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I agree that there are better cuts to make than refreshments LadyLorraine Send a noteboard - 15/12/2011 04:35:13 PM
However, depending on one's personal preferences, it still may not be the best option. That's all I'm saying That and it doesn't make them "cheap". It means they don't have alcohol as a priority. Which is not unusual in many parts of the US.
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So it turns out that weddings are expensive... Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:24:17 PM 1941 Views
I am looking to drop about a grand on my son's rehearsal dinner *NM* random thoughts - 12/12/2011 04:42:53 PM 524 Views
Well, part of it is that the rehearsal dinner isn't on the $5k budget. Dannymac - 12/12/2011 04:46:30 PM 937 Views
It is avoidable, but people will treat you like you're a nutcase if you don't do most of the things nossy - 12/12/2011 05:02:14 PM 989 Views
my first wedding was in church with a pretty dress and a preacher random thoughts - 12/12/2011 06:12:02 PM 924 Views
We had a pretty dress and a notary public in the courtyard of the B&B. nossy - 12/12/2011 09:36:52 PM 970 Views
If I had it to all over again I would have formed a Rock Band and dated supermodels *NM* random thoughts - 13/12/2011 04:20:28 PM 502 Views
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Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 05:29:19 PM 1090 Views
Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:02:44 PM 961 Views
Re: Heh. Nate - 12/12/2011 06:44:30 PM 1100 Views
Re: Heh. Macharius - 12/12/2011 07:27:16 PM 1050 Views
We kept it to about $5000 also (including cost of rings). Macharius - 12/12/2011 06:06:54 PM 996 Views
I would say our wedding was about that. Lici - 12/12/2011 06:45:46 PM 1150 Views
I feel like they only have to be expensive if you let them be. LadyLorraine - 12/12/2011 07:07:59 PM 1036 Views
I got married two weeks ago for less than that. Aemon - 12/12/2011 09:56:43 PM 1132 Views
Congrats Sareitha Sedai - 12/12/2011 10:03:35 PM 936 Views
Thanks! Aemon - 13/12/2011 02:53:11 PM 915 Views
You've been holding out on us. Congratulations. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 13/12/2011 12:02:39 AM 555 Views
Honestly, I didn't think anyone would care. Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:08:44 PM 908 Views
Hey! No announcement??? Congratulations and may you find many years of happiness! *NM* everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:27:51 AM 594 Views
No, no announcement. I'm not really the center-of-attention type. haha Thanks though! *NM* Aemon - 13/12/2011 03:10:29 PM 506 Views
Congratulations, my friend. Jacob - 13/12/2011 03:21:22 PM 902 Views
Thanks. Aemon - 13/12/2011 06:38:59 PM 984 Views
Acceptable... Jacob - 13/12/2011 06:40:29 PM 895 Views
OMG! Congratulations! Danu - 14/12/2011 10:43:05 PM 912 Views
Thanks Danu. *NM* Aemon - 15/12/2011 11:08:51 PM 510 Views
i had 500 people at my wedding....... Aisha - 13/12/2011 12:05:38 AM 1098 Views
Everybody I have ever talked to that had a big, expensive wedding has told me that in hindsight... everynametaken - 13/12/2011 03:29:34 AM 896 Views
Yes they are. We're planning ours and... callandor1000 - 13/12/2011 02:19:42 AM 1002 Views
Some people just don't seem to think outside of the box ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:15:49 AM 1068 Views
And several items on that chart are soo unnecessary *NM* ironclad - 13/12/2011 09:41:10 AM 536 Views
They're only as expensive as you make them. Tim - 14/12/2011 10:38:37 AM 905 Views
I'm so glad we went simple. Kaldric - 14/12/2011 03:08:45 PM 1052 Views
As someone who had a smaller wedding than was expected by certain people... Danu - 14/12/2011 10:36:57 PM 1045 Views
These seem kind of extreme. Vivien - 15/12/2011 06:03:15 AM 1060 Views
because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 12:59:39 PM 1082 Views
Not my personal history, but culture. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:53:12 PM 1078 Views
I agree that there are better cuts to make than refreshments LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:35:13 PM 1033 Views
Re: because of your history you might find a cash bar lame... callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:08:00 PM 1054 Views
Yeah, and that's why Russians are all dying of alcoholism. *NM* Macharius - 15/12/2011 01:46:52 PM 547 Views
You don't have to be an alcoholic to prefer not to have a cash bar at a party. Vivien - 15/12/2011 03:37:15 PM 944 Views
It is lame to expect the father of the bride to shell out tens of thousands for a party random thoughts - 15/12/2011 02:00:54 PM 1050 Views
seriously. who cares if people think you're "cheap". LadyLorraine - 15/12/2011 04:41:33 PM 956 Views
What my family tends to do (because it's huge) is this: Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:16:31 PM 1124 Views
That's what most German weddings do too. Reasonable. *NM* ironclad - 15/12/2011 03:38:40 PM 512 Views
If they're not close enough to invite to the reception, are they really needed at the ceremony? Vivien - 15/12/2011 08:18:18 PM 1052 Views
In most cases, a church ceremony tends to be an open thing. Anyone can come. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 10:11:30 PM 1090 Views
Apparently it's becoming more common over here to do weddings on a weekday. Rebekah - 15/12/2011 02:13:57 PM 930 Views
I can't imagine someone in America announcing their wedding was on a weekday. TaskmasterJack - 15/12/2011 10:07:55 PM 1170 Views
People not in America have way more vacation days... *NM* Vivien - 15/12/2011 11:56:22 PM 501 Views
That was part of the logic in my thinking, yes. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 12:46:53 AM 481 Views
Fridays are actually becoming more common. Sareitha Sedai - 16/12/2011 04:51:41 PM 891 Views
Why does the band get more than the photographer? Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 04:30:29 PM 855 Views
well they do have to split it 4 or 5 ways random thoughts - 16/12/2011 04:38:36 PM 949 Views
The thing is... it's NOT a night's work. Amyrlin - 16/12/2011 09:27:30 PM 1248 Views
Because if you put tiny plastic musical instruments on all the tables, your ears will bleed out. TaskmasterJack - 16/12/2011 10:04:59 PM 1312 Views
My advice based on what I've done so far. callandor1000 - 22/12/2011 01:27:29 PM 948 Views
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