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I'd say you've waited quite some time Floffe Send a noteboard - 10/10/2017 03:57:11 AM

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At what point after you lose your soulmate and the love of your life is it okay to feel horny again?

It's been over 7 months since Laurel passed away. Almost a year since I last had sex. Yes I will be 65 on December 3rd. I'm old. I'm not dead.

I still feel guilty and disloyal when I think about another woman. How long is appropriate before I can get laid without beating myself up with guilt?


Would she want you to curl up and die yourself, or would she want you to have as good a life as you can? I didn't know your wife but if you put it like that, I think the answer is pretty clear.
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Question for everyone here. damookster - 10/10/2017 02:05:02 AM 1295 Views
I'd say you've waited quite some time Floffe - 10/10/2017 03:57:11 AM 795 Views
LOL damookster - 10/10/2017 04:01:45 AM 787 Views
This is such a difficult question! Tom - 10/10/2017 04:05:31 AM 863 Views
Thanks for your input Tom damookster - 10/10/2017 04:16:13 AM 937 Views
Truly? LiterateDog - 10/10/2017 12:55:03 PM 1009 Views
No she never said that damookster - 10/10/2017 01:17:11 PM 776 Views
I do understand. LiterateDog - 10/10/2017 01:26:26 PM 846 Views
Thanks Joe damookster - 10/10/2017 01:42:00 PM 878 Views
I agree with everything Joe said. The Shrike - 10/10/2017 03:10:30 PM 779 Views
I agree. *NM* LiterateDog - 10/10/2017 12:55:19 PM 403 Views
Lets talk about feelings, and lets not talk about Ethos Roland00 - 10/10/2017 04:24:44 AM 859 Views
Thanks Matt damookster - 10/10/2017 04:28:33 AM 771 Views
I will call my girlfriend , supermodel Barbora Palvin...she says she's waiting to meet you... Sports_Gambler - 10/10/2017 04:43:00 AM 1065 Views
Does she have sympathy for a lonely old man? damookster - 10/10/2017 04:46:47 AM 790 Views
Well... Sports_Gambler - 12/10/2017 03:05:24 PM 874 Views
NSSP .bullshit *NM* damookster - 10/10/2017 04:48:39 AM 475 Views
If I actually think and pay attention it makes sense Roland00 - 10/10/2017 05:03:34 AM 737 Views
che fa? *NM* damookster - 10/10/2017 05:10:32 AM 411 Views
I have a 7 am conference call. That's not good. *NM* damookster - 10/10/2017 05:21:49 AM 414 Views
Listen to one song and then go to bed. Roland00 - 10/10/2017 05:24:00 AM 976 Views
This one is better damookster - 10/10/2017 05:34:45 AM 918 Views
Now I lay me down to sleep forever by your side *NM* damookster - 10/10/2017 05:37:23 AM 421 Views
I might as well stay up until my 7 am call. *NM* damookster - 10/10/2017 07:22:33 AM 414 Views
No matter how drunk I get damookster - 10/10/2017 07:44:05 AM 686 Views
You are hurting yourself Sareitha Sedai - 10/10/2017 02:24:29 PM 833 Views
I don't think we can tell you that. nossy - 10/10/2017 07:47:47 AM 851 Views
that doesn't help damookster - 10/10/2017 07:56:15 AM 838 Views
I know. I'm sorry. nossy - 10/10/2017 08:04:14 AM 790 Views
I really think damookster - 10/10/2017 08:12:12 AM 829 Views
I'm not sure I agree with you. nossy - 10/10/2017 08:52:11 AM 832 Views
What nossy said^^ Sareitha Sedai - 10/10/2017 02:39:17 PM 846 Views
I'm so fucking drunk damookster - 10/10/2017 08:26:27 AM 804 Views
Damn! I wish I'd seen this last night! LiterateDog - 10/10/2017 12:56:00 PM 742 Views
*NM* damookster - 10/10/2017 01:15:02 PM 431 Views
Next time you're drunk The Shrike - 10/10/2017 03:11:39 PM 802 Views
Just three hours to heaven! *NM* LiterateDog - 10/10/2017 04:54:05 PM 431 Views
Please forgive me for my drunken ramblings damookster - 10/10/2017 01:19:42 PM 777 Views
Nothing to forgive The Shrike - 10/10/2017 03:12:13 PM 808 Views
You don't have to appologize.... Jeordam - 10/10/2017 09:22:39 PM 996 Views
we all have our moments and you have more excuse than most random thoughts - 11/10/2017 01:58:25 PM 914 Views
Yes, I agree damookster - 11/10/2017 02:08:45 PM 853 Views
Right or wrong, you shouldn't do anything significant for at least a year after something like that Cannoli - 11/10/2017 05:06:29 AM 1027 Views
This. damookster - 11/10/2017 01:56:14 PM 1010 Views
It isn't about what your wife would want, it is about how you feel. HyogaRott - 12/10/2017 04:32:43 PM 723 Views
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