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She said it's called Abu Haifa (sp?) Dragonsoul Send a noteboard - 25/03/2011 10:38:13 PM
She thinks it's a sect of Sunni Islam, although she's not 100% since she's not really a muslim herself.

It makes sense if it was really moderate because none of her family had an issue with her mother marrying her father who's Italian (although apparently he converted to Islam so who knows)
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Independence Day reference? Good man. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:28:35 PM 673 Views
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And her mother is Muslim. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:48:24 AM 1347 Views
What's it called? *NM* Legolas - 24/03/2011 10:36:28 PM 687 Views
please give him a moment to google an answer. *NM* Aisha - 25/03/2011 11:04:02 AM 691 Views
She said it's called Abu Haifa (sp?) Dragonsoul - 25/03/2011 10:38:13 PM 1307 Views
Hm, okay. Legolas - 26/03/2011 12:16:02 AM 1463 Views
That was it, Abu Hanifa. I'm poor with Arabic. Dragonsoul - 26/03/2011 01:08:12 AM 1417 Views
amazingly enough, I dont believe you. Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:32:26 PM 1445 Views
I'd prove it to you. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:47:33 AM 1336 Views
God help me, I'm agreeing with Dragonsoul. Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:29:56 PM 1285 Views
I think he is making it up for the benefit of this comunity Aisha - 24/03/2011 10:03:21 PM 1423 Views
Sometimes I worry about "this community"... Joel - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM 1530 Views
I think that would be a poor reason to not date someone random thoughts - 23/03/2011 01:07:31 PM 1420 Views
Can you edit your post and take out the cow analogies? Thanks. *NM* Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:31:51 PM 686 Views
I didn't even see the "cow & milk" analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:03:02 AM 1299 Views
being offensive makes it no less true random thoughts - 24/03/2011 01:25:34 PM 1309 Views
It's true that after a certain age, average men have an easier time finding dates Helene - 24/03/2011 01:31:35 PM 1292 Views
I don't date so I don't have personal experience random thoughts - 24/03/2011 03:29:50 PM 1291 Views
I don't date either... :-) Helene - 24/03/2011 03:42:33 PM 1506 Views
I think you're doing him a disservice. nossy - 23/03/2011 02:16:59 PM 1398 Views
This. Plus, to try to frame it more in A's terms... Sareitha Sedai - 23/03/2011 03:05:55 PM 1336 Views
It can add extra complications that negatively impact the likelihood of a successful relationship Helene - 23/03/2011 02:50:39 PM 1324 Views
What I forgot to mention in the post Helene - 23/03/2011 03:01:04 PM 1296 Views
Re: What I forgot to mention in the post Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:11:11 AM 1349 Views
If you have a lot in common with him and like him and are attracted to him Helene - 24/03/2011 09:41:01 AM 1239 Views
I think you should date him. Palatine - 23/03/2011 03:02:56 PM 1239 Views
I think you should date this guy if you like him. Morgawse - 23/03/2011 03:07:30 PM 1290 Views
I think that you're doing both of you a disservice. Jeordam - 23/03/2011 03:09:29 PM 1340 Views
I agree with you. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:26:02 PM 1326 Views
And my opinion matters more than everyone else here combined! MWAHAHAHAHAHA Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:28:06 PM 1283 Views
Well, you know your sis better than we do... ironclad - 23/03/2011 03:48:12 PM 1292 Views
Because you never know. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:00:44 PM 1479 Views
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LOL. ( Yes I really did laugh out loud) *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:55:22 AM 663 Views
Most of the other responses are ignoring your reasons. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:34:56 PM 1260 Views
No one should try to think from "the perspective of black women", not even 1 black woman can do that Helene - 23/03/2011 03:47:34 PM 1321 Views
Re Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:05:20 PM 1465 Views
I'm sure that Aeryn is lovely, but she's not the only lovely white woman in the world Helene - 24/03/2011 09:43:32 AM 1298 Views
Or nossy - 23/03/2011 03:47:56 PM 1299 Views
We have no control over how other people act. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:07:11 PM 1432 Views
I agree completely. nossy - 23/03/2011 04:17:59 PM 1396 Views
And it's a bit silly to determine for someone else who he should be dating *NM* Helene - 24/03/2011 09:33:09 AM 632 Views
This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Tom - 23/03/2011 03:54:15 PM 1327 Views
Your opinion: less than nothing. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:10:24 PM 1399 Views
Who are you? Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:37:43 PM 1450 Views
It's extremely unlikely that Tom was offended. Vivien - 23/03/2011 09:04:42 PM 1348 Views
I'm glad you're back, by the way. These threads are great. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 09:15:41 PM 701 Views
Thank you. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:01:08 AM 691 Views
I'm not offended, only amused at your poor logic. Tom - 23/03/2011 09:24:05 PM 1370 Views
That's lawyer logic! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:50:37 AM 1294 Views
Is there any other kind? *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 02:05:27 PM 670 Views
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This is all I get???? Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:54:22 AM 1355 Views
