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^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate Send a noteboard - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM
We have no way of knowing how much visual attention you lavish on her. But it might be worth a shot to dial it up a little, just to see. Even though I'm not feeling insecure, it still makes me feel good when my fiance ogles me. And I surely give her some visual appreciation of my own every chance I get. It can be especially fun in public.

That might not be the solution to your issue, but there wouldn't be any harm in trying, and it just might do some good.

EDIT - In fact, thinking about it, this is one of the things I love about my own relationship. The way we constantly and shamelessly check each other out, both in public and at home by ourselves.
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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1707 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 841 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 403 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 1036 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 851 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 906 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 915 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 877 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 941 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 969 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 1004 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 954 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 900 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 1038 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 862 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 366 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 360 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 862 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 391 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 846 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 400 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 857 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 825 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 977 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 908 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 928 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 871 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 931 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 960 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 973 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 987 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 881 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 802 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 863 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 815 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 967 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 813 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 903 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 403 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 397 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 396 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 865 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 855 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 418 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1363 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 1223 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 864 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 840 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 815 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 393 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 904 Views
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