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There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM

People who suffer from anorexia see themselves in the mirror and believe that they are overweight, even though they are not. They do not accurately perceive external reality.

People who suffer from gender dysphoria look in the mirror and accurately perceives external reality; it is that accurate perception which causes distress. They don't look at themselves and think "I have a female body." They look at themselves and think "I have the wrong body."

That is not what people with anorexia think. Yes, both look at the mirror and don't like what they see, but a person with anorexia doesn't like what they see because they see something that is untrue. A person with gender dysphoria doesn't like what they see because they see things accurately and feel a disconnect with what they are seeing.

"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
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Self-Identification vs. Mental Health Issue *trigger warning* Jeordam - 06/03/2017 08:53:17 PM 1013 Views
I have to say I'm very confused about what your question is... and I don't think it's just me. Legolas - 07/03/2017 12:04:27 AM 731 Views
Yes, I'm talking about... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:03:18 PM 756 Views
Okay, clear. Legolas - 07/03/2017 06:50:00 PM 738 Views
<3 *NM* nossy - 07/03/2017 06:57:23 PM 370 Views
Mind over Matter? Jeordam - 07/03/2017 09:06:53 PM 713 Views
Mind over body might've been more apt. I believe I did answer your question actually. Legolas - 07/03/2017 10:41:01 PM 795 Views
Let's be clear.... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 11:17:02 PM 690 Views
By all means. Legolas - 07/03/2017 11:58:41 PM 717 Views
Well that's the crux of the topic isn't it.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 05:48:50 PM 630 Views
That takes us right back to body vs mind, doesn't it? Legolas - 08/03/2017 07:13:32 PM 685 Views
Well that would be the difference... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 08:54:59 PM 743 Views
So do tell me what in fact the purpose of our discussion is, then? Legolas - 08/03/2017 09:40:09 PM 684 Views
What can I possibly say? Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:45:54 PM 688 Views
There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM 687 Views
That brings us all the way back around.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 09:05:40 PM 740 Views
Because nossy - 08/03/2017 09:30:37 PM 724 Views
Two things... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:50:32 PM 674 Views
you're missing a rather obvious difference, aren't you? damookster - 08/03/2017 09:50:09 PM 704 Views
Yeah, Snoop was just saying the same. nossy - 08/03/2017 10:14:41 PM 749 Views
Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 07:12:26 PM 720 Views
Re: Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... nossy - 09/03/2017 08:52:30 PM 809 Views
So two conversations now..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:39:55 PM 695 Views
Re: So two conversations now..... nossy - 09/03/2017 10:23:39 PM 681 Views
And this is what you're overlooking.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 10:47:47 PM 724 Views
I could be wrong nossy - 09/03/2017 11:15:22 PM 692 Views
Sex vs Gender Jeordam - 09/03/2017 11:33:54 PM 679 Views
So this is an interesting point..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:56:12 PM 714 Views
Sure about that? damookster - 09/03/2017 08:53:14 PM 681 Views
It's a mater of persepctive.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:12:09 PM 702 Views
wrong damookster - 09/03/2017 09:41:53 PM 625 Views
Sure. Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:57:48 PM 734 Views
sure, could be damookster - 09/03/2017 11:56:31 PM 656 Views
I feel like this has been said several times already, in several ways Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 04:10:27 PM 693 Views
It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Jeordam - 10/03/2017 06:01:06 PM 699 Views
Re: It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 07:58:57 PM 690 Views
I find your wording problematic and agenda driven. damookster - 07/03/2017 11:58:03 PM 707 Views
I appolozie if I offended Jeordam - 08/03/2017 06:18:41 PM 691 Views
no worries damookster - 08/03/2017 06:36:10 PM 707 Views
It always goes from it doesn't hurt anyone to the whole world has to change accommodate me *NM* random thoughts - 10/03/2017 02:46:38 AM 425 Views
That's true - doesn't change the issue as such but certainly there's intolerance on that side too. *NM* Legolas - 10/03/2017 07:45:43 AM 355 Views
Both extremes are dangerous random thoughts - 10/03/2017 12:59:41 PM 737 Views
Take your trigger warnings back to tumblr where they belong ßelals Girl - 07/03/2017 12:21:05 PM 832 Views
*ha* Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:04:10 PM 721 Views
I self-identify as a deity, so I need you to use My preferred pronouns in reference to Myself Cannoli - 07/03/2017 05:15:56 PM 647 Views
So I could self-identify aerocontrols - 08/03/2017 12:36:39 AM 658 Views
I read through this thread. kazetaran - 10/03/2017 12:44:03 AM 986 Views
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