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Re: Kindly blow it out your ass until the other side returns the favor. Aisha Send a noteboard - 25/03/2010 11:11:05 PM
and work for a OBGYN, then you better not judge women that choose to have abortions. I met a nurse today that admitted she likes to be rude to women that have abortions at her doctors office. Thats like working for a plastic surgeon and not liking women that get breasts implants. As a nursing student I feel nurses should be above that, or if you dont agree, condemn it in your heart but treat them kindly like all patients deserve to be treated after undergoing a surgery.


It is perfectly legal to teach that condoms are not as effective as absintence in preventing the spread of disease, and has the advantage of being demonstrably true, but people are allowed to disrupt religious gatherings to throw condoms at people. It is absolutely legal to wear fur and eat meat, but people are allowed to be rude and harass people who do as such (though I note that few such activists have the cojones to bother a Hell's Angel clad head to toe in cow skin). It is perfectly legal to cut down trees, but people physically interfere with, and sabotage such activity, which costs far more money than the rudest OB/GYN nurse ever cost her patients.

If her employer does not have a problem with her attitude, or thinks that her abilities as a nurse compensate for her quirks regarding a potential infanticide, that is his business. Go to a different doctor if you don't like the service.


first of all a patient didnt complain to me about the rudeness. the nurse who is an acquaintance told me herself that she treats women that have abortions rudely, and its nothing over the top like not giving them their pain meds when they ask, but just general rudeness that a patient might just think of a the nurse as always being a bitch and thats how she treats everyone. the truth is she is a relatively nice and happy person and a good nurse in my opinion as far as knowing her clinical stuff, but not a good nurse if she treats women who had an abortion with disdain. Besides its not like these women have abortions every month and should go to another doctor with nice nurses the next time they want to have one. This nurse works in Greenwich, CT which is a pretty nice town and the clients are more wealthy and most of the women that had abortions at her OBGYN had genetic tests done to see if there was anything wrong with the baby (down syndrome, etc...)

Nurses and doctors are not there to judge people they are there to help and cure sick people.
Aisha - formerly known as randschicka
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If you choose to be a healthcare professional... - 25/03/2010 02:20:53 AM 1024 Views
additionally (pet peeve of my OB/GYN nurses) - 25/03/2010 02:30:47 AM 809 Views
Re: additionally (pet peeve of my OB/GYN nurses) - 25/03/2010 02:54:40 AM 647 Views
Don't take this the wrong way, but the world would be a better place if stupid people reproduce less - 25/03/2010 03:46:12 AM 595 Views
That's fine, but they don't need to baby talk. - 25/03/2010 12:00:46 PM 575 Views
Re: That's fine, but they don't need to baby talk. - 25/03/2010 09:52:06 PM 542 Views
Kindly blow it out your ass until the other side returns the favor. - 25/03/2010 05:07:35 AM 734 Views
Bull. - 25/03/2010 06:17:17 AM 700 Views
Then she gets fired. If it is fine with the employer, then that's it. *NM* - 25/03/2010 09:50:16 PM 256 Views
With that I'm inclined to agree, on all counts. - 29/03/2010 12:50:40 PM 667 Views
Wow. Just wow. - 25/03/2010 07:50:44 AM 722 Views
Er... who's talking about legality? - 25/03/2010 07:58:37 AM 557 Views
To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 01:38:34 PM 601 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 05:09:51 PM 568 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 05:35:29 PM 580 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 11:02:30 PM 598 Views
Re: To the contrary, - 25/03/2010 09:48:25 PM 582 Views
Re: Kindly blow it out your ass until the other side returns the favor. - 25/03/2010 11:11:05 PM 725 Views
- 25/03/2010 09:47:32 AM 571 Views
Now that is a healthcare unprofessional. - 25/03/2010 07:25:41 PM 577 Views
Heh... You said it. - 25/03/2010 11:41:54 PM 614 Views
indeed i shall be that - 26/03/2010 02:03:35 AM 555 Views
As long as the required service is being provided... - 26/03/2010 10:20:22 AM 586 Views
Gah... That's trash talk even Shaq would not condone - 26/03/2010 11:51:48 AM 567 Views
What I'm suggesting is this: - 26/03/2010 01:12:56 PM 556 Views
Not really - 26/03/2010 01:34:10 PM 571 Views
I agree - 26/03/2010 01:41:31 PM 596 Views
That's just stupid. - 26/03/2010 02:33:02 PM 565 Views
Do you understand what "service" is? - 26/03/2010 03:04:24 PM 595 Views
Not really. She's going there for the abortion, not the attitude. - 26/03/2010 03:13:06 PM 522 Views
So no you don't then? - 26/03/2010 03:21:13 PM 574 Views
Since when was nursing part of the service industry? - 26/03/2010 04:06:31 PM 643 Views
Since they started providing a service? - 26/03/2010 04:44:18 PM 724 Views
It says it right here: - 26/03/2010 07:41:23 PM 872 Views
Snoop, - 26/03/2010 08:29:04 PM 551 Views
...you do understand the concept of a "service" right? - 26/03/2010 07:11:10 PM 572 Views
By that definition... - 26/03/2010 07:44:04 PM 546 Views
okay then, if they are not offering a service - 26/03/2010 08:13:54 PM 537 Views
Thank you for mocking the fact that my first language is not english. - 26/03/2010 09:46:03 PM 569 Views
nothing in the health care industry is "free", not anywhere - 26/03/2010 11:44:49 PM 605 Views
It may be well known, but it works. How about this one, porca inglese? - 27/03/2010 02:40:04 AM 571 Views
something YOU seem to be too stupid to understand - 27/03/2010 03:06:53 AM 541 Views
Right. - 27/03/2010 04:56:29 AM 648 Views
Um. - 27/03/2010 10:24:31 AM 610 Views
So, you really don't think employers should/could fire people for being rude? - 26/03/2010 05:56:05 PM 565 Views
And somehow it never happens. - 26/03/2010 07:45:48 PM 554 Views
how do you define service? - 26/03/2010 12:33:37 PM 513 Views
And yet there is no body to enforce this new view amung doctors. - 26/03/2010 01:14:11 PM 582 Views
so because there's no enforcement... - 26/03/2010 02:44:58 PM 531 Views
Well, no. - 26/03/2010 03:11:47 PM 540 Views
we aren't saying that the nurse is breaking laws or anything. - 26/03/2010 03:37:56 PM 507 Views
And yet... - 26/03/2010 04:08:05 PM 531 Views
so you're fine with a doctor treating you like crap? - 26/03/2010 07:07:33 PM 533 Views
Re: so you're fine with a doctor treating you like crap? - 26/03/2010 07:49:15 PM 506 Views
Re: so you're fine with a doctor treating you like crap? - 26/03/2010 08:20:56 PM 535 Views
Learn to read your own language. - 26/03/2010 09:47:54 PM 562 Views
You're being as rude as a doctor - 27/03/2010 12:48:52 AM 532 Views
When she mocks my english repeadatly, it's what she gets. - 27/03/2010 02:43:49 AM 688 Views
your english is not mocked more than a native speakers would be - 27/03/2010 03:08:16 AM 519 Views
Re: your english is not mocked more than a native speakers would be - 27/03/2010 04:54:04 AM 512 Views

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