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That reason is often that they are nutters. M & M Maddy Send a noteboard - 22/09/2010 10:29:19 PM
I know there are a few types of business where not giving your name is acceptable when you call them but in my line of work, not so much.

I had one client who was so paranoid that when he called to make an appointment, he argued with me about why I needed his name, and even the briefest description of his issue. When I get tired of asking I generally go to "Well I'm sorry, but thats the information I need to give you an appointment. My boss will not allow an exception, I'm sorry we can't help you." Which will change most people's tunes.

And then when he came for his appointment, he didnt want to give me his documents to make copies of until I swore I would not read them. And once he was speaking to the attorney, he had a freak out and declared he didn't "feel comfortable" being closed in the office with him and demanded the door be open.

We've got confidentiality issues to deal with so that was a really annoying request.

People are nutters. Utter nutters.
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. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:19:28 PM 1801 Views
I think "May I ask who's calling" is more polite. Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 08:26:55 PM 1212 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:31:17 PM 1169 Views
Well, but... Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 08:42:22 PM 1261 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:05:01 PM 1135 Views
you may not BE a receptionist... LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:20:09 PM 1272 Views
"And your name, so I can tell (the person you asked for)?" *NM* Hezzah - 23/09/2010 12:34:18 AM 560 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 08:33:24 PM 1250 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 08:38:45 PM 1105 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 08:55:34 PM 1416 Views
Well, the whole asking permission bit is part of being polite. *NM* Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 09:05:43 PM 535 Views
. lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:06:47 PM 1129 Views
Not so good for the phone answering, then. *NM* Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 11:29:34 PM 561 Views
Hmm... Isaac - 22/09/2010 08:59:23 PM 1274 Views
It's "who" *NM* Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:50:15 PM 560 Views
Quite true Isaac - 22/09/2010 10:07:46 PM 1249 Views
I say, "May I ask who's calling?" Tigr - 22/09/2010 09:00:10 PM 1200 Views
What do you do if they say "No" ? TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 09:43:42 PM 1171 Views
Than you say. ''Ok." They may have a reason for not disclosing their name. Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:49:56 PM 1182 Views
That reason is often that they are nutters. M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 10:29:19 PM 1279 Views
I hate it when people pull the "attorney-client privilege" thing. Ghavrel - 22/09/2010 11:31:01 PM 1087 Views
They are almost invariably nutters. Elaine - 23/09/2010 01:45:41 PM 1557 Views
Ah, you mean because they want to sell my boss storm windows or vinyl siding. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 10:30:15 PM 573 Views
Tools! Tigr - 22/09/2010 10:13:32 PM 1169 Views
I usually ask: "Who am I speaking with, again?" ironclad - 22/09/2010 09:12:29 PM 1265 Views
I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 09:14:58 PM 1399 Views
^ this. *NM* LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:23:00 PM 538 Views
Re: I'm of the opinion that when you are at work, you represent your employer lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:42:29 PM 1356 Views
+1 *NM* Rebekah - 22/09/2010 10:10:59 PM 633 Views
I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 09:27:05 PM 1325 Views
Re: I typically say something along the lines of "And who am I speaking to?" lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:40:10 PM 1340 Views
well, i can sympathize with that a bit at least LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:00:34 PM 1485 Views
"Who should I say is calling?" *NM* TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 09:41:57 PM 553 Views
This. It's polite, and asks the question correctly. beetnemesis - 23/09/2010 02:05:01 AM 1153 Views
I usually say "Who may I say is calling?" but that works too... Tom - 23/09/2010 01:59:03 PM 1549 Views
language games..... temeraire - 22/09/2010 09:42:35 PM 1196 Views
There would be apoplectic outcries if I answered the phone in such a way lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:45:56 PM 1380 Views
yeah.... i'm happy i get to be informal! temeraire - 23/09/2010 02:58:31 AM 1231 Views
Who is this? is unprofessional random thoughts - 22/09/2010 09:45:05 PM 1255 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional lyringlas - 22/09/2010 09:48:58 PM 1415 Views
Re: Who is this? is unprofessional ironclad - 22/09/2010 09:54:13 PM 1213 Views
it is not US standards. *NM* LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:03:47 PM 572 Views
good. *NM* ironclad - 22/09/2010 10:13:22 PM 622 Views
I generally don't because BlackAdder - 22/09/2010 10:43:38 PM 1130 Views
well fair enough... ironclad - 23/09/2010 08:07:08 AM 1199 Views
it doesn't matter if you HAVE to know their name. LadyLorraine - 22/09/2010 10:07:18 PM 1279 Views
You don’t have to transfer for them if they refuse but you should still ask politely random thoughts - 22/09/2010 10:31:55 PM 1284 Views
You are being silly and immature. Aeryn - 22/09/2010 09:49:20 PM 1079 Views
Thanks for your input? lyringlas - 22/09/2010 10:17:21 PM 1350 Views
I usually say, "B*tch, who you be!?" Mats Gambling Buddy - 22/09/2010 10:13:57 PM 1182 Views
Do you pronounce that with a click sound? Sareitha Sedai - 22/09/2010 10:15:29 PM 1241 Views
And I be all, like, sobbing and crying cause you're a rude jerk. And then you laugh at me some more TaskmasterJack - 22/09/2010 10:33:38 PM 1185 Views
Re: May I ask who's calling / Who is this? Zeeb - 22/09/2010 10:29:33 PM 1043 Views
Perfect. *NM* Avendesora - 23/09/2010 12:47:14 AM 618 Views
No you are *NM* Zeeb - 23/09/2010 11:53:07 AM 622 Views
Please stop splitting hairs. You're way is simply inccorrect. You cannot justify the rudeness away. M & M Maddy - 22/09/2010 10:49:05 PM 1342 Views
politeness is practically the definition of professionalism. LadyLorraine - 23/09/2010 03:37:27 AM 1243 Views
Who is this? always comes across as rude. *NM* Chas - 22/09/2010 11:17:31 PM 550 Views
"Who may I say is calling, please?" is short and polite. Tashmere - 23/09/2010 01:13:43 AM 1191 Views
when someone asks me "may I ask who's calling?"... damookster - 23/09/2010 03:29:30 AM 1152 Views
that's because you're a tool LadyLorraine - 23/09/2010 03:39:08 AM 1463 Views
because it amuses me *NM* damookster - 23/09/2010 03:41:18 AM 561 Views
It's quite simple, really. Do you like getting paid? Then answer the phone the way your boss wants *NM* Missa Sedai - 24/09/2010 03:46:24 AM 595 Views
Huh Sareitha Sedai - 15/07/2015 02:06:55 PM 749 Views
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