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<3 *NM* nossy Send a noteboard - 07/03/2017 06:57:23 PM

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View original postThose who are physically one gender, yet they feel they are the other gender. Or people who are physically one race, yet they feel they are another race. These are two contemporary examples.


View original postI'd say as far as race goes, this is a question of a few individuals - this isn't exactly a thing. So I'll limit myself to the gender part.


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View original postWhy are we, as an individual or a society, making the assumption that their feeling or their mental desire is the "correct" setting, while the reality of the situation is another? Manning, Jenner, Cher's child, the Wachowski siblings...each of these was born as one gender, and they have taken steps towards the other. Why is this not seen as a mental health issue? We treat people with other type of body dismorphia conditions (anorexia for example). Why not these as well?


View original postI guess I would say because we generally view people's inner self as having primacy over the outer self, and hence respect their right to try and make their exterior reflect their inner self? Mind over matter, so to speak - seems like a concept Christians could generally get behind.


View original postIt IS in fact defined as a mental health issue (now that you clarified how you defined this), in the sense that gender dysphoria is indeed included in standard lists of psychological disorders, like the DSM 5. It's just that the best solution for it in many cases is to accept it rather than fight it, because after all why not do what makes you happy, if it doesn't hurt either others or yourself?


View original postIn that sense it's different from the large majority of other 'mental health issues' which either make the patient unhappy in a way that cannot be resolved, or cause danger or harm or impairment to the patient, or pose a risk to others (or some combination of those).


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View original postAnd I would challenge the statement that "doesn't everyone have at least some kind of mental health issue". I don't. Most everyone I know doesn't have any mental health issue. I'm not plagued with OCD, body dismorphia, clinical depression, clinical anxiety, bipolar or any other assortment of mental health issues. The fact that we, as a society, are willing to talk about it now and help people address their issues is fantastic.


View original postI was just pointing out how vague a description 'mental health issue' is - it could mean almost anything, down to someone waking up in a bad mood for no discernible reason. But you clarified you meant it in a much more specific sense, so okay.

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Self-Identification vs. Mental Health Issue *trigger warning* Jeordam - 06/03/2017 08:53:17 PM 1037 Views
I have to say I'm very confused about what your question is... and I don't think it's just me. Legolas - 07/03/2017 12:04:27 AM 762 Views
Yes, I'm talking about... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:03:18 PM 781 Views
Okay, clear. Legolas - 07/03/2017 06:50:00 PM 768 Views
<3 *NM* nossy - 07/03/2017 06:57:23 PM 380 Views
Mind over Matter? Jeordam - 07/03/2017 09:06:53 PM 745 Views
Mind over body might've been more apt. I believe I did answer your question actually. Legolas - 07/03/2017 10:41:01 PM 838 Views
Let's be clear.... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 11:17:02 PM 716 Views
By all means. Legolas - 07/03/2017 11:58:41 PM 749 Views
Well that's the crux of the topic isn't it.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 05:48:50 PM 656 Views
That takes us right back to body vs mind, doesn't it? Legolas - 08/03/2017 07:13:32 PM 711 Views
Well that would be the difference... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 08:54:59 PM 762 Views
So do tell me what in fact the purpose of our discussion is, then? Legolas - 08/03/2017 09:40:09 PM 707 Views
What can I possibly say? Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:45:54 PM 715 Views
There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM 713 Views
That brings us all the way back around.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 09:05:40 PM 763 Views
Because nossy - 08/03/2017 09:30:37 PM 761 Views
Two things... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:50:32 PM 704 Views
you're missing a rather obvious difference, aren't you? damookster - 08/03/2017 09:50:09 PM 734 Views
Yeah, Snoop was just saying the same. nossy - 08/03/2017 10:14:41 PM 768 Views
Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 07:12:26 PM 739 Views
Re: Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... nossy - 09/03/2017 08:52:30 PM 832 Views
So two conversations now..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:39:55 PM 721 Views
Re: So two conversations now..... nossy - 09/03/2017 10:23:39 PM 710 Views
And this is what you're overlooking.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 10:47:47 PM 748 Views
I could be wrong nossy - 09/03/2017 11:15:22 PM 717 Views
Sex vs Gender Jeordam - 09/03/2017 11:33:54 PM 700 Views
So this is an interesting point..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:56:12 PM 740 Views
Sure about that? damookster - 09/03/2017 08:53:14 PM 707 Views
It's a mater of persepctive.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:12:09 PM 725 Views
wrong damookster - 09/03/2017 09:41:53 PM 652 Views
Sure. Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:57:48 PM 766 Views
sure, could be damookster - 09/03/2017 11:56:31 PM 677 Views
I feel like this has been said several times already, in several ways Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 04:10:27 PM 716 Views
It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Jeordam - 10/03/2017 06:01:06 PM 726 Views
Re: It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 07:58:57 PM 713 Views
I find your wording problematic and agenda driven. damookster - 07/03/2017 11:58:03 PM 729 Views
I appolozie if I offended Jeordam - 08/03/2017 06:18:41 PM 719 Views
no worries damookster - 08/03/2017 06:36:10 PM 735 Views
It always goes from it doesn't hurt anyone to the whole world has to change accommodate me *NM* random thoughts - 10/03/2017 02:46:38 AM 435 Views
That's true - doesn't change the issue as such but certainly there's intolerance on that side too. *NM* Legolas - 10/03/2017 07:45:43 AM 370 Views
Both extremes are dangerous random thoughts - 10/03/2017 12:59:41 PM 771 Views
Take your trigger warnings back to tumblr where they belong ßelals Girl - 07/03/2017 12:21:05 PM 858 Views
*ha* Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:04:10 PM 757 Views
I self-identify as a deity, so I need you to use My preferred pronouns in reference to Myself Cannoli - 07/03/2017 05:15:56 PM 674 Views
So I could self-identify aerocontrols - 08/03/2017 12:36:39 AM 683 Views
I read through this thread. kazetaran - 10/03/2017 12:44:03 AM 1017 Views
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