Specifically regarding phobia...which is defined as an irrational fear or aversion to something....

I'm just wondering where the line is drawn in declaring that someone has a phobia to something as opposed to just doesn't like/approve of it. Where is that line? (Granted, the logical question to follow up on that is how does one feel that they have the ability/knowledge to determine someone else has reached phobic levels.) Coincidentally, I watched that movie from the 90's Arachnophobia (great flick by the way). In that movie, the main character has an actual issue with spiders...to the point that he freezes up when confronted with them. Through a normal day, he is a husband, father, successful doctor, but when confronted with spiders he just locks up. His behavior changes. I've read Cannoli's writings for probably over a decade now. Seen him interact with a very diverse group here. I don't see a behavior change that would demonstrate an active phobia.... I see him not agreeing with an individuals actions/life. I see him not agreeing with a social stance/belief system. I don't see a behavior change or irrational actions spurred by that fear. I don't see violence (which can be a fear response).

Here's a personal example. I don't eat sea food. From any type of fish to shellfish to any invertebrate. Not my thing. I live less than 10 minutes from the ocean. Fresh and very good seafood is but moments away from me at any given moment. I don't like it. Is this a phobia?

I know how I would characterize it, but how would you? In today's day and age, disagreement or non-approval has been equated with being a phobia or hate. They are not the same.

~Jeordam