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You are being silly and immature. Aeryn Send a noteboard - 22/09/2010 09:49:20 PM
Privacy is a BIG thing. You may not demand to know the caller's name. You may only politely inquire if you may breach their privacy by learning their name. And yes, you do need permission for that.

Good alternative include

"May I have your name?"

"What is your name, if you don't mind?" (more casual; I usually only say this way when I'm already taking down a message from them)

"May I tell him who's calling?"

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. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:19:28 PM 1756 Views
I think "May I ask who's calling" is more polite. Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 08:26:55 PM 1168 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:31:17 PM 1121 Views
Well, but... Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 08:42:22 PM 1219 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:05:01 PM 1086 Views
you may not BE a receptionist... LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:20:09 PM 1229 Views
"And your name, so I can tell (the person you asked for)?" *NM* Hezzah - 23/09/2010 12:34:18 AM 538 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 08:33:24 PM 1200 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:38:45 PM 1067 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 08:55:34 PM 1379 Views
Well, the whole asking permission bit is part of being polite. *NM* Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 09:05:43 PM 513 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:06:47 PM 1086 Views
Not so good for the phone answering, then. *NM* Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 11:29:34 PM 538 Views
Hmm... Isaac - 22/09/2010 08:59:23 PM 1231 Views
It's "who" *NM* Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:50:15 PM 534 Views
Quite true Isaac - 22/09/2010 10:07:46 PM 1192 Views
I say, "May I ask who's calling?" Tigr - 22/09/2010 09:00:10 PM 1159 Views
What do you do if they say "No" ? TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 09:43:42 PM 1119 Views
Than you say. ''Ok." They may have a reason for not disclosing their name. Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:49:56 PM 1135 Views
That reason is often that they are nutters. M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 10:29:19 PM 1227 Views
I hate it when people pull the "attorney-client privilege" thing. Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 11:31:01 PM 1036 Views
They are almost invariably nutters. Elaine - 23/09/2010 01:45:41 PM 1511 Views
Ah, you mean because they want to sell my boss storm windows or vinyl siding. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 10:30:15 PM 554 Views
Tools! Tigr - 22/09/2010 10:13:32 PM 1119 Views
I usually ask: "Who am I speaking with, again?" ironclad - 22/09/2010 09:12:29 PM 1212 Views
I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 09:14:58 PM 1357 Views
^ this. *NM* LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:23:00 PM 512 Views
Re: I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:42:29 PM 1305 Views
+1 *NM* Rebekah - 22/09/2010 10:10:59 PM 607 Views
I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:27:05 PM 1282 Views
Re: I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:40:10 PM 1288 Views
well, i can sympathize with that a bit at least LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:00:34 PM 1434 Views
"Who should I say is calling?" *NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 09:41:57 PM 527 Views
This. It's polite, and asks the question correctly. beetnemesis - 23/09/2010 02:05:01 AM 1095 Views
I usually say "Who may I say is calling?" but that works too... Tom - 23/09/2010 01:59:03 PM 1497 Views
language games..... temeraire - 22/09/2010 09:42:35 PM 1151 Views
There would be apoplectic outcries if I answered the phone in such a way lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:45:56 PM 1332 Views
yeah.... i'm happy i get to be informal! temeraire - 23/09/2010 02:58:31 AM 1195 Views
Who is this? is unprofessional random thoughts - 22/09/2010 09:45:05 PM 1207 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:48:58 PM 1371 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional ironclad - 22/09/2010 09:54:13 PM 1166 Views
it is not US standards. *NM* LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:03:47 PM 552 Views
good. *NM* ironclad - 22/09/2010 10:13:22 PM 597 Views
I generally don't because BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 10:43:38 PM 1076 Views
well fair enough... ironclad - 23/09/2010 08:07:08 AM 1153 Views
it doesn't matter if you HAVE to know their name. LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:07:18 PM 1231 Views
You don’t have to transfer for them if they refuse but you should still ask politely random thoughts - 22/09/2010 10:31:55 PM 1240 Views
You are being silly and immature. Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:49:20 PM 1037 Views
Thanks for your input? lyringlas - 22/09/2010 10:17:21 PM 1305 Views
I usually say, "B*tch, who you be!?" Mats Gambling Buddy - 22/09/2010 10:13:57 PM 1142 Views
Do you pronounce that with a click sound? Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 10:15:29 PM 1187 Views
And I be all, like, sobbing and crying cause you're a rude jerk. And then you laugh at me some more TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 10:33:38 PM 1140 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? Zeeb - 22/09/2010 10:29:33 PM 984 Views
Perfect. *NM* Avendesora - 23/09/2010 12:47:14 AM 592 Views
No you are *NM* Zeeb - 23/09/2010 11:53:07 AM 590 Views
Please stop splitting hairs. You're way is simply inccorrect. You cannot justify the rudeness away. M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 10:49:05 PM 1302 Views
politeness is practically the definition of professionalism. LadyLorraine - 23/09/2010 03:37:27 AM 1196 Views
Who is this? always comes across as rude. *NM* Chas - 22/09/2010 11:17:31 PM 523 Views
"Who may I say is calling, please?" is short and polite. Tashmere - 23/09/2010 01:13:43 AM 1143 Views
when someone asks me "may I ask who's calling?"... damookster - 23/09/2010 03:29:30 AM 1111 Views
that's because you're a tool LadyLorraine - 23/09/2010 03:39:08 AM 1423 Views
because it amuses me *NM* damookster - 23/09/2010 03:41:18 AM 537 Views
It's quite simple, really. Do you like getting paid? Then answer the phone the way your boss wants *NM* Missa Sedai - 24/09/2010 03:46:24 AM 574 Views
Huh Sareitha Sedai - 15/07/2015 02:06:55 PM 710 Views
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