Oh, I appreciate. There's cake in the fridge *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:27:20 AM 647 Views
You two are sooo cute! *NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 07:29:12 PM 556 Views
+1, though I probably wouldn't have said it in quite the same way. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:03:07 PM 1310 Views
Yup. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 01:42:16 AM 1394 Views
That's a good analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:50:17 AM 1422 Views
Shrug. She likes *me*. Plus, Jewish guys love Asian girls, well-known fact. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:46:56 AM 1319 Views
So it's not her choice who she wants to date, but everyone around her?? Helene - 24/03/2011 09:39:58 AM 1274 Views
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When its the black race? *NM* Urza - 24/03/2011 02:21:13 AM 680 Views
You're such an ass *NM* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:52:12 AM 657 Views
*butts in* nossy - 24/03/2011 02:45:26 AM 1377 Views
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Or potentially not (directly) from Africa nossy - 24/03/2011 03:06:36 AM 1233 Views
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You're absolutely right. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:14:49 AM 1345 Views
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Is he "identifying as" black in a cultural context as well? Tom - 24/03/2011 02:04:43 PM 1198 Views
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You're a damn genius! nossy - 24/03/2011 03:09:26 AM 1332 Views
I don't feel like one ßelals Girl - 25/03/2011 01:17:07 AM 1290 Views
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Huh Aeryn - 25/03/2011 11:15:58 AM 1307 Views
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Ha. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:17:26 AM 1318 Views
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Kinda? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:23:12 AM 1359 Views
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Glad I could entertain. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:47:48 AM 615 Views
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An ally! Score! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:56:53 AM 1254 Views
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Well, yeah. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:49:47 AM 1160 Views
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he is not a resource, he is a man. *NM* Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:29:37 PM 732 Views
Cock is a resource. *NM* Urza - 23/03/2011 11:43:39 PM 647 Views
"Efficient allocation of cock?" Oh my, that sounds really wrong. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:32:23 AM 648 Views
seriously? that is dumb. date the man. also, it is dehumanising to refer to him as a resource. temeraire - 24/03/2011 12:52:38 AM 1362 Views
This is exactly it. Dan - 24/03/2011 04:02:10 AM 1376 Views
I didn't quite. I was talking about the economic principle. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:42:57 AM 635 Views
<--Black Guy Post Daiyon - 24/03/2011 12:57:13 AM 1449 Views
Re: Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:53:07 AM 1347 Views
Um. rebelaessedai - 24/03/2011 01:00:47 AM 1470 Views
Well, according to stand-up comics who specialize in racially based humor... TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 01:29:35 AM 1360 Views
Practical advice. I like it. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:58:24 AM 1368 Views
Practical advice! *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:58:34 AM 636 Views
... how did you? *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:31:14 AM 709 Views
I don't know! Our posts are about 1/10 of a second apart, freaky. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:35:23 AM 638 Views
1/6 of a minute. But it's still a comical coincidence. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 09:52:19 PM 671 Views
But that means if he's OK with it he's a commodity more rare and valuable than gold. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:37:48 PM 1219 Views
I present to you: A VISION OF THE FUTURE-UTRE-UTRE-UTRE beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 02:19:19 AM 1416 Views
Oh, that was awesome *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:37:01 AM 681 Views
+ 10 best post ever. I can't believe how funny that was. *NM* Timthetrolloc - 24/03/2011 03:54:39 AM 691 Views
What just happened? *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 04:04:45 AM 646 Views
*NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 08:32:36 AM 571 Views
Awesome *NM* Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:03:13 AM 746 Views
I am currently dating a black woman... MightyYT - 24/03/2011 06:29:03 AM 1303 Views
...I always figured your name was a Snow Crash reference *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 03:48:53 PM 669 Views
I have had the nickname longer than that has been out. *NM* MightyYT - 24/03/2011 07:08:02 PM 692 Views
Don't date him. Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:44:30 AM 1305 Views
Its not likely anyone will read this comment since there are so many already MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:12:19 PM 1518 Views
She's not talking about welfare queens, she's talking about well educated black women Helene - 24/03/2011 01:33:48 PM 1367 Views
It is. *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:33:01 PM 624 Views
this might help you understand what she is talking about random thoughts - 25/03/2011 02:24:35 PM 1384 Views
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