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I don't know the full details of the first marriage... Missa Sedai Send a noteboard - 03/11/2009 11:28:41 PM
Although a significant part of me is wondering about said deadbeat kid, how he's really that vile, etc. I don't doubt you, Missa, it just seems like a painful situation for anyone. I guess I always wonder about/have sympathy for such people because I've done some pretty bad things myself.


But from what my sister-in-law has told me, she cried hysterically when she found out she was pregnant (while still married) because she knew she would be going through it alone. She wasn't sure what was worse: going through the pregnancy and parenthood alone because the husband wouldn't be a part of it, or bringing a child into that marriage with the husband's involvement.
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Changing your child's name... Missa Sedai - 02/11/2009 11:07:40 PM 1092 Views
I'm an observer. nossy - 02/11/2009 11:16:50 PM 866 Views
Is your brother going to actually adopt the child? Tashmere - 02/11/2009 11:54:20 PM 887 Views
My brother wants to, but... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:18:20 PM 821 Views
Does he pay child support? Sareitha Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:38:33 AM 725 Views
Never paid a dime. Missa Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:44:40 AM 723 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Beqi - 04/11/2009 03:24:02 AM 761 Views
Re: Never paid a dime. Angel Barchild - 05/11/2009 07:35:05 AM 731 Views
I'd only change the name if he adopted the son legally. Beqi - 03/11/2009 12:23:08 AM 757 Views
I agree with you and Tash... Antigone - 03/11/2009 03:22:28 AM 756 Views
The thing is... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:19:45 PM 728 Views
Concur Isaac - 03/11/2009 06:56:54 PM 813 Views
I'm more interested in the feelings/needs of the child than the feelings of adults. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:16:49 AM 757 Views
I really like this reply and agree with everything in it... Lupine - 03/11/2009 01:23:15 AM 777 Views
There's bad things, and there's bad things. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:46:33 PM 700 Views
I don't know the full details of the first marriage... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:28:41 PM 730 Views
True... Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:23:55 PM 782 Views
Yes. Sareitha Sedai - 04/11/2009 12:36:24 AM 788 Views
My situation was almost the same. mapthis - 03/11/2009 02:10:24 AM 829 Views
My sister changed her name when she ascended to the Crystal Throne, may she live forever. Blaine - 03/11/2009 02:52:35 AM 862 Views
Not me, but..... Kat - 03/11/2009 03:07:28 AM 890 Views
I personally believe the boy should keep his biological fathers last name no matter what *NM* Aisha - 03/11/2009 03:18:24 AM 345 Views
I'm curious why you believe this. Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:54:40 PM 729 Views
I'm a bit curious too...explain. *NM* Missa Sedai - 03/11/2009 11:31:02 PM 321 Views
personal belief Aisha - 04/11/2009 03:44:35 PM 717 Views
Are they changing his name to Clark Kent? If so, I don't think the kid will have a problem. *NM* callandor1000 - 03/11/2009 04:04:35 AM 331 Views
I gave She her dad's last name, we weren't married, had no real intentions of getting married, StarrBecca - 03/11/2009 05:10:31 AM 735 Views
Happened to my dad (kinda). Craig - 03/11/2009 05:25:52 AM 730 Views
Here are my thoughts (I have been in a somewhat similar situation). everynametaken - 03/11/2009 06:52:17 AM 842 Views
Curious Sareitha Sedai - 03/11/2009 01:59:30 PM 785 Views
Re: Curious everynametaken - 03/11/2009 06:46:52 PM 835 Views
I am in a similar position. Seriana Sedai - 03/11/2009 07:18:57 AM 782 Views
I'd wait until the child is old enough to want to himself Monkey - 03/11/2009 07:29:36 AM 729 Views
I think I kind of agree here... Tashmere - 06/11/2009 03:28:31 AM 764 Views
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