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LOL Sareitha Sedai Send a noteboard - 20/10/2009 01:51:34 PM

Thats because you're a horrible sexist


Clearly


So his ego was more important to him than his obligation? But that same ego wouldn't prevent him from expecting/accepting that his company lower their expectations of him and hold him to a lower standard than the rest of their employees?

Most people (men in particular if you believe some of the vocal women who blame male bankers for the recession) are quite proud, and there is a difference between accepting and expecting to take a back seat during a stressful period. The company might well have offered him such a role, or he refused to take paternity leave, in which case it's clearly an unavoidable situation.
Of course all I was basing my comments on was what was written in the OP, if he's been taking holidays to the caribbean and stealing office supplies then thats another matter.

It could be if his "mistake" had consequences for the company beyond what they were willing to accept.

Then in my humble oppinion he shouldn't have been put in a position to make those mistakes, if he's there by his own choice then of course it's his fault, as I said, we dont know enough details to give a full analysis, I'm simply going on what was written.



Okay, please read the below-linked response (if you haven't already) and let me know your thoughts. I'm genuinely curious if it changes your opinion.
If you are from Betelgeuse, please have one of your Earth friends read what I've written before you respond. Or try concentrating harder.

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Have you ever had to fire someone? The Secret Lurker - 19/10/2009 03:34:57 PM 781 Views
ouch that's rough LadyLorraine - 19/10/2009 03:45:27 PM 529 Views
Yes. I still have my job. The Secret Lurker - 19/10/2009 03:59:12 PM 503 Views
i've never had to myself, but... moondog - 19/10/2009 04:19:38 PM 561 Views
Re: Yes. I still have my job. TheCrownless - 19/10/2009 06:03:40 PM 467 Views
Absolutely. The Secret Lurker - 19/10/2009 06:06:05 PM 526 Views
"coming down from ON high" is the proper expression Tom - 19/10/2009 09:46:41 PM 536 Views
Thank you. I did not know that. *NM* The Secret Lurker - 20/10/2009 01:38:46 AM 192 Views
...does that matter if he didn't do his job, and that had negative consequences for the company? *NM* Sareitha Sedai - 19/10/2009 06:28:03 PM 208 Views
As long as its ok for people to sack women who get pregnant TheCrownless - 19/10/2009 07:59:58 PM 516 Views
Women who get pregnant and are using that as an excuse to not do their jobs? Sure. Sareitha Sedai - 19/10/2009 09:11:56 PM 528 Views
I'm with you... Antigone - 19/10/2009 11:32:08 PM 517 Views
Thats not at all what I'm saying TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 12:40:28 AM 498 Views
Lots of assumptions. Antigone - 20/10/2009 01:54:02 AM 445 Views
Like I said... assumptions TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 01:40:23 PM 548 Views
Can you work and give birth at the same time? TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 12:27:45 AM 512 Views
Oh. Sareitha Sedai - 20/10/2009 01:32:59 PM 500 Views
Re: Oh. TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 01:47:33 PM 522 Views
LOL Sareitha Sedai - 20/10/2009 01:51:34 PM 445 Views
I hadn't read that, it was posted after I commented TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 10:49:19 PM 454 Views
I agree. Companies aren't charities. Tom - 19/10/2009 09:47:43 PM 461 Views
So you're against maternity pay? TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 12:29:07 AM 515 Views
Where I work you have to use your sick leave and annual leave to cover maternity leave. Tashmere - 20/10/2009 01:26:34 AM 464 Views
Same with my job... Antigone - 20/10/2009 01:56:00 AM 448 Views
And nobody gets special treatment. *NM* Tashmere - 22/10/2009 01:16:13 AM 192 Views
Thats just one of the variations of maternity leave I was suggesting. TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 01:50:11 PM 468 Views
But that's what I was addressing when I talked about his choice. Sareitha Sedai - 20/10/2009 01:54:30 PM 466 Views
That's why it's an employer and not a social worker... Antigone - 20/10/2009 09:58:00 PM 510 Views
How is this any different from sick leave? Ghavrel - 20/10/2009 10:20:50 PM 510 Views
Because the person is not there, mainly. Antigone - 21/10/2009 12:54:39 AM 456 Views
You pick up the slack because you're a super-wonderful person TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 10:56:04 PM 456 Views
No, I never said anything of the sort Tom - 20/10/2009 03:14:07 PM 479 Views
I was simply saying TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 11:00:09 PM 419 Views
Had that happen to me. TaskmasterJack - 19/10/2009 04:15:45 PM 500 Views
I'm very sorry StarrBecca - 19/10/2009 05:35:57 PM 483 Views
Man that stinks. :/ globug0822 - 19/10/2009 06:52:04 PM 522 Views
Yep... Hated it too. Jedi Wolf Sister - 19/10/2009 07:48:31 PM 438 Views
It takes a special person to be a supervisor/manager. Tashmere - 20/10/2009 01:21:42 AM 532 Views
Did he deserve it???? good question. The Secret Lurker - 20/10/2009 01:38:29 AM 552 Views
Seems like the answer is yes Sareitha Sedai - 20/10/2009 01:37:15 PM 466 Views
Did he try to transfer? Or did he procrastinate or blow off your suggestion? Tashmere - 21/10/2009 03:39:57 AM 451 Views
Hmm - sounds to me like your boss is a coward SilverWarder - 29/10/2009 02:48:30 AM 439 Views
I have fired four people. Nurse Denice - 20/10/2009 11:02:35 AM 502 Views
Why have I got an image of someone walking the plank? TheCrownless - 20/10/2009 10:52:30 PM 473 Views
Yep - and it sucks SilverWarder - 20/10/2009 07:05:35 PM 471 Views
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