of course, yes, no one can REALLY know what someone else is thinking (except that rare psychic, if you believe that). But still, regardless of gender, individuals tend to know the minds of those around them and close to them better than those thousands of miles away and of no acquaintance

BTW, if I'm starting to sound crazy feminist, I'm really not. I'm actually thinking of this in a way that behooves men I think the stereotype really is such a stereotype that even other men readily assume its true across the board. And besides, thinking "Oh I'd totally bang that chick in theory" is nothing but human. I really don't think the male libido outstretches the female libido by near as much as people think it does. Biologically, that is. There's definitely an argument to be made that societal expectations and similar influences both stagnate the female sexuality and amplify the male's.