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I'm just gonna put this out there... Jeordam Send a noteboard - 20/10/2017 07:24:55 PM

In regards to sexual abuse/rape....

Have you ever considered that by putting so much weight and value on establishing that trigger warning, that you are putting an equal weight and value on that event?

What I'm saying is that in all of my experience (details I'm not going to go into), a very big aspect of healing is not having that event define their entire life. Now those trigger warnings are putting so much value and weight into that event....

You are actually helping to ensure that the event defines their life....

~Jeordam

ex-Admin at wotmania (all things wot & art galleries)
Saving the Princess, Humanity, or the World-Entire since 1985
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Why Are [SOME] Millennials Wary of Freedom? The Shrike - 16/10/2017 07:16:47 PM 2649 Views
Good article. Tom - 16/10/2017 08:05:48 PM 1121 Views
Indeed it is a pathology of fear. LiterateDog - 17/10/2017 01:59:24 AM 1016 Views
This makes me especially sad. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:47:51 PM 984 Views
never thought of it that way but excellent points *NM* random thoughts - 17/10/2017 03:31:51 AM 656 Views
Definitely a possibility. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:46:42 PM 998 Views
I totally agree on there being fewer causes for fear. Legolas - 17/10/2017 06:39:38 PM 1030 Views
Wait...you said *Rubio* was trying to push a positive, hopeful message? RUBIO? Tom - 17/10/2017 08:22:40 PM 973 Views
Maybe I shouldn't have omitted the disclaimer about his foreign policy. Legolas - 17/10/2017 08:33:37 PM 1005 Views
Ok, fair enough Tom - 17/10/2017 09:15:14 PM 921 Views
Yes. I think the days of American armed intervention in Latin-America are well behind us. Legolas - 17/10/2017 11:54:41 PM 967 Views
Regarding 'Make America Great Again'. Trump wasn't the first. He won't be the last. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 08:44:09 PM 1121 Views
Do we still have WSE points? I was quite the mogul in the waning days of WoTmania. *NM* Hieshyn - 16/10/2017 11:36:00 PM 633 Views
/me steals your WSE points. *NM* The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:48:08 PM 614 Views
Interesting damookster - 16/10/2017 11:46:32 PM 993 Views
Old dude, you make a good point, too. LiterateDog - 17/10/2017 02:01:29 AM 981 Views
Authority for Authority sake is just as Mores-less as No Respect for Authority Roland00 - 17/10/2017 06:07:15 AM 1051 Views
All generations experienced different cultures with different views *NM* random thoughts - 17/10/2017 11:41:40 AM 559 Views
Agreed but there is a difference in severity between 1997 to 2017 vs 997 to 1017 *NM* Roland00 - 18/10/2017 05:52:14 AM 570 Views
but less than 1900 vs 1920 random thoughts - 18/10/2017 02:27:59 PM 936 Views
I still have hope The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:50:35 PM 1053 Views
I shall endeavor to combine Tom'n'Mookie's theories into one grand theory of... LiterateDog - 17/10/2017 02:15:48 AM 1060 Views
So we are back in the Age of Romanticism. Western Civilization has been there before. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 12:58:04 PM 1032 Views
This article agrees with your assessment The Shrike - 17/10/2017 02:30:03 PM 1117 Views
I appreciate your amendment. Ghavrel - 17/10/2017 03:14:19 AM 1286 Views
no it is just hard to see the problem from the inside random thoughts - 17/10/2017 11:51:08 AM 1002 Views
Re: no it is just hard to see the problem from the inside - uh, yes. nossy - 17/10/2017 01:44:26 PM 1069 Views
Most of us are very good at that random thoughts - 17/10/2017 08:24:50 PM 1018 Views
Thanks. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 01:00:42 PM 918 Views
