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a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine Send a noteboard - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM
As I said, I have been very lucky for the most part...but I have still had a grandparent say she cares more for hound dog shit than me (and later claim she never said any such thing, of course)

I'm glad your experiences have been positive. But there are a lot of people out there who don't want their families around for good reasons. Even if your family is not abusive and your relations are just dramatic, that's TIRING. I LOVE my family, but most of the time I am THRILLED they are so far away. It keeps relationships positive and prevents bad blood from growing.
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1466 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1042 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1090 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1042 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 817 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 419 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 796 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 961 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 922 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 849 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 835 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 827 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 399 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 954 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1011 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1100 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 970 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 402 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 401 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 395 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 931 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 970 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 461 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 891 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 896 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 885 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 437 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 950 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 852 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 890 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 901 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 793 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 917 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 934 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 380 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 871 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 917 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 971 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1006 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 909 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 927 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1036 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 908 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 959 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 982 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 869 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 909 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 850 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 892 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 964 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 855 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1008 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 902 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 955 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 889 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 875 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 854 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 928 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 926 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 855 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 899 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 967 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 903 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 913 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 911 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 788 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1032 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 960 Views
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