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But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM
Depends on the wedding. I prefer small and fun.


What's wrong with large and fun?

I am planning one currently, and it's a pain. I already have to "uninvite" people who just assume they get to go.


God that sounds horrible. Having to uninvite people... Why are they assuming they can just show up? How are you letting them know?

My cousin's in Wisconsin - it was family oriented and outside in the summer. Small and fun. It was almost more of a formal picnic feel than a wedding.


Family oriented means that it was mostly family, or that it was for people of all ages?

I really don't want drama. We're talking no more than 25 people, a pretty dress, a couple flowers and a notary public. And I want to take people out to a nice place to eat/drink afterwards - it should work because it will be only people I actually like.


That sounds nice. And not having to entertain tedious people will probably greatly increase your enjoyment of the event as well. Although I get the impression that lots of weddings are barely fun for the people actually getting married.
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Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1228 Views
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ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 934 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 477 Views
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What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 1036 Views
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Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 966 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 933 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 455 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 1075 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1131 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1229 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1092 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 466 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 464 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 458 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 1058 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1080 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 519 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 1005 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 1008 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 997 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 495 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1071 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 965 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 1008 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 1019 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 906 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 1042 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 1056 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 437 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 995 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 1052 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1084 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1149 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 1033 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 1055 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1170 Views
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Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1093 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1097 Views
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that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 1037 Views
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Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 1005 Views
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Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1134 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 1018 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 1070 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 1012 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 994 Views
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You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 1047 Views
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I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 982 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 1030 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1109 Views
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I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 912 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1159 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1082 Views
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