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do you let your child play unsupervised now? random thoughts Send a noteboard - 16/11/2013 06:46:08 PM

I can understand why you would not want to share your garden with strangers but with 16 different families already having access that is a lot more the I would fell comfortable allowing access to an area my daughter plays in unsupervised and she is seven. Maybe it will not be as bad as you think. You might get the occasional renter who behaves badly but I would suspect that except for those rare exceptions must people only use the garden area the same way you do. You might even get lucky and meet the occasional new friend. My uncle rents out a beach house and except for the occasional broken dish or picture frame he never has issues.

I would be very quick to call the police though if anyone is making a nuisance of themselves. I would also take the precaution of putting extra security on any access to the patio. I assume these people are putting down some sort of security deposits, I know I had to when I have done similar rentals, and if they damage anything or leave messes take that up with the owner of the flat. Usually some sort of cleaning fee is required, try and get messes left in the garden are included. It would probably be a good idea to express your concerns with new owner now. We rented a house in the mountains this summer and they had a list of things we were not supposed to do like mess with the beaver damn or go exploring to far behind the house because it was surrounded by private property.

I know this comes off sounding like I am saying you are over reacting and that isn't the what I mean, there just doesn't seem like much you can about it and maybe it will not be a bad as you think. Most people are decent and try to respect the rights of others. Of course I may simply think that because I live in Texas and that is the way most of the people outside of the yankee infested cities act

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What would you do? - 15/11/2013 07:33:08 PM 2131 Views
Hrm. - 15/11/2013 08:30:22 PM 834 Views
Re: Hrm. - 16/11/2013 09:57:02 AM 845 Views
Don't they need to apply for planning permission to do that? - 15/11/2013 10:10:35 PM 904 Views
For the door, yes. For the holiday let, I don't think so. - 16/11/2013 09:58:30 AM 848 Views
Hm. Tricky, that. - 15/11/2013 10:38:57 PM 933 Views
Re: Hm. Tricky, that. - 16/11/2013 09:59:57 AM 920 Views
If there is anything you can do to fight it, do so - 16/11/2013 01:25:28 AM 934 Views
Yes. - 16/11/2013 10:03:03 AM 894 Views
The most reasonable thing would be to cut a bitch. - 16/11/2013 02:47:42 AM 963 Views
this sounds fully reasonable, yeah. - 16/11/2013 03:22:46 AM 957 Views
Quite. - 16/11/2013 10:06:43 AM 791 Views
Cutting a bitch is always an answer. *NM* - 20/11/2013 02:20:06 PM 590 Views
Tough. - 16/11/2013 10:15:21 AM 876 Views
Re: Tough. - 16/11/2013 07:41:49 PM 811 Views
Perhaps I don't grasp the gravity of the situation. - 16/11/2013 03:52:15 PM 860 Views
It's more irritating that grave, but I do worry about security to an extent. - 16/11/2013 07:47:02 PM 782 Views
Re: I hear you. - 17/11/2013 03:50:44 PM 923 Views
Re: I hear you. - 18/11/2013 05:03:15 PM 844 Views
do you let your child play unsupervised now? - 16/11/2013 06:46:08 PM 782 Views
Not precisely. - 16/11/2013 08:01:54 PM 733 Views
Uh...isn't the nature of ownership that you can do what you want to with your property? - 16/11/2013 10:27:05 PM 731 Views
Yes, but subject to limitations. - 19/11/2013 07:03:40 PM 1076 Views
I would get the garden monitored with a camera - 17/11/2013 04:00:51 AM 787 Views
Not a possiblity. *NM* - 18/11/2013 07:17:35 PM 460 Views
I can't see much you can do really... - 19/11/2013 03:01:40 AM 828 Views
Does the building have a factor? - 19/11/2013 11:38:43 AM 766 Views
Yes indeed. - 19/11/2013 07:13:06 PM 748 Views

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