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snoopcester Send a noteboard - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM
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What's wrong with large and fun?

The expense. And I wouldn't feel that strongly about most of the guests - why should I pay extra to have them there?

God that sounds horrible. Having to uninvite people... Why are they assuming they can just show up? How are you letting them know?

It's an aunt and cousins. The problem is that I didn't intend to invite my whole family, and these particular cousins probably really don't want to go, but their mother would try to bring them anyway. My grandmother told me she (aunt) was planning on being down there with them. To be honest, I don't even like that aunt and wouldn't invite her if I thought I could get away with it. I know it will cause drama though, so I plan to let her know that she will be invited, but not the cousins. I'm only inviting one cousin, and that's because she's a best friend also.

Family oriented means that it was mostly family, or that it was for people of all ages?

Both. It was just very laid back and happy. Kids were allowed, and it was sunny and warm and nice. Just a good time.

That sounds nice. And not having to entertain tedious people will probably greatly increase your enjoyment of the event as well. Although I get the impression that lots of weddings are barely fun for the people actually getting married.

And I'm a jerk. I want to have fun and not be stressed, so I refuse to let myself be put into a position of just inviting every person who feels they should be there.
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Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1123 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1076 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 840 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 429 Views
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What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 942 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 875 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 860 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 850 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 407 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 981 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1034 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1127 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 999 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 415 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 412 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 408 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 956 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 992 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 469 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 915 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 926 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 908 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 448 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 972 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 868 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 906 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 923 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 815 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 937 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 952 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 389 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 902 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 945 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 994 Views
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well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 953 Views
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Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1003 Views
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that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 946 Views
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Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 907 Views
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ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 981 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 917 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 901 Views
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I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 806 Views
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There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 984 Views
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