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Re: Heh. Macharius Send a noteboard - 12/12/2011 06:02:44 PM
But then sadly she left me because she didn't think she could live with someone who is a slightly picky eater like me, because I had a hard time with some foods and didn't want to eat all the same meals as her. And because she decided I'm not mature enough. So no wedding anyway.


This must have just happened, because I searched for a post about it and even two months ago you were still engaged (even if she was making displeasure regarding food known to you).

Sorry, bro... that sucks.
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So it turns out that weddings are expensive... Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:24:17 PM 2036 Views
I am looking to drop about a grand on my son's rehearsal dinner *NM* random thoughts - 12/12/2011 04:42:53 PM 560 Views
Well, part of it is that the rehearsal dinner isn't on the $5k budget. Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:46:30 PM 1006 Views
It is avoidable, but people will treat you like you're a nutcase if you don't do most of the things nossy - 12/12/2011 05:02:14 PM 1056 Views
my first wedding was in church with a pretty dress and a preacher random thoughts - 12/12/2011 06:12:02 PM 994 Views
We had a pretty dress and a notary public in the courtyard of the B&B. nossy - 12/12/2011 09:36:52 PM 1049 Views
If I had it to all over again I would have formed a Rock Band and dated supermodels *NM* random thoughts - 13/12/2011 04:20:28 PM 541 Views
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Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 05:29:19 PM 1170 Views
Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:02:44 PM 1035 Views
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Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 07:27:16 PM 1121 Views
We kept it to about $5000 also (including cost of rings). Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:06:54 PM 1077 Views
I would say our wedding was about that. Lici - 12/12/2011 06:45:46 PM 1224 Views
I feel like they only have to be expensive if you let them be. LadyLorraine - 12/12/2011 07:07:59 PM 1108 Views
I got married two weeks ago for less than that. Aemon - 12/12/2011 09:56:43 PM 1217 Views
Congrats Sareitha Sedai - 12/12/2011 10:03:35 PM 1012 Views
Thanks! Aemon - 13/12/2011 02:53:11 PM 995 Views
You've been holding out on us. Congratulations. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 13/12/2011 12:02:39 AM 593 Views
Honestly, I didn't think anyone would care. Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:08:44 PM 998 Views
Hey! No announcement??? Congratulations and may you find many years of happiness! *NM* everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:27:51 AM 634 Views
No, no announcement. I'm not really the center-of-attention type. haha Thanks though! *NM* Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:10:29 PM 546 Views
Congratulations, my friend. Jacob - 13/12/2011 03:21:22 PM 992 Views
Thanks. Aemon - 13/12/2011 06:38:59 PM 1050 Views
Acceptable... Jacob - 13/12/2011 06:40:29 PM 972 Views
OMG! Congratulations! Danu - 14/12/2011 10:43:05 PM 1000 Views
Thanks Danu. *NM* Aemon - 15/12/2011 11:08:51 PM 549 Views
i had 500 people at my wedding....... Aisha - 13/12/2011 12:05:38 AM 1173 Views
Everybody I have ever talked to that had a big, expensive wedding has told me that in hindsight... everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:29:34 AM 970 Views
Yes they are. We're planning ours and... callandor1000 - 13/12/2011 02:19:42 AM 1071 Views
Some people just don't seem to think outside of the box ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:15:49 AM 1156 Views
And several items on that chart are soo unnecessary *NM* ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:41:10 AM 580 Views
They're only as expensive as you make them. Tim - 14/12/2011 10:38:37 AM 978 Views
I'm so glad we went simple. Kaldric - 14/12/2011 03:08:45 PM 1151 Views
As someone who had a smaller wedding than was expected by certain people... Danu - 14/12/2011 10:36:57 PM 1118 Views
These seem kind of extreme. Vivien - 15/12/2011 06:03:15 AM 1134 Views
because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 12:59:39 PM 1152 Views
Not my personal history, but culture. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:53:12 PM 1158 Views
I agree that there are better cuts to make than refreshments LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:35:13 PM 1106 Views
Re: because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:08:00 PM 1133 Views
Yeah, and that's why Russians are all dying of alcoholism. *NM* Macharius - 15/12/2011 01:46:52 PM 585 Views
You don't have to be an alcoholic to prefer not to have a cash bar at a party. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:37:15 PM 1015 Views
It is lame to expect the father of the bride to shell out tens of thousands for a party random thoughts - 15/12/2011 02:00:54 PM 1120 Views
seriously. who cares if people think you're "cheap". LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:41:33 PM 1034 Views
What my family tends to do (because it's huge) is this: Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:16:31 PM 1208 Views
That's what most German weddings do too. Reasonable. *NM* ironclad - 15/12/2011 03:38:40 PM 548 Views
If they're not close enough to invite to the reception, are they really needed at the ceremony? Vivien - 15/12/2011 08:18:18 PM 1148 Views
In most cases, a church ceremony tends to be an open thing. Anyone can come. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 10:11:30 PM 1167 Views
Apparently it's becoming more common over here to do weddings on a weekday. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:13:57 PM 998 Views
I can't imagine someone in America announcing their wedding was on a weekday. TaskmasterJack - 15/12/2011 10:07:55 PM 1243 Views
People not in America have way more vacation days... *NM* Vivien - 15/12/2011 11:56:22 PM 535 Views
That was part of the logic in my thinking, yes. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 12:46:53 AM 520 Views
Fridays are actually becoming more common. Sareitha Sedai - 16/12/2011 04:51:41 PM 959 Views
Why does the band get more than the photographer? Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 04:30:29 PM 918 Views
well they do have to split it 4 or 5 ways random thoughts - 16/12/2011 04:38:36 PM 1016 Views
The thing is... it's NOT a night's work. Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 09:27:30 PM 1326 Views
Because if you put tiny plastic musical instruments on all the tables, your ears will bleed out. TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 10:04:59 PM 1389 Views
My advice based on what I've done so far. callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:27:29 PM 1029 Views
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