have sex more often than I do? Right... very consistent. Either you have sex so often that sometimes you should just laugh to spice things up, or you are overstating the amount of times you have sex.
Are you referring to the post where I said I can laugh whenever I want but can't have sex as regularly as that? Wow, I don't even know how to respond to that. I laugh several times a day. I'm suppose to have sex several times a day? I think you greatly misunderstood my comment there.
I have sex more often than that. That's how I encounter the unpleasant aspects of sex. If you thought about it for a sex before insulting me, you would have seen that. Does an inexperienced person have anything to complain about? The more experienced can get bored sometimes.
You feel insulted quickly. I wasn't insulting you, I was stating a fact, or at least, a fact as I perceived it. I assume I'm older than you and that I have more sexual experience than you, both in amount of partners and absolute times I've had sex. I base this on the fact that I'm above average (for both males and females) in both, so statistically it's likely I'm right. Additionally, some of the things you state sound incredibly short sighted, which I attributed (perhaps wrongly) to quantitative inexperience. I fail to understand how that's an insult?
You're basically calling me a virgin, the classic insult bullies used in school when they thought they were cool because they had sex. Besides, you're judging my sexual experience based off of...what, exactly? You know damn well that guys are insulted by anybody doubting their sexual experience.
You made me do a double take. Skip the orgasm? That's the whole point of sex!
If it takes more than 30 minutes of hard work to reach your orgasm, maybe it's just not meant to be that time. Seriously... thinking that the male orgasm is the whole point of sex... it's not. It's the whole point of masturbation. Sex is about many more things than just the male orgasm.
I've had to stop a few times, sure. I had no problem with that. I just wasn't feeling it that day. I'm not saying the male orgasm is the end all and be all.
Does a woman have an orgasm and then say that's it, I'm done? If she did that all the time, she would have one unhappy guy on her hands. And when a guy orgasms, typically he's unable to go again for a while. So yes, a guy cumming typically ends sex.
So if a guy has had an orgasm, he can't eat out or finger his girlfriend afterwards? You have a very limited/limiting way of looking at sex. My point is not about the girl saying, oh, well, that was nice, goodnight. It's about the fact that if you have such a hard time coming sometimes, it's not absolutely necessary to follow through to the bitter tedious end.
Hopefully the woman orgasms during sex. If a woman orgasms first, that most likely doesn't end it. Once the guy cums, that does, usually. I pride myself on getting her to orgasm before I do, or even at the same time. That way, the guy doesn't have to make it up to her after, when he's most likely tired. I think it's very selfish of any guy not to take care of her first.
Formerly Mat Bloody Cauthon on Wotmania, blessed be its name
Uncomfortable sex facts (because this board needs more spice)
31/01/2012 04:56:13 PM
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There is a reason it is uncomfortable.
31/01/2012 05:43:22 PM
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What, are we going to get stupid clichés about geeks on a geek site?
01/02/2012 09:59:41 PM
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Wait, wait, wait!
01/02/2012 10:08:38 PM
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I didn't exactly think this was a mystery...
01/02/2012 10:15:57 PM
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Come back when you're an adult. *NM*
31/01/2012 05:59:52 PM
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Oh please. *NM*
01/02/2012 07:02:10 PM
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It's pretty clear that the poster is hypersensitive and immature.
01/02/2012 07:54:55 PM
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It's called anger. Call it immaturity if it suits you.
01/02/2012 08:04:23 PM
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You also act as if I actively insulted you... which I haven't. *NM*
01/02/2012 09:35:48 PM
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Actively? Maybe, maybe not. Passively? Definitely
01/02/2012 09:57:02 PM
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I think her point is that she's not using that phrase as an insult
01/02/2012 10:01:13 PM
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Oh for goodness sake I don't even know where to start, there's so much wrong with this.
31/01/2012 07:02:34 PM
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How old are you?
31/01/2012 07:36:33 PM
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Someone tells you to grow up and this your response?
31/01/2012 09:51:31 PM
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Yes, it is a mature, reasonable angry response
31/01/2012 10:10:08 PM
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Re: Yes, it is a mature, reasonable angry response
31/01/2012 10:43:16 PM
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No, I was filling in the blank
31/01/2012 10:52:30 PM
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I think you'll find the arrow was supposed to point at the quote of your post below.
31/01/2012 11:11:15 PM
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It's not so much that what you write is "wrong", but it shows you are a bit naive and inexperienced
31/01/2012 07:28:09 PM
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Jesus Christ people
31/01/2012 07:35:28 PM
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LOL... I'm not a prude. Let me elaborate.
31/01/2012 08:19:22 PM
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Re: LOL... I'm not a prude. Let me elaborate.
31/01/2012 09:47:23 PM
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Just to jump in for a second.