I disagree with relation to trigger warnings. Ghavrel - 17/10/2017 11:17:45 PM 998 Views
A fair point. - Still, how far will you extend them? The Shrike - 18/10/2017 12:47:50 AM 961 Views
I don't know, but I'm not entirely sure it's a big deal either way. Ghavrel - 18/10/2017 02:56:09 AM 903 Views
Nods Roland00 - 18/10/2017 03:17:17 AM 931 Views
And I would posit that no work of literature should have any trigger warnings. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 01:02:44 PM 1106 Views
Re: And I would posit that no work of literature should have any trigger warnings. Ghavrel - 18/10/2017 08:48:01 PM 1014 Views
How would you propose such warnings be worded? damookster - 18/10/2017 09:21:02 PM 992 Views
Do you know a lot of people who suffer from PTSD? Ghavrel - 19/10/2017 05:26:06 AM 1183 Views
Stop. Now. Tom - 19/10/2017 06:21:13 AM 913 Views
Avoidance isn't the purpose of those warnings, though. Ghavrel - 19/10/2017 06:32:16 AM 945 Views
You would ruin the literature though. And discussions around the literature. The Shrike - 19/10/2017 01:21:20 PM 995 Views
That's reasonable. Ghavrel - 19/10/2017 11:58:56 PM 972 Views
Third party website? I fully support that. The Shrike - 20/10/2017 12:41:33 PM 1147 Views
Peace for our time! I agree with everything you wrote here. I'm always a sucker for more studies. *NM* Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:03:31 AM 518 Views
Well argument settled becuase they already exist random thoughts - 23/10/2017 01:46:55 PM 880 Views
Yeah but they don't necessarily exist for works of literature usually read at the university level The Shrike - 24/10/2017 12:28:35 PM 917 Views
That is true but it could fixed if there was more demand random thoughts - 24/10/2017 10:00:21 PM 931 Views
I feel like I now need a trigger warning for trigger warnings. *NM* The Shrike - 25/10/2017 12:48:47 PM 596 Views
Fuck you Tom Roland00 - 19/10/2017 07:06:47 AM 1083 Views
Oh come on... Belals Girl - 19/10/2017 05:12:46 PM 1020 Views
HAHAHA! This from the person who can't even write a coherent post *NM* Tom - 20/10/2017 07:10:45 PM 550 Views
Oh please damookster - 19/10/2017 02:10:11 PM 1032 Views
Re: Oh please Ghavrel - 20/10/2017 12:01:02 AM 976 Views
What is your basis for arguing that "trigger warnings" are beneficial? Tom - 20/10/2017 07:19:42 PM 964 Views
Ha! Joke's on you! We don't do interrogatories in the criminal system. Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:01:54 AM 962 Views
If you are not proposing altering any literature... Tom - 22/10/2017 04:28:53 PM 958 Views
I'm just gonna put this out there... Jeordam - 20/10/2017 07:24:55 PM 974 Views
Eh, I don't think that's accurate. Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:04:58 AM 891 Views
An unnecessary tool.... Jeordam - 23/10/2017 05:14:06 PM 940 Views
Why does this reasoning apply to PTSD but not to other diseases? PTSD is a physical issue. Ghavrel - 24/10/2017 12:33:31 AM 902 Views
I would challenge that statment.... Jeordam - 24/10/2017 05:14:17 PM 1101 Views
Do you actually believe those examples are valid? *NM* random thoughts - 23/10/2017 07:32:59 PM 530 Views
Forget it, mook. He's just being a silly, stupid kid. He should know better. *NM* Tom - 19/10/2017 06:17:28 AM 638 Views
Agreed. Tom - 19/10/2017 06:16:33 AM 1061 Views
Interesting article. Legolas - 17/10/2017 07:41:34 PM 962 Views
Why are some HUMANS wary of freedom? Roland00 - 17/10/2017 05:31:04 AM 949 Views
Maybe the victimhood thing is another kind of honor Cannoli - 17/10/2017 01:02:43 PM 1017 Views
Because it's easier to absolve oneself of power sometimes. For those people anyway. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 01:10:41 PM 952 Views
I apologize before hand Roland00 - 18/10/2017 01:11:59 AM 955 Views
