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Cannoli is right: "sucks" implies the active party in oral sex Tom Send a noteboard - 17/08/2018 03:04:40 AM

This goes back to Ancient Rome, where the alpha male was supposed to be the penetrator at all times, never the penetrated. He could engage in sex with men or women as he pleased, but never could he be a fellator or paedicatus. That's why Catullus's 16th poem, which begins "Pedicabo ego vos et irrumabo" (I will fuck you in the ass and in the mouth - irrumare is the mirror verb to fellare, the act of shoving one's cock in someone else's mouth), is considered to be such a violent phrase. Therefore, if something "sucks", it means it is in a subordinate position. It's not really tied to homosexuality or heterosexuality per se.

Political correctness is the pettiest form of casuistry.

ἡ δὲ κἀκ τριῶν τρυπημάτων ἐργαζομένη ἐνεκάλει τῇ φύσει, δυσφορουμένη, ὅτι δὴ μὴ καὶ τοὺς τιτθοὺς αὐτῇ εὐρύτερον ἢ νῦν εἰσι τρυπώη, ὅπως καὶ ἄλλην ἐνταῦθα μίξιν ἐπιτεχνᾶσθαι δυνατὴ εἴη. – Procopius

Ummaka qinnassa nīk!

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Interesting article in my Twitter feed last night on an issue Greg (The Shrike) brought up... damookster - 15/08/2018 03:05:37 PM 1398 Views
I thought this response in the comment sectionwas funny random thoughts - 15/08/2018 08:12:49 PM 722 Views
I was thinking about this at lunch today.... Jeordam - 15/08/2018 11:43:33 PM 711 Views
I don't damookster - 16/08/2018 12:09:32 AM 736 Views
It seemed more like moondog was making a prostitution reference to me *NM* ßelals Girl - 16/08/2018 02:51:23 AM 379 Views
Say what? The Shrike - 16/08/2018 09:47:19 PM 709 Views
It is a more of a domination / hierarchy reference I think *NM* Roland00 - 16/08/2018 09:57:23 PM 361 Views
Re: Say what? Belals Girl - 16/08/2018 10:33:43 PM 788 Views
Yes, but there's more to it... fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:38:05 PM 683 Views
Says who? ßelals Girl - 19/08/2018 05:05:37 AM 747 Views
However much of a hypocrite moondog is, the article, I feel, represents something else Cannoli - 16/08/2018 05:51:59 AM 722 Views
Agreed that they went way too far by including everyday useage of the word, sucks. damookster - 16/08/2018 02:15:54 PM 689 Views
Phobia fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:55:05 PM 746 Views
You don't even understand oral sex? Cannoli - 17/08/2018 12:43:50 AM 703 Views
Get to a sex education class, won't you? Or at least, use Google fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:29:25 AM 639 Views
I am a normal male person, who had conversations with other male people. Cannoli - 17/08/2018 08:25:48 AM 698 Views
Yes, yes, you're so male, your penis has a penis. We get it. fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 04:13:09 PM 740 Views
Re: Yes, yes, you're so male, your penis has a penis. We get it. Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:23:10 AM 708 Views
You are wrong about Cannoli. damookster - 17/08/2018 02:49:35 AM 729 Views
No fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:41:22 AM 691 Views
Re: No Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:29:15 AM 760 Views
Cannoli is right: "sucks" implies the active party in oral sex Tom - 17/08/2018 03:04:40 AM 818 Views
That would be the "receptive partner" in scientific terminology fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:44:16 AM 676 Views
Fuck scientific terminology. It blows. Cannoli - 17/08/2018 08:26:16 AM 684 Views
Regarding phobia Jeordam - 17/08/2018 06:30:51 PM 755 Views
There's a pretty simple test, I think fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 08:02:31 PM 704 Views
Once again...who are you to make that determination. Jeordam - 17/08/2018 09:54:41 PM 675 Views
*I* don't make the determination, liberal society did. fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 12:02:22 AM 696 Views
So for clarity damookster - 18/08/2018 01:28:17 AM 705 Views
Yes! fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 01:46:05 AM 687 Views
Who said I was surprised? damookster - 18/08/2018 02:10:46 AM 696 Views
Re: Who said I was surprised? fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 02:32:41 AM 703 Views
Are you asking a serious question? damookster - 18/08/2018 02:45:03 AM 705 Views
Yes, I was fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 01:59:48 PM 706 Views
"liberal" society does not police speech Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:31:54 AM 709 Views
You don't need to protect speech everyone agrees with. *NM* Hieshyn - 19/08/2018 06:02:17 PM 473 Views
It most certainly *does* police speech. LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:01:32 PM 701 Views
But to follow up on that. LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:16:07 PM 704 Views
Well, that's why we didn't stop with the FIRST Amendment *NM* Cannoli - 21/08/2018 04:25:53 PM 346 Views
That's individuals policing speech, not society. Agregate individual action =/= collective action Cannoli - 21/08/2018 04:25:23 PM 715 Views
I completely agree. LiterateDog - 21/08/2018 04:35:38 PM 701 Views
heh, heh, heh damookster - 21/08/2018 05:00:32 PM 663 Views
Hump it like you mean it! LiterateDog - 21/08/2018 07:00:01 PM 737 Views
Exactly. "Islamophobia is a word created by fascists and used by cowards to manipulate morons." Tom - 20/08/2018 08:54:03 PM 711 Views
I reiterate that I sometimes expect it from people who may be right of center/right. The Shrike - 16/08/2018 09:52:08 PM 752 Views
About the casual part fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:33:45 PM 664 Views
I don't think it's appropriate, but I think it's more about sexual shaming Tom - 16/08/2018 10:35:53 PM 746 Views
Precisely fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:59:42 PM 751 Views
You are absolutely correct damookster - 17/08/2018 02:43:21 AM 730 Views
I, for one, am glad to see this topic go flaming. aerocontrols - 17/08/2018 05:16:55 PM 789 Views
Yes, it is a tool used by those who should "know better". LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:14:30 PM 670 Views
well said damookster - 20/08/2018 03:50:50 PM 723 Views
Sigh I foresee 7 days of homosexual prison jokes in the near future in media adjacent places Roland00 - 22/08/2018 04:42:23 AM 663 Views
I think our casual acceptance of rape as part of prison is a major moral failure random thoughts - 22/08/2018 03:41:38 PM 669 Views
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