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Cannoli is right: "sucks" implies the active party in oral sex Tom Send a noteboard - 17/08/2018 03:04:40 AM

This goes back to Ancient Rome, where the alpha male was supposed to be the penetrator at all times, never the penetrated. He could engage in sex with men or women as he pleased, but never could he be a fellator or paedicatus. That's why Catullus's 16th poem, which begins "Pedicabo ego vos et irrumabo" (I will fuck you in the ass and in the mouth - irrumare is the mirror verb to fellare, the act of shoving one's cock in someone else's mouth), is considered to be such a violent phrase. Therefore, if something "sucks", it means it is in a subordinate position. It's not really tied to homosexuality or heterosexuality per se.

Political correctness is the pettiest form of casuistry.

ἡ δὲ κἀκ τριῶν τρυπημάτων ἐργαζομένη ἐνεκάλει τῇ φύσει, δυσφορουμένη, ὅτι δὴ μὴ καὶ τοὺς τιτθοὺς αὐτῇ εὐρύτερον ἢ νῦν εἰσι τρυπώη, ὅπως καὶ ἄλλην ἐνταῦθα μίξιν ἐπιτεχνᾶσθαι δυνατὴ εἴη. – Procopius

Ummaka qinnassa nīk!

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Interesting article in my Twitter feed last night on an issue Greg (The Shrike) brought up... damookster - 15/08/2018 03:05:37 PM 1381 Views
I thought this response in the comment sectionwas funny random thoughts - 15/08/2018 08:12:49 PM 696 Views
I was thinking about this at lunch today.... Jeordam - 15/08/2018 11:43:33 PM 686 Views
I don't damookster - 16/08/2018 12:09:32 AM 710 Views
It seemed more like moondog was making a prostitution reference to me *NM* ßelals Girl - 16/08/2018 02:51:23 AM 364 Views
Say what? The Shrike - 16/08/2018 09:47:19 PM 687 Views
It is a more of a domination / hierarchy reference I think *NM* Roland00 - 16/08/2018 09:57:23 PM 351 Views
Re: Say what? Belals Girl - 16/08/2018 10:33:43 PM 767 Views
Yes, but there's more to it... fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:38:05 PM 664 Views
Says who? ßelals Girl - 19/08/2018 05:05:37 AM 720 Views
However much of a hypocrite moondog is, the article, I feel, represents something else Cannoli - 16/08/2018 05:51:59 AM 698 Views
Agreed that they went way too far by including everyday useage of the word, sucks. damookster - 16/08/2018 02:15:54 PM 662 Views
Phobia fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:55:05 PM 722 Views
You don't even understand oral sex? Cannoli - 17/08/2018 12:43:50 AM 683 Views
Get to a sex education class, won't you? Or at least, use Google fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:29:25 AM 623 Views
I am a normal male person, who had conversations with other male people. Cannoli - 17/08/2018 08:25:48 AM 677 Views
Yes, yes, you're so male, your penis has a penis. We get it. fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 04:13:09 PM 711 Views
Re: Yes, yes, you're so male, your penis has a penis. We get it. Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:23:10 AM 689 Views
You are wrong about Cannoli. damookster - 17/08/2018 02:49:35 AM 705 Views
No fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:41:22 AM 660 Views
Re: No Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:29:15 AM 737 Views
Cannoli is right: "sucks" implies the active party in oral sex Tom - 17/08/2018 03:04:40 AM 793 Views
That would be the "receptive partner" in scientific terminology fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 05:44:16 AM 656 Views
Fuck scientific terminology. It blows. Cannoli - 17/08/2018 08:26:16 AM 663 Views
Regarding phobia Jeordam - 17/08/2018 06:30:51 PM 735 Views
There's a pretty simple test, I think fionwe1987 - 17/08/2018 08:02:31 PM 680 Views
Once again...who are you to make that determination. Jeordam - 17/08/2018 09:54:41 PM 651 Views
*I* don't make the determination, liberal society did. fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 12:02:22 AM 676 Views
So for clarity damookster - 18/08/2018 01:28:17 AM 679 Views
Yes! fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 01:46:05 AM 663 Views
Who said I was surprised? damookster - 18/08/2018 02:10:46 AM 671 Views
Re: Who said I was surprised? fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 02:32:41 AM 682 Views
Are you asking a serious question? damookster - 18/08/2018 02:45:03 AM 684 Views
Yes, I was fionwe1987 - 18/08/2018 01:59:48 PM 685 Views
"liberal" society does not police speech Cannoli - 19/08/2018 03:31:54 AM 685 Views
You don't need to protect speech everyone agrees with. *NM* Hieshyn - 19/08/2018 06:02:17 PM 461 Views
It most certainly *does* police speech. LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:01:32 PM 678 Views
But to follow up on that. LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:16:07 PM 681 Views
Well, that's why we didn't stop with the FIRST Amendment *NM* Cannoli - 21/08/2018 04:25:53 PM 337 Views
That's individuals policing speech, not society. Agregate individual action =/= collective action Cannoli - 21/08/2018 04:25:23 PM 692 Views
I completely agree. LiterateDog - 21/08/2018 04:35:38 PM 676 Views
heh, heh, heh damookster - 21/08/2018 05:00:32 PM 643 Views
Hump it like you mean it! LiterateDog - 21/08/2018 07:00:01 PM 714 Views
Exactly. "Islamophobia is a word created by fascists and used by cowards to manipulate morons." Tom - 20/08/2018 08:54:03 PM 684 Views
I reiterate that I sometimes expect it from people who may be right of center/right. The Shrike - 16/08/2018 09:52:08 PM 728 Views
About the casual part fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:33:45 PM 643 Views
I don't think it's appropriate, but I think it's more about sexual shaming Tom - 16/08/2018 10:35:53 PM 724 Views
Precisely fionwe1987 - 16/08/2018 10:59:42 PM 728 Views
You are absolutely correct damookster - 17/08/2018 02:43:21 AM 705 Views
I, for one, am glad to see this topic go flaming. aerocontrols - 17/08/2018 05:16:55 PM 765 Views
Yes, it is a tool used by those who should "know better". LiterateDog - 20/08/2018 03:14:30 PM 647 Views
well said damookster - 20/08/2018 03:50:50 PM 702 Views
Sigh I foresee 7 days of homosexual prison jokes in the near future in media adjacent places Roland00 - 22/08/2018 04:42:23 AM 634 Views
I think our casual acceptance of rape as part of prison is a major moral failure random thoughts - 22/08/2018 03:41:38 PM 645 Views
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