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But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM
Depends on the wedding. I prefer small and fun.


What's wrong with large and fun?

I am planning one currently, and it's a pain. I already have to "uninvite" people who just assume they get to go.


God that sounds horrible. Having to uninvite people... Why are they assuming they can just show up? How are you letting them know?

My cousin's in Wisconsin - it was family oriented and outside in the summer. Small and fun. It was almost more of a formal picnic feel than a wedding.


Family oriented means that it was mostly family, or that it was for people of all ages?

I really don't want drama. We're talking no more than 25 people, a pretty dress, a couple flowers and a notary public. And I want to take people out to a nice place to eat/drink afterwards - it should work because it will be only people I actually like.


That sounds nice. And not having to entertain tedious people will probably greatly increase your enjoyment of the event as well. Although I get the impression that lots of weddings are barely fun for the people actually getting married.
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Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 469 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 1096 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1154 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1255 Views
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Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 478 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 475 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 471 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 1080 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1100 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 529 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 1023 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 1029 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 1023 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 509 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1095 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 985 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 1031 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 1047 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 929 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 1061 Views
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Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 449 Views
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I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 931 Views
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