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I did? Dark Knight Send a noteboard - 01/02/2012 05:37:55 PM
have sex more often than I do? Right... very consistent. Either you have sex so often that sometimes you should just laugh to spice things up, or you are overstating the amount of times you have sex.


Are you referring to the post where I said I can laugh whenever I want but can't have sex as regularly as that? Wow, I don't even know how to respond to that. I laugh several times a day. I'm suppose to have sex several times a day? I think you greatly misunderstood my comment there.

I have sex more often than that. That's how I encounter the unpleasant aspects of sex. If you thought about it for a sex before insulting me, you would have seen that. Does an inexperienced person have anything to complain about? The more experienced can get bored sometimes.

You feel insulted quickly. I wasn't insulting you, I was stating a fact, or at least, a fact as I perceived it. I assume I'm older than you and that I have more sexual experience than you, both in amount of partners and absolute times I've had sex. I base this on the fact that I'm above average (for both males and females) in both, so statistically it's likely I'm right. Additionally, some of the things you state sound incredibly short sighted, which I attributed (perhaps wrongly) to quantitative inexperience. I fail to understand how that's an insult?


You're basically calling me a virgin, the classic insult bullies used in school when they thought they were cool because they had sex. Besides, you're judging my sexual experience based off of...what, exactly? You know damn well that guys are insulted by anybody doubting their sexual experience.

You made me do a double take. Skip the orgasm? That's the whole point of sex!

If it takes more than 30 minutes of hard work to reach your orgasm, maybe it's just not meant to be that time. Seriously... thinking that the male orgasm is the whole point of sex... it's not. It's the whole point of masturbation. Sex is about many more things than just the male orgasm.


I've had to stop a few times, sure. I had no problem with that. I just wasn't feeling it that day. I'm not saying the male orgasm is the end all and be all.

Does a woman have an orgasm and then say that's it, I'm done? If she did that all the time, she would have one unhappy guy on her hands. And when a guy orgasms, typically he's unable to go again for a while. So yes, a guy cumming typically ends sex.

So if a guy has had an orgasm, he can't eat out or finger his girlfriend afterwards? You have a very limited/limiting way of looking at sex. My point is not about the girl saying, oh, well, that was nice, goodnight. It's about the fact that if you have such a hard time coming sometimes, it's not absolutely necessary to follow through to the bitter tedious end.


Hopefully the woman orgasms during sex. If a woman orgasms first, that most likely doesn't end it. Once the guy cums, that does, usually. I pride myself on getting her to orgasm before I do, or even at the same time. That way, the guy doesn't have to make it up to her after, when he's most likely tired. I think it's very selfish of any guy not to take care of her first.
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