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I'm just gonna put this out there... Jeordam Send a noteboard - 20/10/2017 07:24:55 PM

In regards to sexual abuse/rape....

Have you ever considered that by putting so much weight and value on establishing that trigger warning, that you are putting an equal weight and value on that event?

What I'm saying is that in all of my experience (details I'm not going to go into), a very big aspect of healing is not having that event define their entire life. Now those trigger warnings are putting so much value and weight into that event....

You are actually helping to ensure that the event defines their life....

~Jeordam

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Why Are [SOME] Millennials Wary of Freedom? The Shrike - 16/10/2017 07:16:47 PM 2487 Views
Good article. Tom - 16/10/2017 08:05:48 PM 988 Views
Indeed it is a pathology of fear. LiterateDog - 17/10/2017 01:59:24 AM 902 Views
This makes me especially sad. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:47:51 PM 843 Views
never thought of it that way but excellent points *NM* random thoughts - 17/10/2017 03:31:51 AM 601 Views
Definitely a possibility. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:46:42 PM 848 Views
I totally agree on there being fewer causes for fear. Legolas - 17/10/2017 06:39:38 PM 921 Views
Wait...you said *Rubio* was trying to push a positive, hopeful message? RUBIO? Tom - 17/10/2017 08:22:40 PM 856 Views
Maybe I shouldn't have omitted the disclaimer about his foreign policy. Legolas - 17/10/2017 08:33:37 PM 873 Views
Ok, fair enough Tom - 17/10/2017 09:15:14 PM 800 Views
Yes. I think the days of American armed intervention in Latin-America are well behind us. Legolas - 17/10/2017 11:54:41 PM 834 Views
Regarding 'Make America Great Again'. Trump wasn't the first. He won't be the last. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 08:44:09 PM 980 Views
Do we still have WSE points? I was quite the mogul in the waning days of WoTmania. *NM* Hieshyn - 16/10/2017 11:36:00 PM 565 Views
/me steals your WSE points. *NM* The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:48:08 PM 533 Views
Interesting damookster - 16/10/2017 11:46:32 PM 890 Views
Old dude, you make a good point, too. LiterateDog - 17/10/2017 02:01:29 AM 852 Views
Authority for Authority sake is just as Mores-less as No Respect for Authority Roland00 - 17/10/2017 06:07:15 AM 931 Views
All generations experienced different cultures with different views *NM* random thoughts - 17/10/2017 11:41:40 AM 511 Views
Agreed but there is a difference in severity between 1997 to 2017 vs 997 to 1017 *NM* Roland00 - 18/10/2017 05:52:14 AM 505 Views
but less than 1900 vs 1920 random thoughts - 18/10/2017 02:27:59 PM 811 Views
I still have hope The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:50:35 PM 924 Views
I shall endeavor to combine Tom'n'Mookie's theories into one grand theory of... LiterateDog - 17/10/2017 02:15:48 AM 897 Views
So we are back in the Age of Romanticism. Western Civilization has been there before. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:58:04 PM 881 Views
This article agrees with your assessment The Shrike - 17/10/2017 02:30:03 PM 976 Views
I appreciate your amendment. Ghavrel - 17/10/2017 03:14:19 AM 1151 Views
no it is just hard to see the problem from the inside random thoughts - 17/10/2017 11:51:08 AM 878 Views
Re: no it is just hard to see the problem from the inside - uh, yes. nossy - 17/10/2017 01:44:26 PM 951 Views
Most of us are very good at that random thoughts - 17/10/2017 08:24:50 PM 885 Views
Thanks. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 01:00:42 PM 797 Views
I disagree with relation to trigger warnings. Ghavrel - 17/10/2017 11:17:45 PM 858 Views
