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Re: Wow. Nighthawk Send a noteboard - 05/04/2013 12:18:08 AM

You chose the wrong profession if you wanted to make money. It was something to do with landscaping right? You probably chose it because you love it. But if not struggling and not being poor was your goal, you would have chosen a better profession. You are very smart and very pretty, a very good combination to have. I know you could easily make money if that's what you wanted!

Um. Well, I appreciate the compliment, but you basically just told me I could manipulate people by using my looks. Why is that better than making less money in an honest way? Is it just about making what you can, regardless? Most Americans in my generation started out by being told they could be whatever they want, and that they should go for it. I like landscaping, but I have to now - I was on the other side of many school loans before I realized that it wasn't a magical world of wonders just because I had a degree. Again, I am NOT saying that people should never make changes or should never try something else - I'm just saying that you don't know how or why things happen, and there isn't some express ticket out - like being a pretty girl.

Honest way? Really? What's the difference between using a genetic gift of intelligence vs a genetic gift of beauty? Are you implying that you are superior for using your gift of intelligence over people using their looks?


View original postMaybe you should read the plethora of studies that show attractive people get paid more and get more promotions. Go on, I'll wait.

Those people are probably willing to wiggle the bootie and/or throw around the smiles a little more often. I am not. In fact, I am the opposite. If I make something of myself, it is going to be by my talent.

View original postYes, actually, I do want a cookie. I'm on a diet and I've been jonesing for a cookie. People on foodstamps have made poor choices in life or they wouldn't be on foodstamps. The path to success begins with making smart choices. You have no room to complain if your choices led you to where you are. I would work 3 jobs before getting on fucking foodstamps.

You can work 3 jobs, presumably. What about the mother of three kids whose husband left her for the "pretty girl?" Does she deserve no help if she hits bottom and goes looking for it? Do her children deserve to suffer because of those "poor choices?" And again, is this rare?

Don't get me started on stay-at-home moms. What stupidity. Why on earth would any sane woman base their entire livelihood on one person? What if he does leave you? Or dies? Sheer stupidity, I just don't understand it. The times when a woman could stay at home are loooong gone. And it's totally unfair to make the man be the sole breadwinner.


View original postPeople take care of their children all the time, where did they get the money for that? And I have absolutely no sympathy for homeless people. They can't be redeemed. Ther are a blight on society.

And some people can take care of their kids by buying ramen noodles and clothes from walmart. Others have tens of thousands of dollars in hospital bills because of the handicapped individual they have given up their job to protect.

~Sigh~ You have no idea why any given individual is homeless. If we ... what? Started killing off people with mental illness, we'd be short a lot of people who turned out to be geniuses.


No, not killing. We just have to get use to the uneasy feeling we get when we pull up to a stoplight right next to a homeless bum. Eventually the situation will take care of itself.


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View original postYes, anybody can do it! That's the point! But when know they have a safety net, they don't try so hard.

That is not true. Why did you try so hard? Why did I? What were we thinking about the safety net at that point?

