But can you honestly say your initial reaction would have been to start walking through the details? Or would you have still been annoyed at someone forcing the discussion too close to the event (pre-mourning, pre-information)?
I'm not trying to attack you, but it seems to me that if it's too early, it's too early. If not, it feels like it was a deflection. I personally think we should start talking, and I'm burnt out on seeing the sniping I saw all day, or I wouldn't be pushing you.