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couple things nossy Send a noteboard - 24/08/2012 01:57:04 AM
I bolded the bit I don't disagree with, and I think I already said that?

Yes, I was simply pointing out that we can have black/white rules, but how does one judge the actual event w/o stressing the bolded bit? It should help you to know that it sounded like you were going after Assange (by saying "he" and "him" ), so I can see your point much clearer after you pointed out your specific focus only on the comments linked, rather than on an actual case (about which we know beans). Hopefully that makes my apparently annoying emphasis make more sense.

I do think that if it is a one night stand in particular, then people should be very careful to make sure the other person is consenting to what they are doing or it is rape and I would say starting to have sex with them when they are asleep is very much rape regardless of consenting to an earlier sex act.

Yes, I agree completely with your definition and was only re-mentioning the above bit because it seems particularly important to state that one has to be possessed of one's faculties at the time to truly be considered a perpetrator. As above, the clarification helped.

Joel has just confused the whole thing, I think, by replying to what he wants to reply to rather than the actual post I made and he seemed to be replying to (Paul is also, I think, guilty of this to an extent).

I know, and I was similarly annoyed with his treatment of the American, obviously. I still maintain that when looking at the comments made about each situation, there was some extreme stupidity. Bottom line.

I wasn't, as I'm sure you realise, posting about the guilt or not of Assange but about the comment on rape by George Galloway, who was quite clear in his view that once a woman has consented to sex then it isn't rape to have sex with her once she is asleep.

As mentioned above, it wasn't so clear that you had not switched to Assange, so this helps, as does your copy/paste to Joel. The only reason I got myself involved down here is that I do believe real life has nuances (and was pretty sure you did), and I was confused by some of your reactions.
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Galloway - I'll always remember him for being a Cat to be honest. - 22/08/2012 11:14:58 PM 624 Views
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That is a dangerous line of logic. - 23/08/2012 09:26:25 PM 749 Views
Okay, that really wasn't connected to my comments - 24/08/2012 02:39:21 AM 451 Views
Sure it was, but we can do it your way. - 24/08/2012 04:10:37 AM 520 Views
Yet you don't, you jump the gun here too - 24/08/2012 04:37:02 AM 536 Views
I was trying to cut to the chase; like I say, I followed your logic: I just disliked where it led. - 24/08/2012 06:10:40 AM 616 Views
Disliking the conclusion doesn't invalidate the logic, and stop veering out of the debate boundary - 24/08/2012 06:43:43 AM 569 Views
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Okay, we're done here - 26/08/2012 05:36:28 AM 494 Views
Quotes are not my opinion. - 26/08/2012 06:37:19 AM 467 Views
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Is that the emoticon for perky titties? *NM* - 27/08/2012 11:07:06 PM 249 Views
He is an absolute berk. *NM* - 23/08/2012 01:08:58 AM 452 Views
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Really? *NM* - 23/08/2012 06:33:46 AM 328 Views
Yeah. - 23/08/2012 06:40:05 AM 525 Views
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Why? - 23/08/2012 08:51:59 PM 538 Views
See your reply here - the bit before the comma then the bit after it. - 23/08/2012 09:06:20 PM 527 Views
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Well, I have to clarify... - 23/08/2012 10:28:13 PM 486 Views
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You may be talking about Galloway and not Assange, but Galloway was talking about Assange. - 24/08/2012 06:28:00 PM 471 Views
Ew. - 24/08/2012 06:56:27 PM 507 Views
Yes, that about covers it. - 24/08/2012 07:42:13 PM 477 Views
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I can - 23/08/2012 11:05:05 PM 432 Views
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Bullshit. - 23/08/2012 10:00:54 PM 446 Views
Re: Bullshit. - 23/08/2012 10:52:02 PM 638 Views
To start again then Joel - 23/08/2012 11:14:07 PM 461 Views
My mistake then, sorry. - 23/08/2012 11:32:34 PM 499 Views
Agreeing without agreeing. - 23/08/2012 12:24:10 PM 560 Views
I have gotten used to you being right for the wrong reasons. - 23/08/2012 07:42:32 PM 471 Views
Yes - 23/08/2012 06:34:38 AM 628 Views
Indeed - 23/08/2012 08:47:40 PM 455 Views
I don't know about Galloway but Akin is being made to pay for his commnets - 23/08/2012 04:37:12 PM 554 Views
Um, I'm not sure about that last bit - 23/08/2012 10:43:15 PM 473 Views
this issue has been discussed none stop for two days and this almost never mentioned - 24/08/2012 12:28:25 PM 472 Views
well, that is where I'm confused. - 24/08/2012 07:03:16 PM 501 Views
Maybe I watch to much CNN - 24/08/2012 07:30:23 PM 449 Views
Yeah, I'm curious about that last point as well. - 24/08/2012 02:53:43 AM 525 Views
McCaskills campaign ran ads during the GOP primary calling Akin the "most conservative" candidate. - 24/08/2012 03:33:18 AM 672 Views
Interesting. - 24/08/2012 04:49:51 AM 463 Views
no it isn't kinda true - 24/08/2012 12:50:53 PM 442 Views

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