I really can take a joke, and don't hold you responsible for what happens to a post once you make it. You're not the reason it went somewhere unpleasant. And at the end of the day I lost interest in who's right/wrong in these little sandlot scuffles about a year ago, when I realized it was injurious to the site. I'm interested in problem resolution, and regardless of how much is my lack of discipline and patience and how much isn't... well, I do need more discipline or I wouldn't have witnessed this. Lesson learned at last, or so I hope.