Only made it through page 2. Were there separate graphs for just N. American/West European nations? The Shrike - 18/10/2017 01:04:05 PM 941 Views
I haven't read all the comments, so I apologize if I'm doubling up nossy - 17/10/2017 01:06:00 PM 1168 Views
Oh those echo chambers. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 01:16:40 PM 1076 Views
I hate blaming things nossy - 17/10/2017 02:04:44 PM 1136 Views
I'm not even sure "echo chamber" is the right phrase Tom - 17/10/2017 02:17:07 PM 1079 Views
I'm not sure that is the most common choice. nossy - 17/10/2017 05:21:52 PM 1167 Views
I get irritated too. But I still keep them in my news feed as well. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 08:49:45 PM 949 Views
Je ne regrette rien. My memes are both spicy and piquant. *NM* Ghavrel - 17/10/2017 11:20:55 PM 515 Views
I'm of Russian extraction. I like my food bland. Garlic, dill, salt, pepper. It's enough for me. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 12:52:27 AM 919 Views
You know, I'd not thought about that. Ghavrel - 18/10/2017 03:07:05 AM 994 Views
I find him intriguing as a Captain. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 01:09:07 PM 1021 Views
So now we are at episode 6 The Shrike - 24/10/2017 12:31:06 PM 858 Views
6 was by far the best episode of the series. *NM* Ghavrel - 24/10/2017 08:07:55 PM 538 Views
Yes The Shrike - 25/10/2017 12:50:15 PM 910 Views
But are your Memes brothy and fully of Umami? Roland00 - 18/10/2017 01:17:07 AM 879 Views
Umami is an irritating word *NM* damookster - 18/10/2017 04:59:21 PM 490 Views
Yes, ohdaddy is a much better word. *NM* LiterateDog - 18/10/2017 05:15:48 PM 596 Views
*NM* damookster - 18/10/2017 05:39:12 PM 527 Views
*NM* The Shrike - 18/10/2017 06:27:31 PM 517 Views
Snorts / Laughs so hard that I almost lost the drink I was enjoying. *NM* Roland00 - 19/10/2017 06:00:47 AM 568 Views
I do think some of this is specifically American and to a lesser extent the rest of the Anglosphere. Legolas - 17/10/2017 06:26:33 PM 981 Views
Agreed with all your points. The Shrike - 17/10/2017 08:53:23 PM 997 Views
The Netherlands, I'm not so sure about. Legolas - 17/10/2017 11:43:54 PM 954 Views
My apologies. I see Dutch and don't think of Belgium. The Shrike - 18/10/2017 12:56:26 AM 993 Views
That's alright. This is a confusing country in many ways. Legolas - 18/10/2017 08:58:15 PM 961 Views
America and to a lesser extent the rest of the Anglosphere puts a higher valuer on liberty *NM* random thoughts - 19/10/2017 01:53:50 PM 562 Views
Yes, in some ways it does. *NM* Legolas - 19/10/2017 05:38:41 PM 556 Views
Simple, true fredom is includes the freedom to fail HyogaRott - 20/10/2017 05:43:13 PM 1009 Views
Re: Simple, true fredom is/includes the freedom to fail *NM* HyogaRott - 20/10/2017 05:45:51 PM 590 Views
Yes it is the freedom to fail Roland00 - 20/10/2017 06:36:02 PM 1018 Views
This entire thread was so awesome.... Jeordam - 20/10/2017 07:12:46 PM 1014 Views
Jeo I think you in particular will appreciate this damookster - 20/10/2017 09:07:39 PM 958 Views
Interesting.....wisdom from on high.... Jeordam - 20/10/2017 09:58:36 PM 862 Views
damn it *NM* damookster - 20/10/2017 09:07:39 PM 488 Views
I think a lot of us are thinking about trigger warnings differently. Ghavrel - 21/10/2017 07:07:01 AM 962 Views
Maybe, maybe not... Jeordam - 23/10/2017 05:18:16 PM 889 Views
Glad you enjoyed it and that it provoked thought. The Shrike - 23/10/2017 02:32:57 PM 936 Views
I see this as... Jeordam - 23/10/2017 05:23:54 PM 913 Views
I kind of break them down into two types Vodalus - 22/10/2017 03:25:04 AM 1036 Views
I wonder how much the fall of communism has to do with this? random thoughts - 24/10/2017 10:20:16 PM 940 Views
Definitely more than a bit. The Shrike - 25/10/2017 12:51:55 PM 886 Views
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