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Funny. nossy Send a noteboard - 04/04/2013 09:18:15 PM

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View original postPeople can live comfortably if they live frugally.

I am not handicapped, stupid, lazy or any number of other very human things that you are ignoring. I worked my ASS off for years and still could rarely afford any amenities. Hell, I frequently had to choose between food and paying bills. I know what it is to live frugally and survive, but not be able to afford things most americans take for granted -- that was without any of the problems you so quickly dismiss. What if any ONE of them had happened to me? Do you really think it's that simple?
I know there are people who simply don't have the brain power to amount to anything, but should they just give up? Are you telling me there's not one stupid person making a comfortable living that doesn't require being smart?

Why do you think I'm suggesting they "give up?" I'm saying that it's sheer blindness to assume that they may not need help, or that they aren't trying. You have NO idea how much effort people are putting in, unless you think only people with money are trying. That's blind and horrible - there are millions of people who live in the gray area between lazy-giver-uppers and comfortably-not-poor.
As far as disabilities go, their families will have to take care of them. Seeing how they will never have a normal life, they are irrelevant to this discussion.

... I don't think you're trolling? This comment is ridiculous, and I don't understand how you can think it's so easily dismissed. Where does that money come from? You think people can work a full-time job while being full-time caregivers? Maybe several jobs? This is exactly what you can't so conveniently ignore.
I'm talking about the poor who aren't handicapped (other than being dumb). I grew up dirt poor thanks to horrible parents, so I know what I'm talking about here.

I was fairly dirt poor too (steel mill family), and I'm proud of me for making it. Hell, I'm proud of you too, if you did it. However, this does not on any level mean that everyone else can do what we did. It's rude and abusively myopic to assume such a thing.

None of this says I think people shouldn't be pushed, or that we shouldn't have expectations like what we had for ourselves. It's more that you cannot assume that just because someone is struggling (or failing) that he/she isn't trying. And trying. And trying.

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Liberalism has officially failed - Poverty reaches 1960 levels - - 04/04/2013 12:33:15 AM 1273 Views
As has Conservatism. - 04/04/2013 12:37:23 AM 738 Views
I know it hurts.....but the truth about liberalism will set you free! - 04/04/2013 12:42:57 AM 866 Views
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The entire post...as well as many of the sub-threads....prompts the question of: - 04/04/2013 09:39:16 PM 838 Views
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Who said anything about the status quo? I just said I didn't agree with your solution. *NM* - 04/04/2013 04:19:37 AM 474 Views
Then time to step up, what's your idea? - 04/04/2013 04:22:58 AM 711 Views
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Liberalism & Conservatism 'officially fail' about ever other year I've noticed, still around though *NM* - 04/04/2013 09:02:42 AM 374 Views
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Yes, the logical step is to go for Nordic style socialism. - 04/04/2013 03:19:17 PM 824 Views
well that and a tiny homogenous population funded by large oil reserves - 04/04/2013 06:57:51 PM 777 Views
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Funny. - 04/04/2013 09:18:15 PM 777 Views
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good for you for making it but you are so full of bullshit - 04/04/2013 10:38:45 PM 797 Views
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congrats on being part of the problem.... *NM* - 05/04/2013 04:48:58 AM 418 Views
It's pointless to argue with those who don't understand the psychology of generational poverty. *NM* - 05/04/2013 03:43:40 AM 391 Views
Clearly. *NM* - 05/04/2013 07:32:21 PM 362 Views
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