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I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah Send a noteboard - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM
No man is mentally monogamous. I guarantee you every man cheats in his head. Every day. But that's why the power of choice is so wonderful. We have free will baby

Agreed.

Thankfully it's still a long way from "in the head" to actually doing it :)


Not every man finds the idea of sleeping with another woman attractive. Thus they don't think about it.

It seems to me that the "every man cheats in his head" thing is a total cop out to prevent feelings of guilt.

That's what I think, anyway.
*MySmiley*

Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read. - Groucho Marx
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Do All Men Cheat? LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 09:03:09 PM 1783 Views
Is it just me, or does the paying kind of make her something else than a "mistress"? Legolas - 29/07/2010 09:30:56 PM 1348 Views
that was the idea i'm aware the article is FULL of holes *NM* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:16:00 PM 579 Views
Her "100%" claim was ambiguous in the worst possible way. Tim - 29/07/2010 10:21:13 PM 1285 Views
I dunno, there's really only one interpretation that makes sense. Legolas - 29/07/2010 10:29:48 PM 1371 Views
Well, gay men have had the reputation for being exceptionally promiscuous, so don't discount them. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:33:45 AM 683 Views
Sure, but it's not women they look at and think about. *NM* Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:55:33 AM 648 Views
Payment is payment, whether in bills or a wedding ring *NM* Cannoli - 29/07/2010 11:31:09 PM 645 Views
She's right about one thing: Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 09:37:38 PM 1336 Views
but it's not like that's limited to men. LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:20:21 PM 1219 Views
I knew it! *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:33:20 PM 580 Views
That's true ironclad - 30/07/2010 12:27:02 AM 1087 Views
For some men its not so long...that sounded dirty didn't it? Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 12:37:28 AM 1272 Views
I think that's a lie designed to make men who do cheat in their minds feel better about it. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:41:48 AM 1466 Views
Are you talking about gay and asexual men? Tim - 30/07/2010 12:44:44 AM 1234 Views
I think we're not understanding each other here. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 12:47:09 AM 1364 Views
Sorry darlin you just don't know what it's like to be a man Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 01:21:48 AM 1256 Views
apparently being a man includes condescending. LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 01:28:20 AM 1144 Views
You don't think we talk? I'm not just puffing gas here Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:04:59 AM 1286 Views
i'm just trying to say that totally discounting what she was saying was rude LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:16:03 AM 1379 Views
Point taken Dark Knight - 30/07/2010 02:21:21 AM 1311 Views
still, that being said... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 02:31:11 AM 1219 Views
Or not. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:48 AM 1266 Views
You don't think that a woman can have a completely honest conversation with a man? Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:49:21 AM 1332 Views
It's a stereotype based on pretty solid biological evidence, though. Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:10:30 AM 1273 Views
No offense, but that post is rather useless as long as you don't define "sexual thoughts". Legolas - 30/07/2010 09:54:37 AM 1534 Views
True. Ghavrel - 31/07/2010 08:20:28 AM 1216 Views
Regardless of what you and your friends do or say, it's not true of all men. lord-of-shadow - 30/07/2010 05:51:49 PM 1292 Views
Quite. Rebekah - 30/07/2010 08:40:18 AM 1156 Views
snoopcester - 30/07/2010 10:31:20 AM 1126 Views
"mentally monogamous" is one of the stupidest expressions I've ever heard. i can't even comment. *NM* Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:56:15 PM 863 Views
XD [hi5!] *NM* (beat.) - 31/07/2010 03:07:09 AM 580 Views
This. *NM* Avendesora - 02/08/2010 04:42:59 PM 499 Views
Every man can't cheat every day, because not every man is in a relationship *NM* Helene - 31/07/2010 07:54:31 AM 569 Views
I love my husband. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 09:44:51 PM 1310 Views
Be thankful you can't read his mind. Ignorance is bliss *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:17:38 PM 583 Views
Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:33:08 PM 1086 Views
You mean like one would appreciate fine art? Nothing sexual about that *NM* Dark Knight - 29/07/2010 10:35:35 PM 627 Views
Heh. Rebekah - 29/07/2010 10:41:34 PM 1160 Views
Would you honestly get upset at him for that? StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:39:50 PM 1218 Views
Personally, I would say... LadyLorraine - 30/07/2010 10:17:37 PM 1155 Views
That's kind of where I was coming from. StormCrow - 02/08/2010 03:33:37 PM 1412 Views
Hmm snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:45:48 PM 1340 Views
I totally know that i was just using it to start a conversation LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 10:49:05 PM 1112 Views
Liar! snoopcester - 29/07/2010 10:55:03 PM 1097 Views
*dumps a gallon of fresh sardines on your head* LadyLorraine - 29/07/2010 11:23:33 PM 1206 Views
...now I want some cake *NM* beetnemesis - 29/07/2010 11:21:18 PM 502 Views
me too, I have chocolate cake in the kitchen Delireus - 30/07/2010 06:00:24 AM 1198 Views
I don't know, sis. StarrBecca - 30/07/2010 03:52:21 AM 1333 Views
Biologically designed.... Ectheledhel - 30/07/2010 03:54:00 AM 1239 Views
Bastard... Joel - 03/08/2010 09:52:41 AM 1257 Views
It'd be too long Joel. Ectheledhel - 03/08/2010 03:38:19 PM 1175 Views
Fair enough. Joel - 03/08/2010 03:50:55 PM 1212 Views
I feel confident in saying that all men think mentally at somepoint in a sexual way toward... everynametaken - 30/07/2010 07:06:57 AM 1279 Views
This. *NM* Ghavrel - 30/07/2010 09:11:17 AM 682 Views
Utter nonsense. Macharius - 30/07/2010 01:57:42 PM 1223 Views
Works out well for the men. StormCrow - 30/07/2010 08:12:53 PM 1213 Views
No. Aeryn - 30/07/2010 04:58:06 PM 1297 Views
one major porblem with this whole thing random thoughts - 30/07/2010 08:33:18 PM 1098 Views
That's the exact point, she'll get skewed results due to the self selected nature of her study group Helene - 31/07/2010 08:02:54 AM 1233 Views
Not sure it is that much different for the ladies random thoughts - 01/08/2010 04:17:39 AM 1171 Views
Oh, I wouldn't doubt that, either. Helene - 06/08/2010 02:28:35 PM 1337 Views
~shrugs~ damookster - 31/07/2010 03:40:17 AM 1067 Views
<3 *NM* Rebekah - 31/07/2010 10:21:38 AM 517 Views
"Don't let yourself go — there is nothing less valued than a commodity that no one else wants" Foxhead - 31/07/2010 09:52:29 AM 1555 Views
having reread this article, theres's actually very little that i disagree with *NM* Foxhead - 31/07/2010 10:04:43 AM 809 Views
If we're talking 'mentally' SilverWarder - 01/08/2010 03:31:48 AM 1372 Views
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