A fair point. - Still, how far will you extend them? The Shrike - 18/10/2017 12:47:50 AM 833 Views
I don't know, but I'm not entirely sure it's a big deal either way. Ghavrel - 18/10/2017 02:56:09 AM 788 Views
Nods Roland00 - 18/10/2017 03:17:17 AM 804 Views
And I would posit that no work of literature should have any trigger warnings. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 01:02:44 PM 991 Views
Re: And I would posit that no work of literature should have any trigger warnings. Ghavrel - 18/10/2017 08:48:01 PM 869 Views
How would you propose such warnings be worded? damookster - 18/10/2017 09:21:02 PM 855 Views
Do you know a lot of people who suffer from PTSD? Ghavrel - 19/10/2017 05:26:06 AM 1032 Views
Stop. Now. Tom - 19/10/2017 06:21:13 AM 792 Views
Avoidance isn't the purpose of those warnings, though. Ghavrel - 19/10/2017 06:32:16 AM 830 Views
You would ruin the literature though. And discussions around the literature. The Shrike - 19/10/2017 01:21:20 PM 869 Views
That's reasonable. Ghavrel - 19/10/2017 11:58:56 PM 834 Views
Third party website? I fully support that. The Shrike - 20/10/2017 12:41:33 PM 956 Views
Peace for our time! I agree with everything you wrote here. I'm always a sucker for more studies. *NM* Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:03:31 AM 467 Views
Well argument settled becuase they already exist random thoughts - 23/10/2017 01:46:55 PM 766 Views
Yeah but they don't necessarily exist for works of literature usually read at the university level The Shrike - 24/10/2017 12:28:35 PM 788 Views
That is true but it could fixed if there was more demand random thoughts - 24/10/2017 10:00:21 PM 805 Views
I feel like I now need a trigger warning for trigger warnings. *NM* The Shrike - 25/10/2017 12:48:47 PM 544 Views
Fuck you Tom Roland00 - 19/10/2017 07:06:47 AM 956 Views
Oh come on... Belals Girl - 19/10/2017 05:12:46 PM 846 Views
HAHAHA! This from the person who can't even write a coherent post *NM* Tom - 20/10/2017 07:10:45 PM 501 Views
Oh please damookster - 19/10/2017 02:10:11 PM 920 Views
Re: Oh please Ghavrel - 20/10/2017 12:01:02 AM 854 Views
What is your basis for arguing that "trigger warnings" are beneficial? Tom - 20/10/2017 07:19:42 PM 825 Views
Ha! Joke's on you! We don't do interrogatories in the criminal system. Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:01:54 AM 852 Views
If you are not proposing altering any literature... Tom - 22/10/2017 04:28:53 PM 834 Views
I'm just gonna put this out there... Jeordam - 20/10/2017 07:24:55 PM 831 Views
Eh, I don't think that's accurate. Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:04:58 AM 765 Views
An unnecessary tool.... Jeordam - 23/10/2017 05:14:06 PM 782 Views
Why does this reasoning apply to PTSD but not to other diseases? PTSD is a physical issue. Ghavrel - 24/10/2017 12:33:31 AM 776 Views
I would challenge that statment.... Jeordam - 24/10/2017 05:14:17 PM 971 Views
Do you actually believe those examples are valid? *NM* random thoughts - 23/10/2017 07:32:59 PM 465 Views
Forget it, mook. He's just being a silly, stupid kid. He should know better. *NM* Tom - 19/10/2017 06:17:28 AM 578 Views
Agreed. Tom - 19/10/2017 06:16:33 AM 935 Views
Interesting article. Legolas - 17/10/2017 07:41:34 PM 843 Views
Why are some HUMANS wary of freedom? Roland00 - 17/10/2017 05:31:04 AM 820 Views
Maybe the victimhood thing is another kind of honor Cannoli - 17/10/2017 01:02:43 PM 893 Views
Because it's easier to absolve oneself of power sometimes. For those people anyway. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 01:10:41 PM 821 Views
I apologize before hand Roland00 - 18/10/2017 01:11:59 AM 812 Views
Only made it through page 2. Were there separate graphs for just N. American/West European nations? The Shrike - 18/10/2017 01:04:05 PM 803 Views
