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You sure get worked up Helene Send a noteboard - 01/02/2012 09:29:34 PM
Are you deliberately being dense? I DON'T HAVE SEX AS OFTEN AS I LAUGH. I DON'T KNOW HOW ELSE TO SAY IT SO THAT YOU UNDERSTAND. I GUESS I HAVE TO RESORT TO CAPS LOCK TO GET IT THROUGH YOUR THICK SKULL. I REPEAT, I DON'T HAVE SEX AS OFTEN AS I LAUGH. NOBODY DOES, UNLESS THEY DON'T LAUGH AT ALL. GET IT YET? LAUGH=SEVERAL TIMES A DAY. SEX=NOT AS OFTEN AS LAUGHING, BUT STILL VERY OFTEN.


I don't know in how many ways I can tell you that it's a really stupid reason not to laugh during sex when you average more than 4 times a week. I got it just fine, I just think your reasoning is weird and explained why.

So bullies in high school didn't exist in the 1950's, which is evidently when you went to school, judging by how you keep referring to your experience? What's this about simple statement of fact? How is you guessing my sexual experience a fact? IT'S CALLED GUESSING FOR A REASON!


It's an educated guess based on your attitudes, arguments and reasoning. Either you are young and inexperienced, or you're a bit of a twat. I give you the benefit of the doubt. Maybe I was wrong, and you are a bit of a twat instead? I don't know, you tell me?

Yes, orgasm is the purpose of sex.


No it's not. Orgasm is often the outcome of sex, but it's not the purpose.

I, however, have had a couple of situations where I didn't feel an orgasm coming. My girlfriend already orgasmed 2 times so I was fine in stopping. IT WAS MY CHOICE. It doesn't change the fact that the purpose of sex is to experience the intense pleasure of an orgasm. Ok, so you argue that it is a narrow view of sex. So prove me wrong. What other views are there? To have a baby, ok. What else? Anything?


To be close to someone, to show love, to have fun, to indulge in lustful feelings, because they're horny, to drive away boredom, to feel good, to name but a few.

Again, orgasm is the purpose for masturbation, not sex. And then, even some people masturbate for more reason than to just come. Sometimes because they are bored, sometimes because they can't sleep, sometimes because they want to be intimate with themselves, sometimes because they're alone and horny, sometimes because it's a habit, etc.

It's called science. A woman doesn't lose anything when she has an orgasm. More likely than not, a man will lose his hard-on! It's science making my claim, not me. And let me say, once again, THESE ARE NOT RULES AND REGULATIONS. Nowhere did I say I was writing the bible on sex. This is my PERSONAL opinion based on PERSONAL experience.


It's not science to think that a man has to make it up to a woman if he orgasms before she does, nor is it science to pride yourself for making a woman come before you do, or simultaneously. It's probably practical and nice, but it reeks a bit of "nice guy" attitudes.

Btw, from personal experience I can tell you, it's just as possible for women to become sleepy after orgasm as it is for men. Of course, the advantage is that the woman can just lie on her back or whatever position afterward.

That's because, in my PERSONAL experience, not a scientific study ok, guys can be selfish bastards. Once they're done, that's it.


So you've had sex with a lot of men, then?

Now, there is some science on my side. The release of a chemical after orgasm that makes a man sleepy. But I don't care about that. Women want to experience pleasure just as much as men. So I don't think men should leave their women unsatisifed. That's just my PERSONAL opinion. I am not saying everyone should be like this.


Just because a man is sleepy doesn't mean he can't make a woman come after he's come.
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