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Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. Joel Send a noteboard - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM
Typical social restraints just don't exist online, for most people. People will loudly mock viewpoints counter to their own using all sorts of insults, and these comments are broadcast to every friend they have. I can't even imagine one of my friends standing up in the middle of a party, and announcing to the room how disgusting they found "social_group_x" or how criminally insane are members of "political_group_y." And yet they regularly do exactly that online.

When you talk to someone in person, you're careful about what you say. You don't lie or hide your opinions, but you try to couch things in friendly terms, avoid causing offense, etc. For whatever reason, people are just unable to translate those niceties to the online space. Consequently, my friends list is very small, I've hidden lots of people from my wall, and I virtually never post anything myself.

RAFOnauts: be careful with your online opinions. You're annoying/offending a lot of people who like you enough not to start a fight.

Mainly because consciousness of that last possibility encouraged taking pains to be firm but non-confrontational. Somewhere along the line, I just lost patience, and most self-restraint, and have been unable to recover either. It sucks. :[
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Facebook eye-openers.(partially NSSP) - 13/06/2012 05:10:53 AM 1312 Views
A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 12:00:19 PM 936 Views
Re: A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 05:07:04 PM 904 Views
The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 12:36:22 PM 1013 Views
I laughed at your post - 13/06/2012 05:03:18 PM 742 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:34:42 PM 849 Views
*NM* - 13/06/2012 08:51:04 PM 431 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:57:11 PM 797 Views
You complain about football comments, and then you post things like that? - 13/06/2012 10:31:10 PM 786 Views
Same here - 14/06/2012 12:24:46 AM 837 Views
A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:13:27 AM 814 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:32:15 AM 756 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 04:14:20 PM 841 Views
What were his stats again? - 14/06/2012 08:38:40 PM 814 Views
Maybe you can clarify... - 13/06/2012 02:01:58 PM 860 Views
Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 04:55:28 PM 958 Views
Facebook is about the casual insulting of opposed political, religious and social viewpoints. - 13/06/2012 07:22:57 PM 846 Views
Apparently. - 13/06/2012 08:13:38 PM 902 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 07:50:53 PM 868 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:10:32 PM 899 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:46:45 PM 866 Views
Hm. - 13/06/2012 09:52:58 PM 871 Views
Did I mention - 21/06/2012 07:35:14 AM 832 Views
This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM 908 Views
Yes. - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM 831 Views
Re: Yes. - 13/06/2012 07:10:50 PM 756 Views
Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM 811 Views
We have two options, as I see it: 1) Wear big boy pants; 2) Hide lots of posts. - 13/06/2012 04:02:07 PM 1139 Views
Hahaha yeah - 13/06/2012 04:21:11 PM 861 Views
Or big girl pants? - 13/06/2012 05:11:09 PM 889 Views
I'm lucky that I pretty much never see anything on Facebook that really annoys me - 13/06/2012 04:23:43 PM 823 Views
I've been thinking about that. - 13/06/2012 05:02:17 PM 829 Views
Yes - 13/06/2012 05:40:35 PM 830 Views
Good. - 13/06/2012 07:49:13 PM 1058 Views
I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM 815 Views
Re: I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 09:22:38 PM 900 Views
Very well said, and done. - 13/06/2012 09:18:37 PM 852 Views
Same. And re: the backlash: there'd almost have to be, wouldn't there? - 13/06/2012 10:18:57 PM 925 Views
Well yes, that was me rather stating the obvious - 13/06/2012 10:56:12 PM 914 Views
An AZ cop posted a FB pic of him with kids, a gun and a bullet riddled shirt with Obamas face on it. - 13/06/2012 11:40:38 PM 966 Views
I think you might have missed what my point was. - 13/06/2012 11:51:15 PM 825 Views
Looks that way; sorry. - 14/06/2012 12:47:16 AM 755 Views
usually hide them if it annoys me for longer than a week *NM* - 13/06/2012 04:51:56 PM 355 Views
Most folks I can tolerate. - 13/06/2012 05:55:31 PM 856 Views
My Facebook friends tend to be tolerable. - 13/06/2012 07:31:59 PM 822 Views
I will de-friend the people who annoy me. - 14/06/2012 01:23:32 AM 781 Views
Facewhat? *NM* - 14/06/2012 02:37:47 AM 334 Views
Luckily I haven't got many of these. - 14/06/2012 11:05:43 AM 804 Views
I find a lot of interesting news on Facebook - 14/06/2012 01:37:59 PM 887 Views
Same on the replacing much of what I once received from this community. - 14/06/2012 09:48:15 PM 746 Views
For me, if it's everyone once in a while, I'll let it slide. - 14/06/2012 01:53:58 PM 824 Views

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