I haven't read all the comments, so I apologize if I'm doubling up nossy - 17/10/2017 01:06:00 PM 1042 Views
Oh those echo chambers. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 01:16:40 PM 937 Views
I hate blaming things nossy - 17/10/2017 02:04:44 PM 999 Views
I'm not even sure "echo chamber" is the right phrase Tom - 17/10/2017 02:17:07 PM 945 Views
I'm not sure that is the most common choice. nossy - 17/10/2017 05:21:52 PM 1026 Views
I get irritated too. But I still keep them in my news feed as well. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 08:49:45 PM 814 Views
Je ne regrette rien. My memes are both spicy and piquant. *NM* Ghavrel - 17/10/2017 11:20:55 PM 459 Views
I'm of Russian extraction. I like my food bland. Garlic, dill, salt, pepper. It's enough for me. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 12:52:27 AM 796 Views
You know, I'd not thought about that. Ghavrel - 18/10/2017 03:07:05 AM 851 Views
I find him intriguing as a Captain. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 01:09:07 PM 833 Views
So now we are at episode 6 The Shrike - 24/10/2017 12:31:06 PM 733 Views
6 was by far the best episode of the series. *NM* Ghavrel - 24/10/2017 08:07:55 PM 481 Views
Yes The Shrike - 25/10/2017 12:50:15 PM 793 Views
But are your Memes brothy and fully of Umami? Roland00 - 18/10/2017 01:17:07 AM 755 Views
Umami is an irritating word *NM* damookster - 18/10/2017 04:59:21 PM 426 Views
Yes, ohdaddy is a much better word. *NM* LiterateDog - 18/10/2017 05:15:48 PM 536 Views
*NM* damookster - 18/10/2017 05:39:12 PM 465 Views
*NM* The Shrike - 18/10/2017 06:27:31 PM 458 Views
Snorts / Laughs so hard that I almost lost the drink I was enjoying. *NM* Roland00 - 19/10/2017 06:00:47 AM 495 Views
I do think some of this is specifically American and to a lesser extent the rest of the Anglosphere. Legolas - 17/10/2017 06:26:33 PM 863 Views
Agreed with all your points. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 08:53:23 PM 866 Views
The Netherlands, I'm not so sure about. Legolas - 17/10/2017 11:43:54 PM 838 Views
My apologies. I see Dutch and don't think of Belgium. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 12:56:26 AM 847 Views
That's alright. This is a confusing country in many ways. Legolas - 18/10/2017 08:58:15 PM 832 Views
America and to a lesser extent the rest of the Anglosphere puts a higher valuer on liberty *NM* random thoughts - 19/10/2017 01:53:50 PM 498 Views
Yes, in some ways it does. *NM* Legolas - 19/10/2017 05:38:41 PM 498 Views
Simple, true fredom is includes the freedom to fail HyogaRott - 20/10/2017 05:43:13 PM 881 Views
Re: Simple, true fredom is/includes the freedom to fail *NM* HyogaRott - 20/10/2017 05:45:51 PM 534 Views
Yes it is the freedom to fail Roland00 - 20/10/2017 06:36:02 PM 891 Views
This entire thread was so awesome.... Jeordam - 20/10/2017 07:12:46 PM 896 Views
Jeo I think you in particular will appreciate this damookster - 20/10/2017 09:07:39 PM 835 Views
Interesting.....wisdom from on high.... Jeordam - 20/10/2017 09:58:36 PM 746 Views
damn it *NM* damookster - 20/10/2017 09:07:39 PM 432 Views
I think a lot of us are thinking about trigger warnings differently. Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:07:01 AM 837 Views
Maybe, maybe not... Jeordam - 23/10/2017 05:18:16 PM 749 Views
Glad you enjoyed it and that it provoked thought. The Shrike - 23/10/2017 02:32:57 PM 814 Views
I see this as... Jeordam - 23/10/2017 05:23:54 PM 794 Views
I kind of break them down into two types Vodalus - 22/10/2017 03:25:04 AM 893 Views
I wonder how much the fall of communism has to do with this? random thoughts - 24/10/2017 10:20:16 PM 835 Views
Definitely more than a bit. The Shrike - 25/10/2017 12:51:55 PM 760 Views
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