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There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover Send a noteboard - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM
So, I've been engaged for over a year now, and we haven't set a wedding date yet.

We've been engaged three months & have a tentative one... but it's a long way off now.

I like this, as I like being engaged. And planning a wedding sounds like an awful lot of work to me (and probably requires throwing a lot of money at it, too). I'm not really the kind of woman who's been planning her marriage since the age of 4.

I do have a vague sense that I want to throw a really cool party.

:)

So on to the survey:

1. 'Did you ever attend a wedding? (if not, prob this survey isn't for you)

I've been to a few. Last summer was the summer of weddings as most of the people I grew up with were graduating college and tying the knot with their HS/college sweethearts.

2. Do you like weddings?

Sometimes.

3. Did you ever organize a wedding? (Was it your own?)

Working on it. I have very mixed feelings about wedding planning because I can be intensely shy and am not great at organizing stuff, but I love all the little artistic details and have dreamt about my wedding day since I was small. I think what I'd really like is to design and plan a wedding for someone else, then look at the photographs.

4. What was the best wedding you ever went to, and why was it so good? (cue for: my own, because I love my spouse so much! real intention of question is that I want to know what made the party fun)

When I was ten, one of my father's coworkers married an Indian bride and there were live elephants and I got to ride them.

Come on, how can you beat that?

5. What kind of wedding would you like to throw yourself (if you were to marry at some point)?

It will be traditional but small and cozy and hopefully fun. I will invest much time into tiny artistic details and projects that no one will notice, because that's what I do. Also, I do want to feel like a princess, just not a poufy ball-gown kind of princess.

Like Jen, I'm becoming aggressively non-fussed about the people aspect. I actually wanted a decent number of attendees (if we're spending all that money, we might as well have a good party, right?), but my groom and I live 2100 miles away from our hometown, so I don't know if many people will be able to come. At first I felt sad and lonely about this. Then I realized I can't do anything about it and I should just do my best to provide a great time for anyone who can make it.

6. Do you like traditional weddings, or ones that do something unique/funny?

I like both - whatever reflects the couple best. But even traditional weddings should be personal. I'm not a fan of the completely standard textbook wedding (very common in the Midwest).
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1434 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1011 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1062 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1002 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 787 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 397 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 761 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 934 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 890 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 814 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 802 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 793 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 376 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 927 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 965 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1055 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 930 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 386 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 388 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 382 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 903 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 926 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 441 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 857 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 857 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 850 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 426 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 921 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 821 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 854 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 867 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 763 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 877 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 902 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 362 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 838 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 887 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 947 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 977 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 884 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 883 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 998 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 876 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 931 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 941 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 842 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 866 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 821 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 856 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 924 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 817 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 963 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 871 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 931 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 858 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 853 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 817 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 894 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 894 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 815 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 871 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 931 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 856 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 878 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 878 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 752 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1000 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 937 Views
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