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Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. Joel Send a noteboard - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM
Typical social restraints just don't exist online, for most people. People will loudly mock viewpoints counter to their own using all sorts of insults, and these comments are broadcast to every friend they have. I can't even imagine one of my friends standing up in the middle of a party, and announcing to the room how disgusting they found "social_group_x" or how criminally insane are members of "political_group_y." And yet they regularly do exactly that online.

When you talk to someone in person, you're careful about what you say. You don't lie or hide your opinions, but you try to couch things in friendly terms, avoid causing offense, etc. For whatever reason, people are just unable to translate those niceties to the online space. Consequently, my friends list is very small, I've hidden lots of people from my wall, and I virtually never post anything myself.

RAFOnauts: be careful with your online opinions. You're annoying/offending a lot of people who like you enough not to start a fight.

Mainly because consciousness of that last possibility encouraged taking pains to be firm but non-confrontational. Somewhere along the line, I just lost patience, and most self-restraint, and have been unable to recover either. It sucks. :[
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Facebook eye-openers.(partially NSSP) - 13/06/2012 05:10:53 AM 1277 Views
A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 12:00:19 PM 891 Views
Re: A cousin of my wife just posted a link to his new business - 13/06/2012 05:07:04 PM 862 Views
The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 12:36:22 PM 966 Views
I laughed at your post - 13/06/2012 05:03:18 PM 695 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:34:42 PM 813 Views
*NM* - 13/06/2012 08:51:04 PM 404 Views
Re: The worst I got lately was football idiocy - 13/06/2012 08:57:11 PM 756 Views
You complain about football comments, and then you post things like that? - 13/06/2012 10:31:10 PM 746 Views
Same here - 14/06/2012 12:24:46 AM 799 Views
A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:13:27 AM 759 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 10:32:15 AM 696 Views
Re: A lot of people used to think like that - 14/06/2012 04:14:20 PM 805 Views
What were his stats again? - 14/06/2012 08:38:40 PM 780 Views
Maybe you can clarify... - 13/06/2012 02:01:58 PM 806 Views
Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 04:55:28 PM 917 Views
Facebook is about the casual insulting of opposed political, religious and social viewpoints. - 13/06/2012 07:22:57 PM 801 Views
Apparently. - 13/06/2012 08:13:38 PM 868 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 07:50:53 PM 830 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:10:32 PM 836 Views
Re: Maybe I can. - 13/06/2012 08:46:45 PM 832 Views
Hm. - 13/06/2012 09:52:58 PM 836 Views
Did I mention - 21/06/2012 07:35:14 AM 790 Views
This is actually the biggest reason I dislike Facebook (and other social media). - 13/06/2012 03:49:45 PM 875 Views
Yes. - 13/06/2012 05:06:02 PM 785 Views
Re: Yes. - 13/06/2012 07:10:50 PM 719 Views
Once upon a time, I was good at that, prided myself on it. - 13/06/2012 09:27:11 PM 754 Views
We have two options, as I see it: 1) Wear big boy pants; 2) Hide lots of posts. - 13/06/2012 04:02:07 PM 1076 Views
Hahaha yeah - 13/06/2012 04:21:11 PM 822 Views
Or big girl pants? - 13/06/2012 05:11:09 PM 822 Views
I'm lucky that I pretty much never see anything on Facebook that really annoys me - 13/06/2012 04:23:43 PM 779 Views
I've been thinking about that. - 13/06/2012 05:02:17 PM 784 Views
Yes - 13/06/2012 05:40:35 PM 790 Views
Good. - 13/06/2012 07:49:13 PM 1010 Views
I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 08:27:45 PM 774 Views
Re: I thought so too. - 13/06/2012 09:22:38 PM 857 Views
Very well said, and done. - 13/06/2012 09:18:37 PM 806 Views
Same. And re: the backlash: there'd almost have to be, wouldn't there? - 13/06/2012 10:18:57 PM 869 Views
Well yes, that was me rather stating the obvious - 13/06/2012 10:56:12 PM 871 Views
An AZ cop posted a FB pic of him with kids, a gun and a bullet riddled shirt with Obamas face on it. - 13/06/2012 11:40:38 PM 922 Views
I think you might have missed what my point was. - 13/06/2012 11:51:15 PM 784 Views
Looks that way; sorry. - 14/06/2012 12:47:16 AM 713 Views
usually hide them if it annoys me for longer than a week *NM* - 13/06/2012 04:51:56 PM 331 Views
Most folks I can tolerate. - 13/06/2012 05:55:31 PM 821 Views
My Facebook friends tend to be tolerable. - 13/06/2012 07:31:59 PM 784 Views
I will de-friend the people who annoy me. - 14/06/2012 01:23:32 AM 722 Views
Facewhat? *NM* - 14/06/2012 02:37:47 AM 310 Views
Luckily I haven't got many of these. - 14/06/2012 11:05:43 AM 768 Views
I find a lot of interesting news on Facebook - 14/06/2012 01:37:59 PM 838 Views
Same on the replacing much of what I once received from this community. - 14/06/2012 09:48:15 PM 703 Views
For me, if it's everyone once in a while, I'll let it slide. - 14/06/2012 01:53:58 PM 789 Views

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