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You just complained that you don't have sex often enough to laugh during sex... and now claim to Helene Send a noteboard - 01/02/2012 05:15:21 PM
have sex more often than I do? Right... very consistent. Either you have sex so often that sometimes you should just laugh to spice things up, or you are overstating the amount of times you have sex.

I have sex more often than that. That's how I encounter the unpleasant aspects of sex. If you thought about it for a sex before insulting me, you would have seen that. Does an inexperienced person have anything to complain about? The more experienced can get bored sometimes.


You feel insulted quickly. I wasn't insulting you, I was stating a fact, or at least, a fact as I perceived it. I assume I'm older than you and that I have more sexual experience than you, both in amount of partners and absolute times I've had sex. I base this on the fact that I'm above average (for both males and females) in both, so statistically it's likely I'm right. Additionally, some of the things you state sound incredibly short sighted, which I attributed (perhaps wrongly) to quantitative inexperience. I fail to understand how that's an insult?

You made me do a double take. Skip the orgasm? That's the whole point of sex!


If it takes more than 30 minutes of hard work to reach your orgasm, maybe it's just not meant to be that time. Seriously... thinking that the male orgasm is the whole point of sex... it's not. It's the whole point of masturbation. Sex is about many more things than just the male orgasm.

Does a woman have an orgasm and then say that's it, I'm done? If she did that all the time, she would have one unhappy guy on her hands. And when a guy orgasms, typically he's unable to go again for a while. So yes, a guy cumming typically ends sex.


