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There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM

People who suffer from anorexia see themselves in the mirror and believe that they are overweight, even though they are not. They do not accurately perceive external reality.

People who suffer from gender dysphoria look in the mirror and accurately perceives external reality; it is that accurate perception which causes distress. They don't look at themselves and think "I have a female body." They look at themselves and think "I have the wrong body."

That is not what people with anorexia think. Yes, both look at the mirror and don't like what they see, but a person with anorexia doesn't like what they see because they see something that is untrue. A person with gender dysphoria doesn't like what they see because they see things accurately and feel a disconnect with what they are seeing.

"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
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Self-Identification vs. Mental Health Issue *trigger warning* Jeordam - 06/03/2017 08:53:17 PM 1124 Views
I have to say I'm very confused about what your question is... and I don't think it's just me. Legolas - 07/03/2017 12:04:27 AM 848 Views
Yes, I'm talking about... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:03:18 PM 868 Views
Okay, clear. Legolas - 07/03/2017 06:50:00 PM 854 Views
<3 *NM* nossy - 07/03/2017 06:57:23 PM 413 Views
Mind over Matter? Jeordam - 07/03/2017 09:06:53 PM 820 Views
Mind over body might've been more apt. I believe I did answer your question actually. Legolas - 07/03/2017 10:41:01 PM 931 Views
Let's be clear.... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 11:17:02 PM 814 Views
By all means. Legolas - 07/03/2017 11:58:41 PM 842 Views
Well that's the crux of the topic isn't it.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 05:48:50 PM 764 Views
That takes us right back to body vs mind, doesn't it? Legolas - 08/03/2017 07:13:32 PM 793 Views
Well that would be the difference... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 08:54:59 PM 852 Views
So do tell me what in fact the purpose of our discussion is, then? Legolas - 08/03/2017 09:40:09 PM 790 Views
What can I possibly say? Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:45:54 PM 791 Views
There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM 802 Views
That brings us all the way back around.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 09:05:40 PM 856 Views
Because nossy - 08/03/2017 09:30:37 PM 854 Views
Two things... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:50:32 PM 797 Views
you're missing a rather obvious difference, aren't you? damookster - 08/03/2017 09:50:09 PM 813 Views
Yeah, Snoop was just saying the same. nossy - 08/03/2017 10:14:41 PM 849 Views
Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 07:12:26 PM 828 Views
Re: Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... nossy - 09/03/2017 08:52:30 PM 928 Views
So two conversations now..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:39:55 PM 813 Views
Re: So two conversations now..... nossy - 09/03/2017 10:23:39 PM 805 Views
And this is what you're overlooking.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 10:47:47 PM 830 Views
I could be wrong nossy - 09/03/2017 11:15:22 PM 801 Views
Sex vs Gender Jeordam - 09/03/2017 11:33:54 PM 784 Views
So this is an interesting point..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:56:12 PM 818 Views
Sure about that? damookster - 09/03/2017 08:53:14 PM 792 Views
It's a mater of persepctive.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:12:09 PM 819 Views
wrong damookster - 09/03/2017 09:41:53 PM 723 Views
Sure. Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:57:48 PM 849 Views
sure, could be damookster - 09/03/2017 11:56:31 PM 750 Views
I feel like this has been said several times already, in several ways Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 04:10:27 PM 792 Views
It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Jeordam - 10/03/2017 06:01:06 PM 817 Views
Re: It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 07:58:57 PM 798 Views
I find your wording problematic and agenda driven. damookster - 07/03/2017 11:58:03 PM 809 Views
I appolozie if I offended Jeordam - 08/03/2017 06:18:41 PM 813 Views
no worries damookster - 08/03/2017 06:36:10 PM 820 Views
It always goes from it doesn't hurt anyone to the whole world has to change accommodate me *NM* random thoughts - 10/03/2017 02:46:38 AM 476 Views
That's true - doesn't change the issue as such but certainly there's intolerance on that side too. *NM* Legolas - 10/03/2017 07:45:43 AM 417 Views
Both extremes are dangerous random thoughts - 10/03/2017 12:59:41 PM 863 Views
Take your trigger warnings back to tumblr where they belong ßelals Girl - 07/03/2017 12:21:05 PM 959 Views
*ha* Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:04:10 PM 850 Views
I self-identify as a deity, so I need you to use My preferred pronouns in reference to Myself Cannoli - 07/03/2017 05:15:56 PM 762 Views
So I could self-identify aerocontrols - 08/03/2017 12:36:39 AM 779 Views
I read through this thread. kazetaran - 10/03/2017 12:44:03 AM 1125 Views
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