When you make a rule for yourself that laughing during sex is a no go, because you can always laugh but don't have sex that often... it doesn't appear to be consistent with a claim that you have sex on average more than 4 times a week. Which is an extremely high average, btw, so hats off to you.



The fact that you refer to bullies in high school makes it once again clear that you are quite a bit younger and more inexperienced in life than I am. Apparently this bothers you. I didn't call you a virgin, I pointed out things in what you wrote that show that you aren't that experienced. So what? I find it ridiculous to get insulted by simple statements of fact.



You said that the orgasm is the purpose of sex. That is a very narrow view of the purpose of sex. Now you are back paddling. That's fine, it shows that you didn't clearly think through what you said before.



You really should stop making up these rules and statements about what usually happens. Unless you cite studies that support your statements, you're just using your own anecdotal evidence and experience to make unsupported statements.

Again, the notion that if the woman orgasms after the man, he "has to make it up to her" is a very narrow view on sexuality. It can also just be the way to do it sometimes... you know, variety.

I can imagine, however, that if it takes more than 30 minutes to reach orgasm, that a man would be very tired.