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Some people just don't seem to think outside of the box ironclad Send a noteboard - 13/12/2011 09:15:49 AM
Like Celia said: If those are the weddings you wanna throw, pay and don't complain.

But I am pretty sure there are many other ways.
Friends of mine for example rented an old castle (which is now a youth hostel) for a whole weekend and around 100 guests. They asked us to wear medieval clothes for the ceremony, but other than that just to be comfortable. They also didn't wish for presents but for money, so the renting of a hundred beds in the hostel wouldn't be as expensive for them. From what I heard most people did this. I have no numbers of what the whole experience cost them, but it certainly wasn't approaching the 3000s. It was also the best 3 day party our circle of friends had ever seen.
Point is: there are ways to make it cheaper, yet more special and unique than what the guests may expect. But if you wanna please every elderly aunt with that is expected of a traditional wedding, well, tough luck.
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You mustn't be afraid to dream a little bigger, darling.
This message last edited by ironclad on 13/12/2011 at 09:42:24 AM
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So it turns out that weddings are expensive... Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:24:17 PM 1698 Views
I am looking to drop about a grand on my son's rehearsal dinner *NM* random thoughts - 12/12/2011 04:42:53 PM 433 Views
Well, part of it is that the rehearsal dinner isn't on the $5k budget. Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:46:30 PM 706 Views
It is avoidable, but people will treat you like you're a nutcase if you don't do most of the things nossy - 12/12/2011 05:02:14 PM 744 Views
my first wedding was in church with a pretty dress and a preacher random thoughts - 12/12/2011 06:12:02 PM 693 Views
We had a pretty dress and a notary public in the courtyard of the B&B. nossy - 12/12/2011 09:36:52 PM 738 Views
If I had it to all over again I would have formed a Rock Band and dated supermodels *NM* random thoughts - 13/12/2011 04:20:28 PM 400 Views
*NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/12/2011 10:15:04 PM 399 Views
Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 05:29:19 PM 801 Views
Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:02:44 PM 713 Views
Re: Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 06:44:30 PM 872 Views
Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 07:27:16 PM 811 Views
We kept it to about $5000 also (including cost of rings). Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:06:54 PM 777 Views
I would say our wedding was about that. Lici - 12/12/2011 06:45:46 PM 931 Views
I feel like they only have to be expensive if you let them be. LadyLorraine - 12/12/2011 07:07:59 PM 797 Views
I got married two weeks ago for less than that. Aemon - 12/12/2011 09:56:43 PM 849 Views
Congrats Sareitha Sedai - 12/12/2011 10:03:35 PM 699 Views
Thanks! Aemon - 13/12/2011 02:53:11 PM 707 Views
You've been holding out on us. Congratulations. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 13/12/2011 12:02:39 AM 449 Views
Honestly, I didn't think anyone would care. Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:08:44 PM 682 Views
Hey! No announcement??? Congratulations and may you find many years of happiness! *NM* everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:27:51 AM 477 Views
No, no announcement. I'm not really the center-of-attention type. haha Thanks though! *NM* Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:10:29 PM 404 Views
Congratulations, my friend. Jacob - 13/12/2011 03:21:22 PM 636 Views
Thanks. Aemon - 13/12/2011 06:38:59 PM 750 Views
Acceptable... Jacob - 13/12/2011 06:40:29 PM 695 Views
OMG! Congratulations! Danu - 14/12/2011 10:43:05 PM 688 Views
Thanks Danu. *NM* Aemon - 15/12/2011 11:08:51 PM 405 Views
i had 500 people at my wedding....... Aisha - 13/12/2011 12:05:38 AM 864 Views
Everybody I have ever talked to that had a big, expensive wedding has told me that in hindsight... everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:29:34 AM 654 Views
Yes they are. We're planning ours and... callandor1000 - 13/12/2011 02:19:42 AM 746 Views
Some people just don't seem to think outside of the box ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:15:49 AM 833 Views
And several items on that chart are soo unnecessary *NM* ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:41:10 AM 425 Views
They're only as expensive as you make them. Tim - 14/12/2011 10:38:37 AM 669 Views
I'm so glad we went simple. Kaldric - 14/12/2011 03:08:45 PM 812 Views
As someone who had a smaller wedding than was expected by certain people... Danu - 14/12/2011 10:36:57 PM 784 Views
These seem kind of extreme. Vivien - 15/12/2011 06:03:15 AM 805 Views
because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 12:59:39 PM 846 Views
Not my personal history, but culture. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:53:12 PM 805 Views
I agree that there are better cuts to make than refreshments LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:35:13 PM 790 Views
Re: because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:08:00 PM 813 Views
Yeah, and that's why Russians are all dying of alcoholism. *NM* Macharius - 15/12/2011 01:46:52 PM 437 Views
You don't have to be an alcoholic to prefer not to have a cash bar at a party. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:37:15 PM 706 Views
It is lame to expect the father of the bride to shell out tens of thousands for a party random thoughts - 15/12/2011 02:00:54 PM 802 Views
seriously. who cares if people think you're "cheap". LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:41:33 PM 703 Views
What my family tends to do (because it's huge) is this: Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:16:31 PM 846 Views
That's what most German weddings do too. Reasonable. *NM* ironclad - 15/12/2011 03:38:40 PM 397 Views
If they're not close enough to invite to the reception, are they really needed at the ceremony? Vivien - 15/12/2011 08:18:18 PM 814 Views
In most cases, a church ceremony tends to be an open thing. Anyone can come. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 10:11:30 PM 836 Views
Apparently it's becoming more common over here to do weddings on a weekday. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:13:57 PM 707 Views
I can't imagine someone in America announcing their wedding was on a weekday. TaskmasterJack - 15/12/2011 10:07:55 PM 936 Views
People not in America have way more vacation days... *NM* Vivien - 15/12/2011 11:56:22 PM 399 Views
That was part of the logic in my thinking, yes. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 12:46:53 AM 381 Views
Fridays are actually becoming more common. Sareitha Sedai - 16/12/2011 04:51:41 PM 637 Views
Why does the band get more than the photographer? Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 04:30:29 PM 611 Views
well they do have to split it 4 or 5 ways random thoughts - 16/12/2011 04:38:36 PM 699 Views
The thing is... it's NOT a night's work. Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 09:27:30 PM 992 Views
Because if you put tiny plastic musical instruments on all the tables, your ears will bleed out. TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 10:04:59 PM 1046 Views
My advice based on what I've done so far. callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:27:29 PM 662 Views
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