you are assuming that the neighbors are building it just to spite the victims parents. Maybe they have been saving up for a pool for a few years and a year later when they have the funds they build the pool and maybe they will teach the kids of the neighborhood how to swim and be safe in pools. Should the neighbors that want a pool have move to another home and build it because the other neighbors are offended by it? Its makes no sense.

I have had friends killed by drunk drivers, does that men I start a hate campaign against a liquor store being built a block away form where it happened? Because i can claim I am very sensitive to bars that serve alcohol because the man that killed my friend had been drinking in a bar and then got into his car and killed my friend.

How about I start to protest gun shops that sell firearms and bullets because my brother was shot and killed by a gunman who legally bought a gun and used it to kill.

Im trying to undo the work of a couple important amendments with the above situations arent I? Its simply wrong.