We had something similar last year. I just forced myself to approach the situation with love and understanding, anything else would have just pushed him further away. I asked him to get personal counseling to figure out why he felt the way he did. It changed his whole attitude toward it, and us, and everything. We have done counseling together and work very hard everyday to communicate without blaming and to not let the warning signs go unnoticed. We have both grow so much. Even if, in the future, we decided we needed to part. I feel at least now we would come to that decision together. It isn't fair to make that decision unilaterally.
I hope the best for you! *big hugs*
I hope the best for you! *big hugs*
*MySmiley*
Also known as kazetaran
"The Daleks on the bus say exter-min-ate" Taran 9-3-2012
Also known as kazetaran

"The Daleks on the bus say exter-min-ate" Taran 9-3-2012
And then, yesterday - the world came apart
- 13/03/2010 02:09:42 PM
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Oh my goodness.
- 13/03/2010 04:40:30 PM
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Thanks Jen
- 16/03/2010 12:58:22 AM
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There is a little hope here...
- 14/03/2010 12:24:19 AM
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Some, yes.
- 14/03/2010 06:43:49 AM
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That is a tough little girl there.
- 14/03/2010 05:43:51 PM
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How in touch were you?
- 14/03/2010 08:14:57 AM
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I just read Helene's, Tom's and Damookster's replies.
- 15/03/2010 01:53:17 AM
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It's why one of the first things I did was post here when I was together enough to do so.
- 15/03/2010 06:18:54 AM
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I know what you are going through *hugs*
- 15/03/2010 06:36:30 AM
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Jesus.
- 15/03/2010 01:44:18 PM
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It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 03:50:25 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 05:12:02 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 05:13:03 PM
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Re: It's looking up a bit
- 15/03/2010 05:13:30 PM
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Hmm. Those were supposed to be edits. Admin? Clean up in aisle SW!
- 15/03/2010 05:18:13 PM
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Lose that zero and take her to court for abducting your child *NM*
- 15/03/2010 05:14:26 PM
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Sounds like things have calmed down a bit now, but that was a shitty thing to do, that's for sure.
- 16/03/2010 01:09:00 AM
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