1077 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1004 Views
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