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Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien Send a noteboard - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM
Blood relatives can be some of the most irrelevant, rude, worthless lumps of shit in the universe. The sharing of genetic code does not worth make. Thank goodness I do not have any family members who have treated me as such, but I know people who's family members treat them as less than dung (Both physically and emotionally). Their family members are responsible for years of therapy, stress, breakdowns and self-inflicted injury. Fuck blood, those people do not matter.

Now, if you mean people who really act like family, supporting, loving and caring for each other regardless of who shares genetics with who and legal bindings...I can totally agree with you.


That's truly terrible. The suffering I really can't wrap my mind around is suffering inflicted by family.
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Weddings Helene - 04/04/2011 02:16:28 PM 1582 Views
Own answers Helene - 04/04/2011 02:24:56 PM 1160 Views
Bach. CEREMONY!!! LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 02:25:14 PM 1226 Views
The wedding is the entire day, right, ceremony + reception? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:39:38 PM 1174 Views
ha ha yah I was sober. Unfort. actually LadyLorraine - 04/04/2011 10:32:50 PM 932 Views
Coldness can sober/wake you up...of course, warmth then can make it come back with a vengeance. *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:13 PM 477 Views
Yah, I would have put the window down LadyLorraine - 06/04/2011 04:44:12 AM 920 Views
Re: Weddings random thoughts - 04/04/2011 02:30:21 PM 1072 Views
What's JP? Helene - 04/04/2011 02:43:56 PM 1034 Views
The smart way to get married random thoughts - 04/04/2011 03:21:54 PM 964 Views
Ah... we don't do that here, at least, not that fast Helene - 04/04/2011 03:26:43 PM 966 Views
there is still a waiting periiod depending on the state random thoughts - 04/04/2011 04:36:43 PM 932 Views
Oh ok :-). Then it's not very different. Is it just Nevada that has the quick wedding? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:58:44 PM 455 Views
Re: Weddings nossy - 04/04/2011 02:56:31 PM 1073 Views
But you're marrying Snoopster! Helene - 04/04/2011 03:15:42 PM 1129 Views
That's part of the problem! nossy - 04/04/2011 03:26:20 PM 1229 Views
snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:42 PM 1092 Views
Sorry, but you shouldn't have just assumed you were invited. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:33:46 PM 466 Views
I am quietly confident I'm not her aunt. *NM* snoopcester - 04/04/2011 11:05:33 PM 464 Views
But how do we know you're not? *NM* Helene - 05/04/2011 12:59:05 PM 458 Views
Re: That's part of the problem! Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:11:53 PM 1056 Views
She wouldn't be dramatic there, that would be fine. nossy - 05/04/2011 05:11:47 PM 1080 Views
If you don't want drama, don't invite family. Seriously, listen to the voice of experience here. *NM* Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:07:42 PM 519 Views
you are not factoring in the drama of not inviting family. Camilla - 04/04/2011 04:32:51 PM 1004 Views
Yes, I was. Macharius - 04/04/2011 06:51:29 PM 1007 Views
Wow Camilla - 04/04/2011 06:53:18 PM 996 Views
How can you *not* invite family? Family is all that matters. *NM* Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:18:55 AM 495 Views
That entirely depends on how you define family. LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 03:46:11 AM 1069 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:16:15 PM 964 Views
a lot of families create a lot of inner suffering LadyLorraine - 05/04/2011 10:49:50 PM 1007 Views
Re: That entirely depends on how you define family. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:26:06 PM 1019 Views
In your opinion. For me, as an example, it is the people I care for and respect that matter. snoopcester - 05/04/2011 10:26:53 AM 906 Views
We just come from different worlds. Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:14:32 PM 1041 Views
Yes snoopcester - 05/04/2011 08:56:17 PM 1054 Views
Sorry Grandma but we only had room for 100 guest and you didn't make the cut *NM* random thoughts - 05/04/2011 02:22:07 PM 437 Views
Are you getting married over here or over there? Clover - 26/04/2011 09:22:21 PM 995 Views
I've always wondered about how that works... ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:01:12 PM 1050 Views
I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 04/04/2011 03:20:41 PM 1083 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks ironclad - 04/04/2011 03:38:03 PM 1147 Views
Re: I asked my fiancé on a day I'd planned for quite a few months, but then ruined a couple of weeks Helene - 05/04/2011 01:22:03 PM 1033 Views
well, certainly you will talk about it with your s.o. before it happens. temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:47:30 PM 1053 Views
Re: Weddings Birdeye - 04/04/2011 03:27:29 PM 1168 Views
Re: Weddings TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:37:03 PM 1031 Views
Gah, weddings. Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:43:51 PM 1091 Views
Getting hitched snoopcester - 04/04/2011 03:54:20 PM 1095 Views
Re: Getting hitched Camilla - 04/04/2011 03:57:18 PM 975 Views
that is the catch snoopcester - 04/04/2011 04:42:16 PM 1035 Views
Re: that is the catch Vivien - 05/04/2011 08:18:33 PM 973 Views
Probably best not to count the wedding present snoopcester - 05/04/2011 09:01:45 PM 1003 Views
Re: Probably best not to count the wedding present Vivien - 11/04/2011 01:20:24 AM 1081 Views
Re: Weddings Macharius - 04/04/2011 04:19:16 PM 969 Views
Re: Weddings jh - 04/04/2011 04:58:28 PM 1133 Views
Re: Weddings Stephen - 04/04/2011 05:42:06 PM 1016 Views
ugh. we are having so much trouble with this... temeraire - 04/04/2011 06:30:10 PM 1069 Views
A very special episode of Love Boat. TaskmasterJack - 04/04/2011 09:46:28 PM 1010 Views
Well. Rebekah - 04/04/2011 09:50:04 PM 994 Views
Oooh, what did you wear? Vivien - 05/04/2011 02:26:51 AM 969 Views
You can see the top of it in my profile pic. Rebekah - 06/04/2011 08:37:49 AM 1047 Views
I'd like to elope myself Mark - 04/04/2011 10:18:13 PM 1058 Views
I do! Vivien - 05/04/2011 01:35:41 AM 981 Views
Re: Weddings wolfsister - 05/04/2011 02:40:38 AM 1028 Views
Re-Weddings are cool; far less stressful, I think. Joel - 05/04/2011 04:38:03 AM 1109 Views
Weddings...are we talking about mawage? Tom - 05/04/2011 09:18:17 PM 1010 Views
Re: Weddings Aeryn - 06/04/2011 04:30:17 AM 1026 Views
Re: Weddings globug0822 - 06/04/2011 05:58:54 AM 1023 Views
I take it back... there was one. globug0822 - 06/04/2011 06:08:59 AM 910 Views
Re: I recently attended a wedding. mother of pearl - 15/04/2011 02:59:47 PM 1157 Views
There must be at least five wotmaniac ladies who are engaged now. Clover - 26/04/2011 09:40:38 PM 1082 Views
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