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I need some advice on learning a language Dark Knight Send a noteboard - 11/08/2010 05:27:52 PM
So I've been dating a Pakistani girl for almost two years (this is not the subject of this post. Though I could write a long post about our struggles, believe me). She would really like it if I learned her language. She speaks perfect English by the way. In fact, the first time I heard her speak I was taken aback. She has sort of a Valley girl accent. I was not expecting that accent to come from a Middle-Eastern girl (oh sorry, Asian as she always corrects me).

I digress, sorry. Her native language is Urdu. To my surprise, the fabulous Rosetta Stone people haven't made the learning software for this language, despite the fact that it's spoken by millions of people. But they have made a Hindi software. My girlfriend tells me that Hindi is very similar to Urdu and that if I learn Hindi then I will understand Urdu. But writing in Hindi is very different than writing in Urdu. Rosetta Stone teaches you how to speak and read the language.

Should I spend all that money to learn Hindi when it might just confuse me? My girlfriend doesn't have the time to teach me, in case you're wondering. And the software out there for Urdu seems like a joke. Any advice?
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I need some advice on learning a language - 11/08/2010 05:27:52 PM 746 Views
For the amount of money that the Rosetta Stone software costs... - 11/08/2010 05:35:37 PM 642 Views
Haha not quite; Texas. Also why I was so surprised *NM* - 11/08/2010 05:44:28 PM 262 Views
where in Tx is your g/f from? - 12/08/2010 05:44:03 AM 568 Views
If thats true then I definitely can't tell you! *NM* - 12/08/2010 06:15:24 AM 254 Views
It shouldn't be too hard to find a book + CD you can learn from. Why is software so important? *NM* - 11/08/2010 05:38:48 PM 301 Views
Because my free time consists of 2 hours before bed *NM* - 11/08/2010 05:45:16 PM 256 Views
And? - 11/08/2010 06:17:22 PM 574 Views
Oh I thought you were asking why I don't go to a class *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:24:43 PM 250 Views
find a new girlfriend? - 11/08/2010 05:45:19 PM 636 Views
Yeah, it would be silly to waste your time on Devanagari when you need to learn the Arabic alphabet. - 11/08/2010 05:48:22 PM 663 Views
Very helpful! Thanks! - 11/08/2010 06:09:09 PM 620 Views
Hindi is pretty much the same as Urdu speaking wise.... - 11/08/2010 06:17:50 PM 685 Views
My girlfriend has family in Canada... - 11/08/2010 06:23:35 PM 599 Views
Seems like after two years, it might be time to let her family know about you... *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:43:55 PM 270 Views
We're about at that point - 11/08/2010 06:48:42 PM 534 Views
That makes sense, yes. - 11/08/2010 06:52:53 PM 600 Views
I know the fear, yes - 11/08/2010 07:41:16 PM 653 Views
Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? - 11/08/2010 07:46:48 PM 665 Views
Re: Is your status in society the same in Indian culture as it is in Pakistani culture? - 11/08/2010 08:01:44 PM 671 Views
Rant all you want! - 11/08/2010 08:18:54 PM 521 Views
Oh my goodness.... - 11/08/2010 08:21:16 PM 750 Views
I have family in Texas, lol - 11/08/2010 06:50:25 PM 596 Views
A kindred spirit! - 11/08/2010 07:06:25 PM 662 Views
Re: A kindred spirit! - 11/08/2010 07:15:50 PM 591 Views
Wow I'm not alone! - 11/08/2010 07:27:02 PM 609 Views
You are right, - 11/08/2010 07:37:15 PM 641 Views
I hear you - 11/08/2010 07:43:07 PM 680 Views
Re: I hear you - 11/08/2010 08:09:27 PM 740 Views
I learn something new everyday. I did not know that. Fascinating - 11/08/2010 08:17:16 PM 592 Views
I think you're missing the important thing here. Why does she want you to learn it? *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:32:58 PM 249 Views
Because she speaks to her family/friends in her language and doesnt want me left out - 11/08/2010 06:38:00 PM 591 Views
Okay, but none of them speak English? *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:42:25 PM 279 Views
Yes but its really a cultural thing - 11/08/2010 06:46:01 PM 580 Views
It makes sense. - 12/08/2010 07:47:12 PM 732 Views
It does - 12/08/2010 07:55:31 PM 832 Views
No, I haven't read them all. - 12/08/2010 08:08:14 PM 496 Views
Why shouldn't she? *NM* - 11/08/2010 06:44:14 PM 259 Views
Re: Why shouldn't she? - 12/08/2010 07:54:47 PM 550 Views
why not? it's a part of her and languages are fun. - 12/08/2010 03:33:53 AM 576 Views
Re: languages are fun. That depends. - 12/08/2010 08:03:06 PM 608 Views
My advice - 11/08/2010 07:28:39 PM 857 Views
I want to learn Romanian - 11/08/2010 07:43:09 PM 538 Views
Re: I want to learn Romanian - 11/08/2010 08:36:46 PM 626 Views
I'm definitely going to check that out! *NM* - 11/08/2010 07:44:18 PM 282 Views
You too, huh? - 11/08/2010 08:07:44 PM 614 Views
Yeah, I love the Finnish language - 11/08/2010 08:47:09 PM 560 Views
Ohhh. That's a much better reason than mine. - 11/08/2010 08:49:34 PM 568 Views
Ok as an urdu speaking paki i can tell you a few things - 12/08/2010 05:41:52 AM 760 Views
Or... - 12/08/2010 11:00:42 AM 589 Views
Re: Or... - 12/08/2010 04:57:59 PM 606 Views
Good luck and God bless. - 12/08/2010 11:50:18 AM 549 Views
youre moving to Karachi? *NM* - 12/08/2010 04:59:25 PM 235 Views
Er, no. - 12/08/2010 05:16:51 PM 880 Views

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