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Cannoli is right: "sucks" implies the active party in oral sex Tom Send a noteboard - 17/08/2018 03:04:40 AM

This goes back to Ancient Rome, where the alpha male was supposed to be the penetrator at all times, never the penetrated. He could engage in sex with men or women as he pleased, but never could he be a fellator or paedicatus. That's why Catullus's 16th poem, which begins "Pedicabo ego vos et irrumabo" (I will fuck you in the ass and in the mouth - irrumare is the mirror verb to fellare, the act of shoving one's cock in someone else's mouth), is considered to be such a violent phrase. Therefore, if something "sucks", it means it is in a subordinate position. It's not really tied to homosexuality or heterosexuality per se.

Political correctness is the pettiest form of casuistry.

ἡ δὲ κἀκ τριῶν τρυπημάτων ἐργαζομένη ἐνεκάλει τῇ φύσει, δυσφορουμένη, ὅτι δὴ μὴ καὶ τοὺς τιτθοὺς αὐτῇ εὐρύτερον ἢ νῦν εἰσι τρυπώη, ὅπως καὶ ἄλλην ἐνταῦθα μίξιν ἐπιτεχνᾶσθαι δυνατὴ εἴη. – Procopius

Ummaka qinnassa nīk!

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Interesting article in my Twitter feed last night on an issue Greg (The Shrike) brought up... damookster - 15/08/2018 03:05:37 PM 1179 Views
I thought this response in the comment sectionwas funny random thoughts - 15/08/2018 08:12:49 PM 514 Views
I was thinking about this at lunch today.... Jeordam - 15/08/2018 11:43:33 PM 480 Views
I don't damookster - 16/08/2018 12:09:32 AM 492 Views
It seemed more like moondog was making a prostitution reference to me *NM* ßelals Girl - 16/08/2018 02:51:23 AM 263 Views
Say what? The Shrike - 16/08/2018 09:47:19 PM 491 Views
It is a more of a domination / hierarchy reference I think *NM* Roland00 - 16/08/2018 09:57:23 PM 258 Views
Re: Say what? Belals Girl - 16/08/2018 10:33:43 PM 543 Views
Yes, but there's more to it... fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:38:05 PM 475 Views
Says who? ßelals Girl - 19/08/2018 05:05:37 AM 500 Views
However much of a hypocrite moondog is, the article, I feel, represents something else Cannoli - 16/08/2018 05:51:59 AM 515 Views
Agreed that they went way too far by including everyday useage of the word, sucks. damookster - 16/08/2018 02:15:54 PM 480 Views
Phobia fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:55:05 PM 504 Views
You don't even understand oral sex? Cannoli - 17/08/2018 12:43:50 AM 493 Views
Get to a sex education class, won't you? Or at least, use Google fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:29:25 AM 440 Views
I am a normal male person, who had conversations with other male people. Cannoli - 17/08/2018 08:25:48 AM 464 Views
Yes, yes, you're so male, your penis has a penis. We get it. fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 04:13:09 PM 518 Views
Re: Yes, yes, you're so male, your penis has a penis. We get it. Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:23:10 AM 508 Views
You are wrong about Cannoli. damookster - 17/08/2018 02:49:35 AM 502 Views
No fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:41:22 AM 482 Views
Re: No Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:29:15 AM 522 Views
Cannoli is right: "sucks" implies the active party in oral sex Tom - 17/08/2018 03:04:40 AM 591 Views
That would be the "receptive partner" in scientific terminology fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:44:16 AM 471 Views
Fuck scientific terminology. It blows. Cannoli - 17/08/2018 08:26:16 AM 484 Views
Regarding phobia Jeordam - 17/08/2018 06:30:51 PM 512 Views
There's a pretty simple test, I think fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 08:02:31 PM 482 Views
Once again...who are you to make that determination. Jeordam - 17/08/2018 09:54:41 PM 458 Views
*I* don't make the determination, liberal society did. fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 12:02:22 AM 497 Views
So for clarity damookster - 18/08/2018 01:28:17 AM 492 Views
Yes! fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 01:46:05 AM 477 Views
Who said I was surprised? damookster - 18/08/2018 02:10:46 AM 478 Views
Re: Who said I was surprised? fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 02:32:41 AM 495 Views
Are you asking a serious question? damookster - 18/08/2018 02:45:03 AM 504 Views
Yes, I was fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 01:59:48 PM 501 Views
"liberal" society does not police speech Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:31:54 AM 489 Views
You don't need to protect speech everyone agrees with. *NM* Hieshyn - 19/08/2018 06:02:17 PM 296 Views
It most certainly *does* police speech. LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:01:32 PM 488 Views
But to follow up on that. LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:16:07 PM 483 Views
Well, that's why we didn't stop with the FIRST Amendment *NM* Cannoli - 21/08/2018 04:25:53 PM 248 Views
That's individuals policing speech, not society. Agregate individual action =/= collective action Cannoli - 21/08/2018 04:25:23 PM 500 Views
I completely agree. LiterateDog - 21/08/2018 04:35:38 PM 458 Views
heh, heh, heh damookster - 21/08/2018 05:00:32 PM 468 Views
Hump it like you mean it! LiterateDog - 21/08/2018 07:00:01 PM 519 Views
Exactly. "Islamophobia is a word created by fascists and used by cowards to manipulate morons." Tom - 20/08/2018 08:54:03 PM 492 Views
I reiterate that I sometimes expect it from people who may be right of center/right. The Shrike - 16/08/2018 09:52:08 PM 515 Views
About the casual part fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:33:45 PM 467 Views
I don't think it's appropriate, but I think it's more about sexual shaming Tom - 16/08/2018 10:35:53 PM 540 Views
Precisely fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:59:42 PM 499 Views
You are absolutely correct damookster - 17/08/2018 02:43:21 AM 492 Views
I, for one, am glad to see this topic go flaming. aerocontrols - 17/08/2018 05:16:55 PM 555 Views
Yes, it is a tool used by those who should "know better". LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:14:30 PM 459 Views
well said damookster - 20/08/2018 03:50:50 PM 508 Views
Sigh I foresee 7 days of homosexual prison jokes in the near future in media adjacent places Roland00 - 22/08/2018 04:42:23 AM 433 Views
I think our casual acceptance of rape as part of prison is a major moral failure random thoughts - 22/08/2018 03:41:38 PM 449 Views
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