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Re: There's no telling if... Gaps Send a noteboard - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM
...your girlfriend is as crazy as you represent her to be concerning her over-fixation on other women, or you are overly fixated on your girlfriend's comments regarding your inattentive gaze.

If it's the former, I'd probably just tell her "what's up".

If it's the latter, I'd probably make a post about it on an internet message board under an unidentifiable name and think about it too much.

Anyhoo, if it is the former, you should probably break up with her.
I cannot even copy his manner because the manner of his prose was the manner of his thinking and that was a dazzling succession of gaps; and you cannot ape a gap because you are bound to fill it in somehow or other -- and blot it out in the process. -- Nabokov
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My girlfriend is insane Postsecret - 29/06/2011 03:49:38 PM 1531 Views
I doubt she's trying to push you away. She's just that needy and insecure. Sareitha Sedai - 29/06/2011 03:57:14 PM 683 Views
Is this just a rant or do you want advice? *NM* Palatine - 29/06/2011 03:59:37 PM 329 Views
Sounds to me ... Nate - 29/06/2011 04:08:07 PM 865 Views
Nate is advocating a calm, reasonable approach. Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:55:54 PM 712 Views
You need to have a very serious discussion about this with her Wulf`gar - 29/06/2011 04:53:37 PM 744 Views
Run. Amyrlin - 29/06/2011 05:28:38 PM 752 Views
I'm with Amy... Run! Isaac - 29/06/2011 05:52:08 PM 718 Views
If she's worth it in other ways, I wouldn't run. nossy - 29/06/2011 05:58:46 PM 787 Views
You are too weak. PUA theory says do the total opposite of what common sense tells you Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:03:09 PM 805 Views
Don't apply pua to a long term relationship... Helene - 29/06/2011 06:11:36 PM 811 Views
It should work here too Sports_Gambler - 29/06/2011 06:25:23 PM 785 Views
Seriously, stop buying into pua Helene - 29/06/2011 06:41:56 PM 707 Views
Honestly, check into her for cheating. Dragonsoul - 29/06/2011 06:13:15 PM 874 Views
Agreed. Crazy ol Lews Therin - 29/06/2011 06:21:06 PM 697 Views
This is a possibility. *NM* Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:49:03 PM 288 Views
A possibility. *NM* everynametaken - 30/06/2011 04:53:03 AM 284 Views
How old are you both? Helene - 29/06/2011 06:20:02 PM 685 Views
Dump her. Tell her you never were interested in others, but now are due to her constant nagging. *NM* Tom - 29/06/2011 06:27:59 PM 312 Views
"Baby, you were so insistent when I wasn't doing it that I thought you wanted me too!" MightyYT - 29/06/2011 06:32:48 PM 679 Views
I agree. I know it would push me away. *NM* ironclad - 29/06/2011 10:40:13 PM 327 Views
That sounds so callous. But it is what I would do. I think that someone could get away with calling Tashmere - 29/06/2011 11:51:43 PM 696 Views
When someone complains about a gf/bf, when is it not the consensus that the relationship should end? Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:13:28 AM 659 Views
I am glad you called me on that. I was wrong to jump to jump on the "dump her" bandwagon Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:46:24 AM 809 Views
Insane chicks are hot...for an hour at a time. Tigr - 29/06/2011 07:05:50 PM 738 Views
Decide which part of the Crazy/Hot Scale she is on... MightyYT - 29/06/2011 08:37:37 PM 739 Views
I agree with what Nate said ßelals Girl - 29/06/2011 07:53:27 PM 705 Views
Does that mean you're getting her a premie? Joel - 29/06/2011 09:03:18 PM 767 Views
It's just an annoyed rant! Unlikely she's as insane as the consensus in the thread. Vivien - 29/06/2011 09:11:45 PM 801 Views
Ogle her constantly. Dannymac - 29/06/2011 09:21:41 PM 786 Views
^ Danny and Vivien potentially have a point. Nate - 29/06/2011 11:00:41 PM 816 Views
That's right! Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:04:49 AM 723 Views
That's incredibly insecure and needy. Just... just so you know. beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 12:10:50 AM 646 Views
I did not use the word constant. Vivien - 30/06/2011 12:36:29 AM 711 Views
*shrug* I'm just saying beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 01:45:49 AM 664 Views
Having a need isn't the same thing as being needy. globug0822 - 30/06/2011 02:49:12 AM 804 Views
Yeah, I'm not trying to say (either of them) are bad people beetnemesis - 30/06/2011 03:33:59 AM 651 Views
Yes ironclad - 30/06/2011 05:16:23 PM 753 Views
Buy sunglasses. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 30/06/2011 12:36:31 AM 317 Views
The man with the practical advice out of left field while everyone else is arguing at home base. *NM* Vivien - 30/06/2011 01:41:12 AM 326 Views
*NM* Fox and Ravens - 30/06/2011 01:53:13 AM 323 Views
Re: There's no telling if... Gaps - 30/06/2011 02:11:27 AM 699 Views
Somebody I talked to brought up a valid possibility that I didn't know existed. I was wrong to jump Tashmere - 30/06/2011 03:41:53 AM 682 Views
Good point--those things really screw up some women and different ones have different effects *NM* Wulf`gar - 30/06/2011 01:53:44 PM 309 Views
I can't use them. They turn me into the Mega Bitch. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:21:17 PM 1208 Views
You are wise. Two Wongs - 04/07/2011 12:02:35 PM 1055 Views
Tell her you're gay so she doesn't need to worry about you seeming to check them out. snoopcester - 30/06/2011 11:30:03 AM 707 Views
We're all just a little bit insane. Kel - 30/06/2011 05:20:22 PM 674 Views
Insecurity is not fatal. She needs to feel better about herself. Beqi - 30/06/2011 08:19:19 PM 669 Views
If you've had the DISCUSSION, and she's still nagging you...I'd find it annoying. *NM* StarrBecca - 01/07/2011 05:50:00 AM 314 Views
Tell her every thing you said here emphasis the last sentence Danu - 04/07/2011 01:38:43 AM 734 Views
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