So if a guy has had an orgasm, he can't eat out or finger his girlfriend afterwards? You have a very limited/limiting way of looking at sex. My point is not about the girl saying, oh, well, that was nice, goodnight. It's about the fact that if you have such a hard time coming sometimes, it's not absolutely necessary to follow through to the bitter tedious end.
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Uncomfortable sex facts (because this board needs more spice) - 31/01/2012 04:56:13 PM 2631 Views
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Come back when you're an adult. *NM* - 31/01/2012 05:59:52 PM 733 Views
Ok I'm back *NM* - 31/01/2012 06:03:57 PM 837 Views
Oh please. *NM* - 01/02/2012 07:02:10 PM 766 Views
It's pretty clear that the poster is hypersensitive and immature. - 01/02/2012 07:54:55 PM 1343 Views
It's called anger. Call it immaturity if it suits you. - 01/02/2012 08:04:23 PM 1434 Views
You also act as if I actively insulted you... which I haven't. *NM* - 01/02/2012 09:35:48 PM 814 Views
Actively? Maybe, maybe not. Passively? Definitely - 01/02/2012 09:57:02 PM 1339 Views
I think her point is that she's not using that phrase as an insult - 01/02/2012 10:01:13 PM 1175 Views
I like your list. - 31/01/2012 06:00:28 PM 1350 Views
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26. Not that I can see how it matters. - 31/01/2012 07:40:43 PM 1547 Views
Re: 26. Not that I can see how it matters. - 31/01/2012 08:04:52 PM 1588 Views
Someone tells you to grow up and this your response? - 31/01/2012 09:51:31 PM 1469 Views
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Re: Yes, it is a mature, reasonable angry response - 31/01/2012 10:43:16 PM 1372 Views
No, I was filling in the blank - 31/01/2012 10:52:30 PM 1350 Views
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Jesus Christ people - 31/01/2012 07:35:28 PM 1482 Views
LOL... I'm not a prude. Let me elaborate. - 31/01/2012 08:19:22 PM 1484 Views
aah ah aha your last paragraph made me laugh - 31/01/2012 08:26:12 PM 1409 Views
and yet another advantage of marriage - 02/02/2012 04:45:41 PM 1378 Views
Re: LOL... I'm not a prude. Let me elaborate. - 31/01/2012 09:47:23 PM 1385 Views
Just to jump in for a second. - 31/01/2012 10:50:12 PM 1510 Views
People seem to be missing my point - 31/01/2012 10:58:42 PM 1400 Views
'Weird' is a loaded word. It carries a judgment. - 31/01/2012 11:03:12 PM 1344 Views
Goodness, people, they are not "rules." He clearly states these are his PERSONAL opinions. - 01/02/2012 07:10:27 PM 1297 Views
#3 is really not an option. Not with this crowd, anyways *NM* - 01/02/2012 08:06:25 PM 768 Views
I point you to the title of his post: "Uncomfortable sex FACTS" (caps mine). - 01/02/2012 09:36:00 PM 1282 Views
Facts for me *NM* - 01/02/2012 09:44:43 PM 735 Views
*NM* - 01/02/2012 09:46:06 PM 735 Views
....That is not the definition of a fact. *NM* - 01/02/2012 09:48:10 PM 726 Views
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He made hard and fast rules??? - 01/02/2012 05:00:30 AM 1399 Views
This board takes itself very seriously at times, it's weird *NM* - 01/02/2012 02:00:04 PM 814 Views
Thank you! - 01/02/2012 03:25:57 PM 1279 Views
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You just complained that you don't have sex often enough to laugh during sex... and now claim to - 01/02/2012 05:15:21 PM 1266 Views
I did? - 01/02/2012 05:37:55 PM 1177 Views
I didn't call you a virgin...? - 01/02/2012 08:23:25 PM 1271 Views
Man you just don't get it - 01/02/2012 08:43:21 PM 1369 Views
since you asked... - 01/02/2012 09:14:44 PM 1174 Views
Re: since you asked... - 01/02/2012 09:44:03 PM 1500 Views
Helene has yet to actually insult you - 01/02/2012 09:55:32 PM 1282 Views
I am overreacting a little bit - 01/02/2012 10:00:09 PM 1270 Views
see dude, here's part of the problem - 01/02/2012 10:03:27 PM 1199 Views
The caps really aren't going to help your case, you do realize... - 01/02/2012 09:16:50 PM 1286 Views
It was my last resort, man. I was talking to a brick wall *NM* - 01/02/2012 09:37:20 PM 783 Views
You're a real piece of work. *NM* - 01/02/2012 09:20:45 PM 735 Views
How so? - 01/02/2012 09:45:41 PM 1231 Views
You sure get worked up - 01/02/2012 09:29:34 PM 1218 Views
I suppose asking if "you're a bit of a twat" isn't an insult, but just a reasonable hypothesis? - 02/02/2012 12:41:50 AM 1231 Views
So after someone uses the online equivalent of yelling at me - 02/02/2012 12:58:06 AM 1310 Views
Yes, the twat comment wasn't okay either. - 02/02/2012 09:02:15 AM 1243 Views
While I agree with the ladies... - 31/01/2012 11:42:25 PM 1395 Views
One thing I learned this past year... - 01/02/2012 05:48:51 AM 1310 Views
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I think he does... - 01/02/2012 03:30:58 PM 1259 Views
I can't recall the scene. What was it again? *NM* - 01/02/2012 08:05:28 PM 735 Views
Don't know why everyone jumped on you like they did. - 01/02/2012 07:07:14 PM 1428 Views
Thanks for the support - 01/02/2012 08:01:27 PM 1224 Views
This thread cracks me up. *NM* - 01/02/2012 09:34:52 PM 767 Views
It got out of hand, sadly - 01/02/2012 09:50:46 PM 1231 Views
That perennial issue of tone on the internet, huh? - 01/02/2012 09:59:29 PM 1350 Views
ignoring things is usually the best way to keep them from squiggling out of hand - 01/02/2012 09:59:35 PM 1170 Views
True, true. I let my anger get the best of me. Lessons learned. - 01/02/2012 10:02:57 PM 1297 Views
that's because it's gross - 01/02/2012 10:05:36 PM 1425 Views
I'm kind of upset by it and wishing I hadn't posted at all, to be honest. - 01/02/2012 10:58:51 PM 1801 Views
Uh huh, that discussion completely went south - 02/02/2012 12:27:02 AM 1255 Views
So full of shit. - 02/02/2012 12:33:32 AM 1481 Views
Man, if I had a nickel for everytime THAT has happened.... - 02/02/2012 11:16:07 PM 1319 Views
Agreed. - 02/02/2012 11:19:41 PM 1113 Views
Helene and Morgawse are worthless and pedantic nothings. Ignore them next time. Thread was fine. *NM* - 01/02/2012 10:40:53 PM 821 Views
....well thanks, buddy. *NM* - 01/02/2012 10:57:07 PM 827 Views
Uncalled for and completely untrue - 01/02/2012 11:03:52 PM 1410 Views
Right. Really? - 02/02/2012 12:36:28 AM 1452 Views
And people complain about the political arguments. *NM* - 02/02/2012 12:31:06 AM 725 Views
Just what I was thinking. - 02/02/2012 11:17:16 PM 1172 Views
I laughed at this thread. Hard. *NM* - 02/02/2012 02:51:45 AM 683 Views
Heh-heh, heh-heh, you said "hard"! - 02/02/2012 04:06:43 AM 1218 Views
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LOL - 02/02/2012 09:01:22 AM 1384 Views
Re: LOL - 02/02/2012 04:36:10 PM 1307 Views
You misunderstood - 02/02/2012 06:20:15 PM 1303 Views
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Re: Uncomfortable sex facts (because this board needs more spice) - 02/02/2012 02:47:45 PM 1471 Views
Too crass. For real spice try the hot sex in this video - 03/02/2012 12:30:21 PM 1280 Views
The cuts to a woman cleaning her kitchen kinda ruin it for me *NM* - 03/02/2012 12:36:25 PM 756 Views
Lets search for more hot sex scenes then *NM* - 03/02/2012 12:53:00 PM 741 Views

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