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Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester Send a noteboard - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM
The friends I know who did it were very clear that they didn't want wedding presents, since as far as they were concerned travelling to their wedding was a wedding present from the guests. I agree with them on that and would think it fairly obnoxious to expect a present on top of attending.

Well they don't get a holiday *out of it*, they're forced to use both their vacation time and vacation money for it, and that's not even counting the wedding present. I think it's really irresponsible to ask other people to spend money like that, unless everyone you want at your wedding is loaded and would not mind.


Well yes they do very much get a holiday out of it - perhaps we have different definitions of "holiday"?
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1372 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 939 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 991 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 942 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 717 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 357 Views
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Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 873 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 827 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 748 Views
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there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 723 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 342 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 846 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 886 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 963 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 872 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 350 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 349 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 347 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 844 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 853 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 406 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 776 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 779 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 786 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 396 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 846 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 759 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 787 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 802 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 696 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 815 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 839 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 335 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 757 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 816 Views
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Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 912 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 822 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 810 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 929 Views
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Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 856 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 878 Views
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that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 793 Views
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Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 792 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 862 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 743 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 901 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 812 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 845 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 790 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 790 Views
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You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 825 Views
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I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 724 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 810 Views
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Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 780 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 803 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 814 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 684 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 924 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 858 Views
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