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We kept it to about $5000 also (including cost of rings). Macharius Send a noteboard - 12/12/2011 06:06:54 PM
But we had location for free (family farm home), food for cost (neighbor is a caterer), and did a lot of shopping at Costco. She liked her engagement ring so much that she didn't want another one, which I'd gotten from Shane and defied the whole "mount with huge diamond" in it for a much simpler and more attractive ring with some pink sapphires - and mine was $200 because I got tungsten instead of gold.

EDIT: Also, you will soon notice that as soon as you say "wedding", anyone trying to sell you something will reflexively increase the price by double if not triple.
This message last edited by Macharius on 12/12/2011 at 06:09:31 PM
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So it turns out that weddings are expensive... Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:24:17 PM 1966 Views
I am looking to drop about a grand on my son's rehearsal dinner *NM* random thoughts - 12/12/2011 04:42:53 PM 531 Views
Well, part of it is that the rehearsal dinner isn't on the $5k budget. Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:46:30 PM 951 Views
It is avoidable, but people will treat you like you're a nutcase if you don't do most of the things nossy - 12/12/2011 05:02:14 PM 1007 Views
my first wedding was in church with a pretty dress and a preacher random thoughts - 12/12/2011 06:12:02 PM 941 Views
We had a pretty dress and a notary public in the courtyard of the B&B. nossy - 12/12/2011 09:36:52 PM 991 Views
If I had it to all over again I would have formed a Rock Band and dated supermodels *NM* random thoughts - 13/12/2011 04:20:28 PM 508 Views
*NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/12/2011 10:15:04 PM 518 Views
Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 05:29:19 PM 1110 Views
Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:02:44 PM 979 Views
Re: Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 06:44:30 PM 1118 Views
Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 07:27:16 PM 1072 Views
We kept it to about $5000 also (including cost of rings). Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:06:54 PM 1014 Views
I would say our wedding was about that. Lici - 12/12/2011 06:45:46 PM 1167 Views
I feel like they only have to be expensive if you let them be. LadyLorraine - 12/12/2011 07:07:59 PM 1059 Views
I got married two weeks ago for less than that. Aemon - 12/12/2011 09:56:43 PM 1150 Views
Congrats Sareitha Sedai - 12/12/2011 10:03:35 PM 954 Views
Thanks! Aemon - 13/12/2011 02:53:11 PM 937 Views
You've been holding out on us. Congratulations. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 13/12/2011 12:02:39 AM 562 Views
Honestly, I didn't think anyone would care. Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:08:44 PM 925 Views
Hey! No announcement??? Congratulations and may you find many years of happiness! *NM* everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:27:51 AM 600 Views
No, no announcement. I'm not really the center-of-attention type. haha Thanks though! *NM* Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:10:29 PM 511 Views
Congratulations, my friend. Jacob - 13/12/2011 03:21:22 PM 920 Views
Thanks. Aemon - 13/12/2011 06:38:59 PM 998 Views
Acceptable... Jacob - 13/12/2011 06:40:29 PM 915 Views
OMG! Congratulations! Danu - 14/12/2011 10:43:05 PM 927 Views
Thanks Danu. *NM* Aemon - 15/12/2011 11:08:51 PM 517 Views
i had 500 people at my wedding....... Aisha - 13/12/2011 12:05:38 AM 1120 Views
Everybody I have ever talked to that had a big, expensive wedding has told me that in hindsight... everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:29:34 AM 917 Views
Yes they are. We're planning ours and... callandor1000 - 13/12/2011 02:19:42 AM 1018 Views
Some people just don't seem to think outside of the box ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:15:49 AM 1087 Views
And several items on that chart are soo unnecessary *NM* ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:41:10 AM 542 Views
They're only as expensive as you make them. Tim - 14/12/2011 10:38:37 AM 924 Views
I'm so glad we went simple. Kaldric - 14/12/2011 03:08:45 PM 1076 Views
As someone who had a smaller wedding than was expected by certain people... Danu - 14/12/2011 10:36:57 PM 1061 Views
These seem kind of extreme. Vivien - 15/12/2011 06:03:15 AM 1085 Views
because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 12:59:39 PM 1100 Views
Not my personal history, but culture. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:53:12 PM 1098 Views
I agree that there are better cuts to make than refreshments LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:35:13 PM 1054 Views
Re: because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:08:00 PM 1077 Views
Yeah, and that's why Russians are all dying of alcoholism. *NM* Macharius - 15/12/2011 01:46:52 PM 553 Views
You don't have to be an alcoholic to prefer not to have a cash bar at a party. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:37:15 PM 962 Views
It is lame to expect the father of the bride to shell out tens of thousands for a party random thoughts - 15/12/2011 02:00:54 PM 1066 Views
seriously. who cares if people think you're "cheap". LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:41:33 PM 977 Views
What my family tends to do (because it's huge) is this: Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:16:31 PM 1152 Views
That's what most German weddings do too. Reasonable. *NM* ironclad - 15/12/2011 03:38:40 PM 519 Views
If they're not close enough to invite to the reception, are they really needed at the ceremony? Vivien - 15/12/2011 08:18:18 PM 1074 Views
In most cases, a church ceremony tends to be an open thing. Anyone can come. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 10:11:30 PM 1111 Views
Apparently it's becoming more common over here to do weddings on a weekday. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:13:57 PM 948 Views
I can't imagine someone in America announcing their wedding was on a weekday. TaskmasterJack - 15/12/2011 10:07:55 PM 1186 Views
People not in America have way more vacation days... *NM* Vivien - 15/12/2011 11:56:22 PM 506 Views
That was part of the logic in my thinking, yes. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 12:46:53 AM 490 Views
Fridays are actually becoming more common. Sareitha Sedai - 16/12/2011 04:51:41 PM 908 Views
Why does the band get more than the photographer? Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 04:30:29 PM 871 Views
well they do have to split it 4 or 5 ways random thoughts - 16/12/2011 04:38:36 PM 966 Views
The thing is... it's NOT a night's work. Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 09:27:30 PM 1268 Views
Because if you put tiny plastic musical instruments on all the tables, your ears will bleed out. TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 10:04:59 PM 1331 Views
My advice based on what I've done so far. callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:27:29 PM 966 Views
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