31/01/2012 10:50:12 PM
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People seem to be missing my point
31/01/2012 10:58:42 PM
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'Weird' is a loaded word. It carries a judgment.
31/01/2012 11:03:12 PM
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Goodness, people, they are not "rules." He clearly states these are his PERSONAL opinions.
01/02/2012 07:10:27 PM
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I point you to the title of his post: "Uncomfortable sex FACTS" (caps mine).
01/02/2012 09:36:00 PM
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Facts for me *NM*
01/02/2012 09:44:43 PM
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....That is not the definition of a fact. *NM*
01/02/2012 09:48:10 PM
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Quote: "Here are some musings from my personal experience". Context matters. Nitpicking is annoying. *NM*
02/02/2012 01:27:00 AM
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He made hard and fast rules???
01/02/2012 05:00:30 AM
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Thank you!
01/02/2012 03:25:57 PM
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I'm still pretty confused. Many of the people who are acting immature towards you
02/02/2012 05:27:49 AM
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Different strokes for different folks
01/02/2012 04:38:45 PM
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Please stop questioning my sexual experience
01/02/2012 04:49:28 PM
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You just complained that you don't have sex often enough to laugh during sex... and now claim to
01/02/2012 05:15:21 PM
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I did?
01/02/2012 05:37:55 PM
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*snort* I don't think anyone should have jumped down your throat...
01/02/2012 05:49:27 PM
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Anybody who hasn't jumped down my throat hasn't replied with anything I can respond to
01/02/2012 06:04:53 PM
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To me, that just sounds like you're looking for agreement, not discussion
01/02/2012 08:07:19 PM
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I didn't call you a virgin...?
01/02/2012 08:23:25 PM
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Man you just don't get it
01/02/2012 08:43:21 PM
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since you asked...
01/02/2012 09:14:44 PM
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Re: since you asked...
01/02/2012 09:44:03 PM
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Helene has yet to actually insult you
01/02/2012 09:55:32 PM
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The caps really aren't going to help your case, you do realize...
01/02/2012 09:16:50 PM
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You sure get worked up
01/02/2012 09:29:34 PM
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I suppose asking if "you're a bit of a twat" isn't an insult, but just a reasonable hypothesis?
02/02/2012 12:41:50 AM
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And here I was about to write another post about hardcore pornography *NM*
31/01/2012 07:31:14 PM
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Not having to shave my balls is just anohter reason to be glad I am married *NM*
01/02/2012 04:56:19 PM
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well if the damn system is going to double post then add no condom required as another reason *NM*
01/02/2012 04:56:20 PM
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Don't know why everyone jumped on you like they did.
01/02/2012 07:07:14 PM
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Thanks for the support
01/02/2012 08:01:27 PM
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Perhaps they don't read enough "sex advice" articles online? Every list is phrased that way. *NM*
02/02/2012 01:29:12 AM
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Admittedly, I tend to find online sex tips articles to be pretty juvinile too *NM*
02/02/2012 01:36:08 AM
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Ya don't say.
02/02/2012 11:21:45 PM
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It means I'm not part of the target demographic for these articles. *NM*
03/02/2012 08:53:49 AM
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You linked me to one of them once upon a time.
03/02/2012 09:11:58 AM
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The article I linked you to was wholly different from the type of article Aeryn was referring to
03/02/2012 03:03:50 PM
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Ah, then I do not feel as bad (just maybe a bit guilty for the comparison.)
03/02/2012 03:22:52 PM
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This thread cracks me up. *NM*
01/02/2012 09:34:52 PM
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It got out of hand, sadly
01/02/2012 09:50:46 PM
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ignoring things is usually the best way to keep them from squiggling out of hand
01/02/2012 09:59:35 PM
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I'm kind of upset by it and wishing I hadn't posted at all, to be honest.
01/02/2012 10:58:51 PM
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Uh huh, that discussion completely went south
02/02/2012 12:27:02 AM
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Helene and Morgawse are worthless and pedantic nothings. Ignore them next time. Thread was fine. *NM*
01/02/2012 10:40:53 PM
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Uncalled for and completely untrue
01/02/2012 11:03:52 PM
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Right. Really?
02/02/2012 12:36:28 AM
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I referred to you making a rude and general statement about people I doubt you know very well
02/02/2012 08:52:09 AM
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I don't know what bone you have to pick with me, but I doubt I deserve it
02/02/2012 12:38:45 AM
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Man, there was some piling on in this thread. I didn't think your post was that bad.
02/02/2012 06:06:02 AM
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Re: Uncomfortable sex facts (because this board needs more spice)
02/02/2012 02:47:45 PM
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Too crass. For real spice try the hot sex in this video
03/02/2012 12:30:21 PM
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The cuts to a woman cleaning her kitchen kinda ruin it for me *NM*
03/02/2012 12:36:25 PM
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