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Liberalism has officially failed - Poverty reaches 1960 levels - - 04/04/2013 12:33:15 AM 1309 Views
As has Conservatism. - 04/04/2013 12:37:23 AM 769 Views
I know it hurts.....but the truth about liberalism will set you free! - 04/04/2013 12:42:57 AM 893 Views
Have you ever tried to fish when really hungry? - 04/04/2013 06:32:17 AM 819 Views
HA! HA! In your dreams that's how liberalism works. How about..... - 04/04/2013 04:59:33 PM 758 Views
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Interestingly enough.... - 04/04/2013 09:20:06 PM 813 Views
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Well here is where theology gets fun.... - 04/04/2013 09:48:50 PM 869 Views
The entire post...as well as many of the sub-threads....prompts the question of: - 04/04/2013 09:39:16 PM 857 Views
it depends on what your definition of "succeed" is i guess.... - 04/04/2013 10:27:30 PM 910 Views
And that is certainly your opinion.... - 04/04/2013 10:54:08 PM 902 Views
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Hmm good questions - 04/04/2013 10:29:45 PM 907 Views
you contradicted yourself - 04/04/2013 10:44:47 PM 802 Views
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i think i understand where you're coming from.... - 05/04/2013 07:33:32 PM 882 Views
I see the problem - 04/04/2013 06:45:53 PM 832 Views
since you don't trust the gov't, what are you doing to help the poor survive? - 04/04/2013 12:58:49 AM 911 Views
A few serious answers, if you can handle them..... - 04/04/2013 04:15:32 AM 809 Views
Re: A few serious answers, if you can handle them..... - 04/04/2013 06:42:00 PM 946 Views
Perhaps its time to try a little fact checking. - 04/04/2013 03:34:44 AM 1080 Views
I'm happy you agree with me, liberalism has failed and it's time for something different. - 04/04/2013 03:47:17 AM 785 Views
Oh the cleverness of you. - 04/04/2013 03:52:07 AM 964 Views
Wow, I'm shocked. Yes, let's stick with the failed status quo. Good plan! - 04/04/2013 04:17:32 AM 740 Views
Who said anything about the status quo? I just said I didn't agree with your solution. *NM* - 04/04/2013 04:19:37 AM 488 Views
Then time to step up, what's your idea? - 04/04/2013 04:22:58 AM 737 Views
As you might say, "What do you expect, a free ride?" - 04/04/2013 11:45:02 AM 963 Views
How typicaly conservative! And no. - 04/04/2013 02:05:00 PM 772 Views
Agreed and this is how we will finance such a move - 04/04/2013 04:01:46 AM 872 Views
I'm glad you agree! - 04/04/2013 04:21:25 AM 811 Views
No, in Europe, liberalism is generally successful - 04/04/2013 06:15:34 AM 788 Views
Liberalism & Conservatism 'officially fail' about ever other year I've noticed, still around though *NM* - 04/04/2013 09:02:42 AM 392 Views
Yes. I wonder if there will ever be an age of fiscally responsible/conservative liberals. - 05/04/2013 03:41:09 AM 863 Views
I guess it depends on how you define the terms - 05/04/2013 08:52:25 AM 1026 Views
*nod* - 05/04/2013 01:30:47 PM 859 Views
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Off topic: are you gardening yet? - 05/04/2013 02:25:06 PM 702 Views
Initial stuff - 05/04/2013 03:21:25 PM 701 Views
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It's a bit newer because of the price, that's been dropping - 06/04/2013 01:20:10 AM 860 Views
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Yes, the logical step is to go for Nordic style socialism. - 04/04/2013 03:19:17 PM 850 Views
well that and a tiny homogenous population funded by large oil reserves - 04/04/2013 06:57:51 PM 805 Views
Eh, you're describing norway. - 04/04/2013 08:11:25 PM 756 Views
The Economist (of all people) was singing the praises of the Nordic countries recently. - 04/04/2013 08:49:36 PM 817 Views
Hey, guess what? - 04/04/2013 08:55:59 PM 773 Views
Awesome. - 04/04/2013 09:22:13 PM 692 Views
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Yes! - 04/04/2013 09:33:45 PM 743 Views
Yay! - 04/04/2013 09:37:40 PM 795 Views
We're Maryland, actually, as I recall. - 04/04/2013 10:15:49 PM 736 Views
Eh survival of the fittest - 04/04/2013 06:18:52 PM 890 Views
Excuse me? - 04/04/2013 08:42:24 PM 795 Views
Cry me a river - 04/04/2013 08:55:40 PM 827 Views
Funny. - 04/04/2013 09:18:15 PM 804 Views
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good for you for making it but you are so full of bullshit - 04/04/2013 10:38:45 PM 822 Views
Re: good for you for making it but you are so full of bullshit - 04/04/2013 10:49:14 PM 816 Views
Wow. - 04/04/2013 11:27:06 PM 812 Views
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congrats on being part of the problem.... *NM* - 05/04/2013 04:48:58 AM 437 Views
It's pointless to argue with those who don't understand the psychology of generational poverty. *NM* - 05/04/2013 03:43:40 AM 404 Views
Clearly. *NM* - 05/04/2013 07:32:21 PM 371 Views
Oh the "it's nobody's fault excuse" - 05/04/2013 08:56:51 PM 773 Views
Get back to me when you know wtf you're talking about. *NM* - 05/04/2013 09:03:08 PM 403 Views
I'm back *NM* - 06/04/2013 01:40:47 AM 372 Views
You're over-generalizing a bit - 06/04/2013 01:49:02 AM 906 Views

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